Re: [40Whacks] Has Andrew Borden's reputation suffered as the result of misandry?
- Thanks June.I think you hit the nail on the head.Authors relied on people like Hiram Harrington to base their opinions of Andrew Borden.Personally, I believe Hiram Harrington resented Andrew's money making prowess. Even though he gave his sister Laurana $3,000 for her share of their father's house, Hiram still felt cheated. He proved this when he told reporters that Andrew wanted Laurana to pay the $3 water tax which was due.Lizzie is the one who should have felt slighted, as her father paid her and Emma only $5,000 for that house. Guess Hiram was irritated by the $30 a month they were collecting in rents. No author ever mentioned who collected the rents. Lizzie and Emma, or their father. My guess? He did.Muriel----- Original Message -----From: Rev COALSent: Monday, December 04, 2006 8:14 AMSubject: Re: [40Whacks] Has Andrew Borden's reputation suffered as the result of misandry?I think Andrew Borden's bad rep for the most part occurred well after his death; when you read contemporary news accounts quoting his acquaintances, they for the most part had positive things to say about him.
That's not to say that Borden was a warm, cozy, hail-fellow- well-met personality; he surely was not, but he was just as surely par-for-the- course for a Victorian gentleman living in New England and raised and steeped in its traditions, which includes what is perceived to be a "cold personality" (which continues to this day, I may add).
Sure he had enemies, what astute businessman doesn't (there are plently of people who hate Donald Trump, for instance)? But most of his contemporaries viewed either favorably, or at least not as being odd.
The revisionism started at least a generation later, a time frame coinciding with the growth in popularity of Freud's theories, which I believe influenced those first, and subsequent, writers.
Suddenly people were starting to conjecture about what was "wrong" with the Borden family, oddly sympathizing with Lizzie while at the same time assuming her guilt, and looking to place the blame for what allegedly made her a killer onto someone else.
It was at this time that Abby's life and personality were turned into the equivalent of a doormat, and Andrew was cast as a penny-pinching tyrant, reputations neither had during their lifetimes -- except perhaps by a few people who, for their own reasons, already disliked one or the other, and it is on these threadbare opinions from a couple of gripers that later authors based their psychological profiles of the 2 victims.
From: Muriel Arnold
Sent: Monday, December 4, 2006 12:40 AM
To: 40Whacks@yahoogroup s.com
Subject: Re: [40Whacks] Has Andrew Borden's reputation suffered as the result of misandry?Hi June:Thank you very much for said information but it is still confusing, as the question is: "Has Andrew Borden's reputation suffered as the result of misandry?"I'd like to know in what way Andrew Borden's reputation would suffer. Lizzie did not fear her father and he did not fear her.I never gave too much thought about what some people considered them to be dysfunctional. I disagree with that statement and can't help but want a clarification as to why it was obvious to everyone except me. Was her doing what she wanted to do, and her friends were mostly school teachers, tells me she was from a family a long way from being dysfunctional.Got to go. Thanks JuneMuriel----- Original Message -----From: Rev COALSent: Sunday, December 03, 2006 7:08 PMSubject: Re: [40Whacks] Has Andrew Borden's reputation suffered as the result of misandry?
>P.S. Would someone please tell me what the hell misandry
It is the mirror of misogyny; misogyny = hatred/fear/ prejudice of/towards
women (usually by men), misandry = hatred/fear/ prejudice of/towards men
(usually by women).