Love and Pain!
Love with wisdom is bliss. Love without knowledge or wisdom is pain. Why is
there pain in love? That is what you are wondering or questioning about! It
is not love which is giving you pain. If it is just purely love, that means
you just care for someone, you want the best for them, and then there is no
pain. But when you want something in return from them or you have demands
from them, then there is pain.
What to do to always be happy? First, drop the feverishness to hold onto
ALWAYS and you will find yourself happy. And then, if some moments of
unpleasantness creep into life, accept that also.
A very good beginning point. See that you don�t become cynical and
frustrated. Skepticism is perfectly alright, but not cynicism. That drains
your energy. One can be skeptical to begin one�s journey and I would very
much appreciate and welcome that. Because you would have gone through
skepticism, the faith will be strongly built.
When mind is free from lust, greed, possessiveness, arrogance etc., when the
mind is in the pure form with which we were all born with, then nature
listens to you. You are a child of nature and nature loves you. When that
manifests, when you are clear then two things happen - your wishes get
fulfilled and you can fulfill others� wishes also.
The effect of divine energy is such that it transforms all the negative
tendencies in the mind. Whatever has been said in Yogasutras, �Tat sanidho
vair tyaga�, is very true � One gets free from the feeling of animosity in
the company of truth, in the company of those who practice meditation.
With Thanks & Regards
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