Never, Ever Complain Acceptance is what you see among children. That s why they re always happy, with smiling faces. The childlike innocence is in youJul 4, 2009 1 of 176View SourceNever, Ever Complain
"Acceptance is what you see among children.
That's why they're always happy, with smiling
faces. The childlike innocence is in you always.
Remember that. So, leave it to God:
`God, whatever you do is fine for me.'
Accept God's ways. Never, ever complain.
If God gives something, accept it. If God
doesn't give, accept it. Rise above the
likes and dislikes, wants and don't wants.
Then, you can be happy, always. Nobody wants
to be unhappy. So don't create unhappiness
in your life. The simple way to be always
happy is to accept everything: profit or
loss, pain or pleasure, praise or blame.
Nobody needs to give you happiness. It is
your own. You are happy, but if you want to
make yourself unhappy, go ahead until you
learn to be happy.
"God bless you. OM Shanti, Shanti, Shanti."
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Question: How can I know when to serve others and when it is best for me to say no without guilt? Sri Swami Satchidananda: You yourself should know how muchOct 26 176 of 176View Source
Question: How can I know when to serve others and when it is best for me to say no without guilt?
Sri Swami Satchidananda: You yourself should know how much you can give. You cannot give beyond your capacity. If you have done a lot of service that day, and if you are really tired, you should say no. Otherwise, you are saying no to your own body or mind. In the name of helping others, you should not put your body into a situation where it might get hurt. Your conscience will tell you if you are just finding an excuse; but if you really need the rest, then you can honestly say no. You don't have to feel guilty about it.
Why should you feel guilty? Nobody expects you to go beyond your capacity, If you try to do something beyond your capacity, you might even make a mess of it. So, know your capacity, know your limitations. Then offer your services. There's no need to feel guilty at all. If you feel guilty, then maybe you can do it but you just don't want to. If your conscience is clear, you don't have to feel guilty.
Ask advice from your own pure Self. Your conscience is always clean. That's the part of God in you. It's what you call the guru within. It's not necessary to always get advice from someone outside. The conscience is constantly giving us advice, but often we don't listen to it. We don't even want to listen. Someone else can only help you for a while. You should learn to ask that buddy within.
Sometimes you might feel a conflict: "I don't know which is the Self and which is the ego. One says 'Do it;' the other says, 'Don't do it.'" In that case go to someone who is capable of recognizing the difference. But, ultimately, we have to develop the capacity to discriminate within ourselves. That is why meditation is so important. Until you become established in that, at least in meditation you should be able to hear your own inner Self.
Om Shanthi, Shanthi, Shanthi