Yep... ya pretty much got it... Even today seating is an important social key to status and postion... go to a bank and ask to talk to the manager forMessage 1 of 49 , Mar 1, 2004View SourceYep... ya' pretty much got it...Even today seating is an important social key to status and postion... go to a bank and ask to talk to the manager for example... chances are you'll be ushered into a separate side office... and you'll sit in a regular cloth covered chair (padded... but barely)... with a fairly low back. The manager, on the other hand will be sitting *behind the desk* in a fairly substantial chair that reclines, rotates, is quite possibly leather and quite cushy... heck it might even be heated and have a swimming pool out back. If you think this is only because THEY work there all day and need a comfy place to work... guess again... look around the bank and see what everybody ELSE gets to sit in...Board meetings... check out WHERE people set... the big guys will normally sit at the head of the board table... possibly centered on one side... now... look at a feast hall... or the dias at court. Seein' a connection here?Look at our courts... the judge is elevated and sits in the comfiest chair... guess what Kings and great men did *in the day*... they heard the appeals of the populous... another holdover of ancient custom. Hey... the purpose was partially functional and... well... partially *functional*.Big chairs and elevated platforms put you above everybody else... you can be clearly seen and heard... and its what YOU have to say thats important... the *functional* point is the psychological message that "I'm special... you're not...">> The point being, that the
>> with far more space than any one person can reasonably inhabit. The
>> rest of us "peasants" get moresuitably-sized vehicles.Yeppers... status has always been important. Yuppies were amateurs compared to some of our forebears... Excess has always been a hallmark of status... the message being, "Because I can..."Chas.
Wow! The original of that conversation string goes WAY back. *counts on fingers* Eight months or so!!!!! Dragano rmhowe wrote: ...Message 49 of 49 , Oct 13, 2004View SourceWow! The original of that conversation string goes WAY back. *counts on fingers* Eight months or so!!!!!Dragano
rmhowe <MMagnusM@...> wrote:
James Winkler wrote:
> Parameters are funny things... kinda' like dogs. Most mutts are easy
> goin' and just wanna' be scratched and petted now and then... Some like
> to be rough-housed around with... some like to sit on the front porch
> and growl at everything that walks by. So you'll find the range of
> opinions and attitudes in the SCA. Most are pretty tolerant and easy
> going... there are some who seem to have socialization problems of one
> sort or another and anybody can have a bad day.
> If it folks or dogs growl... give em' room.
> If folks or dogs wanna' play... they'll play. If not... they won't....
> If folks or dogs act up... smack em' with a newspaper... or a chunk of
> rattan if they're in armor...
I find that the simple truth is always the best defense myself.
Sometimes there are differing ideas of what the truth is but I
generally have found that simply repeating what comes out of
some peoples' mouths in front of them is usually what it takes
to rein them in when it becomes necessary under the right circumstances.
> Bottom line... all depends on which pack of dogs ya' decide to run with
> as to what you're SCA experience will be like... welcome to the new
> middle ages.
98% of the SCA are very nice folks.
The other two percent usually have some serious problems.
And honestly, those we don't discourage can become really
obnoxious at times. My personal pet peeve is the honorary
peerage, which isn't one of the three the SCA officially
recognizes but some of whom are determined to prove how
much better they are than anyone else and bask in their
personal glory. Which rattles my personal chain from time to time.
This is a much lower % than the general population however.
And honestly, around here at least, if they aren't sitting
the throne they tend to be largely ignored.
As I have grown older I have become much more specific about
the kinds of folks I want to associate with. This generally
excludes the social climbers, problem peers with exalted attitudes
about how much better they and their opinions are than anyone
else's, those who take unfair or dishonest advantage of
kindnesses shown to them, etc.
I suppose it's the egalitarian in me. I don't believe anyone
is better than anyone else. However, I seriously believe that
some people can show themselves beneath many other people.
Depends on the attitude.
> Three Finger Charlie
> Thank you all for your replies. I was just trying to get a feel for
> the parameters within which I would feel comfortable engaging with
> other SCA members. I will be attending my first event on March 13th
> (The Winter's End Collegium and Competition in Huntsville, AL).
> Shoes and headgear be damned....let the fun begin!
The SCA isn't anything worth sweating blood over for your first event.
I have never heard of famous rudenesses in Meridies as I have several
other kingdoms I won't name. But three of seventeen or so really isn't
that bad as a whole for the SCA. I shouldn't wait six months to attend
your first event. The SCA is however probably the most inclusive
group you may ever join. Some may very well become your friends
for most of your remaining life if you aren't careful.
Ask who the Chatelaine is who controls the Golden
Key (Garb hoard) in your area. It's their job to help you integrate
and feel comfortable among us. It does help to tell people you are
new and introduce yourself. The reason is there are so MANY people
in the SCA and they are so busy with their own projects, activities
and old friends they may very well think you have your own already
and simply don't know you because they think you're from another area.
This is where many newcomers think the SCA is ignoring them - but in the
vast majority of times they are not being ignored at all - they won't
know you are new and need help if you don't tell them. Walk up
and introduce yourself. If your local officers have any sense they
ask at events and meetings who's new. Then they welcome them, or
should. My very big barony has grown from circa 30 people 23 years
ago in three cantons to around 500 in about to be six cantons and
unaffiliated outlying areas. Heck, we don't know all of US.
No one expects you to show up looking 100% for the first few years,
or decades, in this particular reenactment group. The SCA began as
a party and has continued in that tradition. The fact that certain
members have improved things and research since then is laudable
but by no means obligatory for new people. When you see folks
depicting the pre-christian era at an event with people doing
Elizabethan from maybe 2000 years later it gets a bit jarring.
This leads to themed events and sometimes to alternate groups entirely.
Regia Anglorum [ http://www.regia.org/ ]
are probably the greatest sticklers for early medieval authenticity
and refer to other groups as superficially similar societies or SSS.
However - What was particularly hilarious to me, and I saw/read it
happen at the time, was when Regia first began interaction with a number
of SCA Laurels on the North American list and found out many of our SCA
researchers were pretty much up to snuff, or possibly a bit ahead
of theirs. So it goes. Right now it's pretty much mutual respect.
Since the paid membership of the SCA is nearly 50 times larger than
Regia's it also figures we have a larger number of serious researchers.
They just happened to attract some of the ones interested in their
time period right at first. Funny was what it was. Really. Then again
the SCA has been around nearly twice as long as Regia has too.
I'm a paid member of both groups myself.
It's not who you are, or who you think you are, but what you learn
and share and do with others. Everyone shares, everyone wins - with the
simple disclaimer that there are always 'edicated idiots' out there
who must be sifted out in their diverse opinions. You don't want
to be taking advice about using chemicals from someone who is not a
chemist for example. They could advise you to harm yourself.
Magnus, OL, SCA / Regia / Manx / Great Dark Horde
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