Back from Europe, but with a mean cold. I prayed very much for all of you while there!
Prayers, please, for the happy death and eternal rest of my Dad (+1960), the Jerome whose name I proudly took in religion. He would have been 95 yesterday. Also for the happy death and eternal rest of Ned, who died this morning, for his wife and grown children and all his family, especially nieces Petrina and Claudia.
Prayers, please, for Frank, jobless for two years, despite excellent skills in his field.
Prayers for F., spouse moved out and having an affair, son with mental illness has quit his job and for the return of all this family to the Faith and the Sacraments and, if possible, to unity.
Prayers for K., sexual identity and parental issues, a lot of inner healing needed.
For Bruce and Susan, to return to unity in their marriage after a long separation, and for Bruce's financial issues.
For Jude, a Nigerian seeking permanent US resident visa, interview this week.
For the grace of final persverance for Robert and his family.
Prayers for Tania, surgery on her only sighted eye and no guaranetees she won't be blinded. Lord, help us all as You know and will. God's will is best. All is mercy and grace. od is never absent, praise Him! THanks so much. JL
March 7, July 7, November 6
Chapter 30: How Boys Are to Be Corrected
Every age and degree of understanding
should have its proper measure of discipline.
With regard to boys and adolescents, therefore,
or those who cannot understand the seriousness
of the penalty of excommunication,
whenever such as these are delinquent
let them be subjected to severe fasts
or brought to terms by harsh beatings,
that they may be cured.
We are, after all, creatures of our own age, for better or worse.
Every age has its hotspots and button-pushers, so it should amaze no
one that many freak out immediately on the phrase "harsh beatings." ("Calm
down now, breathe deeply. Paramedics will be here any minute
now..Try not to speak...We'll see if we can get that dosage adjusted
for you so you won't have these dreadful fugues anymore...")
Don't let our own age's revulsion at corporal punishment (which was
thought perfectly sane when St. Benedict wrote,) blind you to the
pearl of great price herein. "Every age and degree of understanding
should have its proper measure of discipline."
Probably unintentional (but the Holy Spirit can sneak a lot of His
stuff into our words,) is the poetic ambiguity of the words "every
age." That can mean all ages of an individual AND all ages of
history. Quite evidently, the best minds of our own age no longer
subscribe to beating sense into someone as a terribly useful method.
So we affirm that and move on to the good stuff here.
The good stuff is personalism in the extreme. Every person is
different at every stage of their lives and every age in which people
are born produces different people. The stuff that horrified my
mother's generation often amuses me. I chuckle, or laugh right out
loud. Most of us can probably say that. We are different from the
generations before us because everything that formed us was NOT
identical to the external forces which formed our elders.
Think of the people you have thought were mean. I'll bet that there
is a statistically significant trend among them, a tendency to "one
size fits all" in punishment. Not so, folks, not so. Any who think
that one size fits all must have their vision deflected to either the
law itself or their own annoyance, but they certainly couldn't hold
such a position if they were actually looking at the person before
St. Benedict wants us to look at the person at all times, not just in
figuring out a punishment or discipline. Look at the person, LOOK,
really look at the other. Why? because in the confusing mosaic of all
those others we shall see Christ, to Whom we must prefer nothing,
because He is really, truly there. Over time and with struggles, that
kaleidoscopic mess of bits will emerge into a truest portrait, even if
only in Heaven. We shall, when we see Christ at last, recognize Him
better and at once because of all His people who have given us
glimpses, no matter how slight.
Love and prayers,
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