Please pray for the happy death and eternal repose of:
Denise on the second anniversary of her passing.
Arthur on the anniversary of his passing.
Please continue to pray for Angela's discernment and for strength
and wisdom for Shawna.
Please pray for Susanne who is in the hospital with serious
abdominal problems while her father is suffering serious problem
with senility. Also for Pat her mother who is trying to hold it all
Please pray for:
Carmen who is getting over a serious bout of bronchial pneumonia.
People in Jim's parishes who are having problems with reorganization
of those parishes.
Also prayer for all those you are members either today or in the
past of this forum.
Please pray for D.: unexpected breakup with fiancée has left her
devastated and practically unable to keep up with her studies at
college. Today is especially hard as it would have been their 2nd
Please pray for an answer to problems with a business deal between
Ann and her daughter; that they will not cause a break in their
relationship. Also for the the company where Ann works. There is a
lot of stress at the end of each month.
Please pray for the firefighters (2 at latest reports) now fighting
for their lives and several
others who were severely burned/injured yesterday when caught in a
flash-over in a Washington D.C. townhouse fire.
Please pray for Sylvia very serious condition of depression.
+Please pray that Divine Mercy will shine upon all those who have
taken their own lives.+
Please pray for all those whose prayer requests were not able to be
posted for whatever reason. God is outside of time and our prayers
are never, ever late. Lord, help us all as You know and will. God's
will is best. All is mercy and grace. God is never absent, praise
Him! Thanks so much. JL
Until the return of our good Brother Jerome please bless me with
your prayer requests at:
March 1, July 1, October 31
Chapter 24: What the Measure of Excommunication Should Be
The measure of excommunication or of chastisement should correspond
to the degree of fault, which degree is estimated by the judgment
of the Abbess.
If a sister is found guilty of lighter faults, let her be excluded
from the common table. Now the program for one deprived of the
company of the table shall be as follows: In the oratory she shall
intone neither Psalm nor antiphon nor shall she recite a lesson
until she has made satisfaction; in the refectory she shall take
her food alone after the community meal,
so that if they eat at the sixth hour, for instance, that sister
shall eat at the ninth, while if they eat at the ninth hour she
shall eat in the evening, until by a suitable satisfaction she
Let's face it, St. Benedict has a lot to say about excommunication-
a clumsy term, perhaps, because people often assume it means
excommunication from the Church, which is the only sense of the
word we commonly have today. It does not, of course mean that, just
a punishment of exclusion from certain community functions.
Let's face something else, at least in this chapter. Fasting an
extra three hours might not be lovely, but no intoning in choir?
What bad news! Gosh... Even many of us who CAN sing would look at
that as a nice break!
And eating alone? Well, the extra fast wasn't great, but I sure
missed that droning reader and the tedious book we've been reading.
What awful luck!
See the difference in perception a millennium or so can make? That
may be a large part of why the penal code is not followed today:
some of its punishments simply make little sense to modern
monastics, some seem mean, and others (as above,) seem like
The rest of this applies with great ease to family situations,
marital situations and the workplace. Something must be gleaned
from all this legislation for punishment: the one at fault must be
told when something is wrong. That, after all, is the only reason
for punishment, to be a wake up call.
Unfortunately, the monastic hatred of personal confrontation
endemic in our ranks assumes (because it is easiest to do so,)
sufficient brilliance for all to sooner or later figure out that
they are amiss. It just ain't so, folks, sorry! Things fester when
they go ignored
for years. Things that someone should have dealt with gently, but
firmly and even summarily, in formation or childhood, torture the
family in later years.
Look, it is hard, VERY hard, to confront a predictably stubborn or
difficult child or monastic or spouse or employee on a bad day.
It's easy to see why one would rather not do so. But the Holy Rule
asks many things that are difficult of us, and this one is
for the good of all, both the offender and the offended.
Please take very careful note, however, of the gentleness and real
concern that is essential if such confrontations are to succeed.
Explosive, violent tactics, harsh words and actions at the first
hint of trouble are not the monastic way. There is charity, always
charity first. If we
cannot be sure of that selfless love in ourselves, we would
sometimes do far better
to remain silent.
We must avoid the false charity, (really just cowardice in polite
drag,) that omits making these difficult corrections. It goes a
long way to making everyone's life hellish in the future. Sometimes
that false charity can also be hatred or violence or revenge in
pious disguise, and that is equally terrible, and also goes along
way to making others miserable.
Also, in workplace especially, bear in mind that the authority
figure here is the abbot, not the rank and file. One dare not
assume all those prerogatives as a peer and equal. Fraternal
correction will get a chapter of its own later on, but it is not a
mantle to be assumed lightly. We must beware of the other extreme:
becoming universal policing agents for all and sundry. A tiny spark
of Gestapo flickers in many of our all too human hearts. Do nothing
to fan the flame!
Love and prayers,