Prayers, please, for Michael LoPiccolo. Now he, who has done so much to help
me out when I couldn't get on line, is having terrible troubles with his
on-line connection. He asked me to tell you that he may not be able to respond
to prayer intentions or other messages. Be assured he would never ignore such
things, if he doesn't get back to you, it is because he can't get on line. If
there is anyway I can help any of you, or relay messages to him by phone,
please let me know. _brjeromeleo@...
Prayers for Brian, anxious about a pending arbitration and its outcome.
Prayers for Nadeem's parents, both very sick, and for Nadeem, who is very worried
about them, and for all their family. Prayers for all who treat us and our
prayer intention folks spiritually, mentally or physically. May God guide and
reward them. Lord, help us all as You know and will. God's will is best. All
is mercy and grace. God is never absent, praise Him! Thanks so much. JL
January 14, May 15, September 14
Chapter 2: What Kind of Person the Abbess Ought to Be
The Abbess should always remember what she is
and what she is called,
and should know that to whom more is committed,
from her more is required (Luke 12:48).
Let her understand also
what a difficult and arduous task she has undertaken:
ruling souls and adapting herself to a variety of characters.
One she must coax, another scold, another persuade,
according to each one's character and understanding.
Thus she must adjust and adapt herself to all
in such a way that she may not only suffer no loss
in the flock committed to her care,
but may even rejoice in the increase of a good flock.
When we read these portions of the Holy Rule which deal with the
Abbot or other officials a very handy suggestion is in order. Read
them to see what the Abbess DOES comply with, not what you feel she
misses, because no one I have ever known in the abbacy is perfect
enough to fulfill them all at all times.
Read them with one eye on who the Abbot or boss or parent really is
as a frail human being, what sort of person he is, and the other eye
focused on what is demanded of him by the Holy Rule. Chapters such as
this one will give you a really valuable insight into what those
officials are wrestling with, a glimpse of how tough it can be to
tread the very fine line.
Parents, fear not! I'll bet Mother Teresa of Calcutta couldn't read
this chapters without cringing a little, maybe even a lot. If your
eyes are even half open, you will see the areas of failure every time
you read them. (If, by some odd oversight, you have missed one or
two, your children are quite likely to point them out to you the next
time they get mad!!)
Use those areas as goals to work on, but don't
beat yourself up on them too badly. Not only does no one ever get
there all at once, but, frankly, I think hardly anyone ever gets there
all the way period. It is death and heaven which finally perfect us.
Meanwhile, we struggle and plod.
Finally, since the majority of us will never be Abbots, read these
portions of the Rule to see how you measure up. How many of these
qualities do you have? When one of the things demanded of the Abbess
is exercised in your regard, how gracefully, even gratefully, do you
receive it? Authority is a two-way street. Any kid who thinks it ALL
devolves on parents hasn't read the Commandments past number three.
There are responsibilities both parties must uphold.
Change "Abbess" to "Christian" and read again. Then add "Benedictine"
to "Christian" and re-check that part about "to whom more is
Love and prayers,
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