There has been much grief in Pakistan after the assassination of Benazir Bhutto. While her supporters have been plunged into despair, many of her cold-hearted naysayers have used the opportunity to heap scorn on the former prime minister of Pakistan.
One person who has risen to the occasion is her niece Fatima Bhutto, who, despite her serious personal and politcal differences with her aunt, has written a beautiful and eloquent piece in her memory.
Fatima is a bright young Pakistani and I had hoped against hope that she and her aunt would make up and resolve their disputes. Just the thought of these two women together who had been steeled in personal tragedies, would have given hope to the impoverished and marginalized people of Pakistan.
I had hoped that perhaps after the death of Benazir, the PPP would have reached out embraced Fatima
and Ghinwa Bhutto back into their fold and opened a new chapter, but alas, the reality of Pakistani politics cannot be divorced from the grudges and disputes of the past. Perhaps it will be Bilawal who will reach out to embrace Pakistan's finest poet, Fatima Bhutto, his cousin. Imagine the effect this would have on the morale of the Pakistani people. But, may be I am just a dreamer. Anyway, here is Fatima Bhutto remembering her phoopi, or as they say in Sindhi, Wadi Bua.
God bless you Fatima as you grieve for your aunt, father and grandfather.
December 31, 2007
By Fatima Bhutto
The News, Pakistan
LARKANA: My aunt and I had a complicated relationship. That is the truth, the sad truth. The last fifteen years were not one we spent as friends or as relatives, that is also the truth. But this week, I too want to remember her differently. I want to remember her differently because I must. I cant lose faith in this country, my home. I cant believe that it
was for nothing, that violence in its purest form is so cruel and so unforgiving. I cant accept that this is what we have come to.
So, I must offer a farewell. One that is written in tears and anger but one that comes from a place far away, from the realm of memory and forgiving - a place where at another time, we might have all been safe. As a child, I used to call my aunt Wadi Bua, Sindhi for fathers older sister.
When I got the news, I was told that something had happened to Wadi Bua. It was an expression I hadnt heard or used in a very long time, when I heard it said to me over the phone I remembered someone different.
We used to read childrens books together. We used to like exactly the same sweets - sugared chestnuts and candied apples. We used to get the same ear infections, ear infections that tortured us and plagued us throughout the years.
I have never before written an article that seemed so
impossible. We were very different. Though people liked to compare us, almost instinctively, because well, they could. It is difficult for me to write about two people, one in the present tense and one in the past, at the same time.
Especially when one persons passing makes the other one wonder whether there is a cusp to things and whether or not there really is a past and present to life.
I never agreed with her politics. I never did. I never agreed with those she kept around her, the political opportunists, hanger-ons, them. They repulse me.
I never agreed with her version of events. Never. But in death, in death perhaps there is a moment to call for calm. To say, enough. We have had enough. We cannot, and we will not, take anymore madness.
I mourn because my family has had enough. I mourn for Bilawal, Bakhtawar, and Asifa. I mourn for them because I too lost a parent. I know what it feels like to be lost and left at sea, unanchored and
I mourn for the workers of the party, those who have been bereaved of their own loved ones in this tragedy.
When congregants gather in a church, temple, or mosque they offer prayers for those that reside beyond. The congregants sing to the heavens and they offer the divine their hymns of sadness and hope. There are no hymns consisting of frustration or anger - this too shall pass, they say, remember that. What hymns do we sing now?
In those hymns, there is hope encapsulated in the sadness. There is a lingering sense that after darkness a dawn will rise. What then do we have to be hopeful for? And how do we proceed to wake the dawn?
I have always been honest with you, I promised that to you at the beginning. Honestly, I am at a loss. I am compounded in a state of shock.
I am in shock because I have yet to bury a loved one who has died from natural causes. Four. Thats the number of family members, immediate family members,
whom we have laid to rest, all victims of senseless, senseless killing.
I was born five years after my grandfather, Zulfikar Ali Bhuttos assassination. I was born into the void of his absence and for my father, Murtaza, I was a new chance at life. I grew up hearing my grandfathers speeches, watching him on old black and white video cassettes, enamoured at his every word. My father was a young man when his father was killed and it was something he carried with him every second, every minute for the rest of his life.
I was three when my uncle Shahnawaz was murdered. I remember Wadi Bua sitting with me and telling me stories while the rest of the family was with the police.
When I was fourteen, my life was ended. I lost my heart and soul, my father Murtaza. I am and have been since then a shell of the person I was. I suppose there are cusps in life, and thank god for that because that way we can stay in between.
And now at twenty five, Wadi.
But this isnt about me, its about those whom we have lost. Its about the graveyard at Garhi Khuda Bux that is just too full.
I pray that this is the last, that from this moment onwards we will no longer have to bid farewell too quickly. . Wadi, farewell.