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When life is tough, don't look around but look up!

NEW POISONOUS SPIDER IN THE UNITED STATES

A spider bite...please read............

And you thought the brown recluse was bad!!!

Three women in North Florida , turned up at hospitals over a 5-day period, all with the same symptoms. Fever, chills, and vomiting, followed by muscular collapse, paralysis, and finally, death.

There were no outward signs of trauma. Autopsy results showed toxicity in the blood.

These women did not know each other, and seemed to have nothing in common

It was discovered, however, that they had all visited the same restaurant (Olive Garden) within days of their deaths. The health department descended on the restaurant, shutting it down. The food, water, and air conditioning were all inspected and tested, to no avail.

The big break came when a waitress at the restaurant was rushed to the hospital with similar symptoms. She told doctors that she had been on vacation, and had only went to the restaurant to pick up her check.

She did not eat or drink while she was there, but had used the restroom.

That is when one toxicologist, remembering an article he had read, drove out to the restaurant, went into the restroom, and lifted the toilet seat.. Under the seat, out of normal view, was a small spider.

The spider was captured and brought back to the lab, where it was determined to be the Two-Striped Telamonia (Telamonia dimidiata ), so named because of its reddened flesh color. This spider's venom is extremely toxic, but can take several days to take effect. They live in cold, dark, damp climates, and toilet rims provide just the right atmosphere.

Several days later a lawyer from Jacksonville showed up at a hospital emergency room. Before his death, he told the doctor, that he had been away on business, had taken a flight from Indonesia , changing planes in Singapore , before returning home. He did not visit (Olive Garden), while there. He did, as did all of the other victims, have what was determined to be a puncture wound, on his right buttock.

Investigators discovered that the flight he was on had originated in India

The Civilian Aeronautics Board (CAB) ordered an immediate inspection of the toilets of all flights from India , and discovered the Two-Striped Telamonia spider's nests on 4 different planes!

It is now believed that these spiders can be anywhere in the country.

So please, before you use a public toilet, lift the seat to check for spiders. It can save your life!

And please pass this on to everyone you care about.

.

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#4000

From: Madhuri N Friends <madhuri4fnds@...>
Date: Sat Jul 12, 2008 8:23 am
Subject: Need good friends

needofadvice

Thinking that this is a good group, just interested to know if anyone can be good email friends? Need a friend who can be real friend in the sense and can share everything, interest, hobbies, family problems, interest..etc..just like a good friend.

Bye
--- On Tue, 22/4/08, Robert McLeod <artdesigntech@...> wrote:

From: Robert McLeod <artdesigntech@...>
Subject: Re: [YOU ARE NOT ALONE GET ADVICE] Fwd: Important in Life
To: youarenotalonegetadvice@yahoogroups.com
Date: Tuesday, 22 April, 2008, 9:00 PM

This only holds true when you know for sure, also if the other person has proven their honesty and you can see their truthfullness, instead of impressing to prove themselves, an affront to entice to get over.

This is not to dissuade anyone, proof, why are there so many dissappointments.

A persons mannerism and characteristics speaks tons, if your match ups agree

Will read over later

Best of loving

Beautiful <beautiful_rainbow20 01us@yahoo. com> wrote:

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that
they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach
you a lesson, or to help you figure out who you are or who you want
to become.

You never know who these people may be - a roommate, a neighbour,
a professor, a friend, a lover, or even a complete stranger - but when
you lock eyes with them, you know at that very moment they will affect
your life in some profound way.

Sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful, and
unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without overcoming
those
obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength,
willpower, or heart.

Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness, and sheer
stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these
small tests, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved
straight flat road to nowhere. It would be safe and comfortable, but
dull and utterly pointless.

The people you meet who affect your life, and the success and downfalls
you experience, help to create who you are and who you become. Even
the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact, they are sometimes
the most important ones.

If someone loves you, give love back to them in whatever way you can,
not only because they love you, but because in a way, they are teaching
you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.

If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them,
for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being
cautious to whom you open your heart.

Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from those
moments everything that you possibly can for you may never be able to
experience it again. Talk to people that you have never talked to
before, and listen to what they have to say.

Let yourself fall in love, break free, and set your sights high. Hold
your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a
great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in
yourself, it will be hard for others to believe in you.

You can make anything you wish of your life. Create your own life and
then go out and live it with absolutely no regrets.

And if you love someone tell them, for you never know what tomorrow may
have in store.

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#4001

From: "g sasy" <gsasy98@...>
Date: Sat Jul 12, 2008 5:33 pm
Subject: HOW TO EASILY GET A WOMEN

gsasy98

HOW TO EASILY GET A WOMEN

#4002

From: Steve Gabany <docgabany@...>
Date: Mon Jul 14, 2008 11:12 am
Subject: Quote of the Day - July 14

docgabany

Had Narcissus himself seen his own face when he had been angry, he could never have fallen in love with himself. -- Thomas Fuller

#4003

From: Steve Gabany <docgabany@...>
Date: Thu Jul 17, 2008 10:11 am
Subject: Quote of the Day - 7/17

docgabany

Faith is under the left nipple. -- Martin Luther

#4004

From: sky land <pinksky2001@...>
Date: Tue Jul 22, 2008 1:04 am
Subject: Friendship

pinksky2001

dear group members,

i have interest in new technology, new throught, and view for new points.

so match this contact me.

#4005

From: "g sasy" <gsasy98@...>
Date: Wed Jul 23, 2008 1:55 am
Subject: THE QUEEN -THE BEAUTY OF CAMBODIA

gsasy98

THE QUEEN -THE BEAUTY OF CAMBODIA

#4006

From: Steve Gabany <docgabany@...>
Date: Thu Jul 24, 2008 9:33 am
Subject: (No subject)

docgabany

#4007

From: "freegary365" <freegary365@...>
Date: Fri Jul 25, 2008 1:20 am
Subject: injustice

freegary365

I have been living in the same apartment for more than 6 and a
half years.  In that time, no one has had any complaint against me.
The management has never issued my wife or I a lease violation of any
kind, and our rent has been nearly two months ahead for years.
Recently  We receaved an eviction notice stating that because I'm a
registerd sex offender "convicted in 94" that I wasn't aloowed to
stay.  Both my wife and I are on a limmeted income. I need somewhere
to rent  that is out of peoples way.  Somewhere that I will not
continue to be punished for my past. all i need is a roof. a hunting
cabbin anything.  I can go back to prison for not regitering.  To do
that I have to have an address.  You can't teel from my past, but I'm
a good person.  No one thats lived here has ever ask for my help and
been turned down.  No one has ever come to my door hungry, and left
without food.  My neighbors like me.  The maintenance men like me.
The manager likes me.  The corporate office want's me out because
that is there rull.  They have never met me.  No one that knows me
has ever been offended by
me.



                                      freegary365@...

#4008

From: "Mark H. Blum" <MarkVader32@...>
Date: Mon Aug 18, 2008 7:42 pm
Subject: hello

marticus30b

I haven't been around here for a while.  My name is Mark.  My brother's
name is Adam, and his Seeing Eye guide dog has Non-hotchkin's
lymphoma.  Nate, the dog is doing well on chemotherapy and the cancer
is in remission.  He still has treatments, though until early winter
2009.

Sorry about the bad news, yet I felt this was the perfect place to post
this message.  I thank you all for your cooperation.

Sincerely,

Mark B.
MarkVader32@..., marticus30b@..., and loganmccoy@....
http://www.aol.com,
http://briefcase.yahoo.com\marticus30b

PS: Thank you!

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#4009

From: Steve Gabany <docgabany@...>
Date: Mon Aug 18, 2008 8:34 am
Subject: Quote of the Day - Aug 18

docgabany

The difference between what is commonly called ordinary company and good
company, is only hearing the same things said in a little room, or in a
large saloon, at small tables or at great tables, before two candles or
twenty sconces.  -- Pope

(Sorry for missing so many days. I was on vacation.)

#4010

From: "Just call me Ging for short!:o)" <benignheart@...>
Date: Tue Aug 19, 2008 3:27 am
Subject: Re: hello

benignheart

Hi Mark! Welcome home!:) I have not heard from you for a long time. I
was wondering where you went. Thank you for stopping by. We will be
praying for your brother.  God can do miraculous things. Let us put
everything in God's hands. His Will be done. Keep looking up Our God
still same today and tomorrow.

Take care and God bless.

Yours truly,

Benignheart:)

--- In youarenotalonegetadvice@yahoogroups.com, "Mark H. Blum"
<MarkVader32@...> wrote:
>
> I haven't been around here for a while.  My name is Mark.  My
brother's
> name is Adam, and his Seeing Eye guide dog has Non-hotchkin's
> lymphoma.  Nate, the dog is doing well on chemotherapy and the
cancer
> is in remission.  He still has treatments, though until early
winter
> 2009.
>
> Sorry about the bad news, yet I felt this was the perfect place to
post
> this message.  I thank you all for your cooperation.
>
> Sincerely,
>
> Mark B.
> MarkVader32@..., marticus30b@..., and loganmccoy@...
> http://www.aol.com,
> http://briefcase.yahoo.com\marticus30b
>
> PS: Thank you!
>

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#4011

From: "Just call me Ging for short!:o)" <benignheart@...>
Date: Tue Aug 19, 2008 4:55 am
Subject: Re: injustice

benignheart

Dear Friend,

I'm Sorry of what happened. Humans tends to hang on the past Bec;
many believes that past behaviour is a predictor of future behaviour.
But not in the eyes of God, God said;"Once we truly repented for our
sins He is faithful and just to  forgives us of all our sins that we
confesses." and He will remember no more of our past. He will make us
new.

Have faith in God, for He has all the answers of all the unknowns in
life when we let Him lead us.  He is a great provider if we trust Him
completely.

I believe you are a compassionate person and very kind and
generous.  God give you a special  gifts that no one can do that its
only you can do. There are certain people that only you can reach
to reach certain person  for the Lord's sake for His kingdom.  When you
walk closer to God and study His words You will see more His plan for
you.

Hard situation in our lives  can make it as a special blessings for
our advantage to become a better person for the Lord. Keep up the
good work my friend.  Its not what  people think of you that matter
the most, it is what God think of you.  EAch one of us in this
universe is the apple in God's eyes. He has compassions for the
errings. He long for everyone to be with Him in His Kingdom.

I know there are consequencess for every choices we chosed. But if we
are willing to take it, God will reward us at the end.

Don't feel bad, know the life of King David. Although, he has done
many unthinkable sins, God still call him His special choosen
servant.  God sees the heart of King David that He is truly repented
of what he did. God forgive Him.  I am touched of King Davids deep
personal prayers found in Psalm 51;

BE praying for your situations. Just remember when God closes one
door He will open another door. Sometimes,its better one. Whatever
may come up your way, take it as God's blessings and Will for you to
have.

Once we put God first in our lives, nothing can be wrong.

Take care and I am proud of you for being so brave to share your
burden.  God bless.

Yours truly,
Benigheart

--- In youarenotalonegetadvice@yahoogroups.com, "freegary365"
<freegary365@...> wrote:
>
>       I have been living in the same apartment for more than 6 and
a
> half years.  In that time, no one has had any complaint against
me.
> The management has never issued my wife or I a lease violation of
any
> kind, and our rent has been nearly two months ahead for years.
> Recently  We receaved an eviction notice stating that because I'm a
> registerd sex offender "convicted in 94" that I wasn't aloowed to
> stay.  Both my wife and I are on a limmeted income. I need
somewhere
> to rent  that is out of peoples way.  Somewhere that I will not
> continue to be punished for my past. all i need is a roof. a
hunting
> cabbin anything.  I can go back to prison for not regitering.  To
do
> that I have to have an address.  You can't teel from my past, but
I'm
> a good person.  No one thats lived here has ever ask for my help
and
> been turned down.  No one has ever come to my door hungry, and left
> without food.  My neighbors like me.  The maintenance men like me.
> The manager likes me.  The corporate office want's me out because
> that is there rull.  They have never met me.  No one that knows me
> has ever been offended by
>
me.
>

>

>

>                                      freegary365@...
>

#4012

From: Steve Gabany <docgabany@...>
Date: Tue Aug 19, 2008 9:19 am
Subject: Quote of the Day - Aug 19

docgabany

Between vague wavering Capability and fixed indubitable Perfor�mance,
what a difference! -- Carlyle

#4013

From: Steve Gabany <docgabany@...>
Date: Thu Aug 21, 2008 9:00 am
Subject: Quote of the Day - 8/21

docgabany

To be clever enough to get all that money, one must be stupid enough to
want it.  -- G.K. Chesterton

#4014

From: Steve Gabany <docgabany@...>
Date: Fri Aug 22, 2008 10:31 am
Subject: Quote of the Day - 8/22

docgabany

God made everything out of nothing. But the nothingness shows through.
-- Valery

#4015

From: Beautiful <beautiful_rainbow2001us@...>
Date: Wed Sep 3, 2008 4:28 am
Subject: Fw: Scars in life

"

Some years ago, on a hot summer day, a little boy decided to go for a swim in the old swimming hole that was behind his house. In a hurry to dive into the cool water, he ran out the back door, leaving behind shoes, socks, and shirt as he went.

He flew into the water, not realizing that as he swam toward the middle of the lake, an alligator was swimming toward the shore.

In the house, his mother was looking out the window. She saw the two as they got closer and closer together. In utter fear, she ran toward the water, yelling to her son as loudly as she could.

Hearing her voice, the little boy became alarmed, and made a U-turn to swim to his mother. It was too late. Just as he reached her, the alligator reached him.

From the dock, the mother grabbed her little boy by the arms, just as the alligator snatched his legs. That began a very incredible tug-of-war between the two.

The alligator was much stronger than the mother, but the mother was much too passionate to let go.

A farmer happened to drive by, heard her screams, raced from his truck, took aim, and shot the alligator.

Remarkably, after weeks and weeks in the hospital, the little boy survived. His legs were extremely scarred by the vicious attack of the animal. On his arms, there were deep scratches where his mother's fingernails dug into his flesh, in her effort to hang on to the son she loved.

The newspaper reporter, who interviewed the boy after the trauma, asked the boy if he would show him his scars.

The boy lifted his pant legs. Then, with obvious pride, he said to the reporter, "But look at my arms. I have great scars on my arms, too. I have them because my Mom wouldn't let go."

You and I can identify with that little boy. We have scars, too. No, not from an alligator, but the scars of a painful past. Some of those scars are unsightly, and have caused us deep regret.

But, some wounds, my friend, are because God has refused to let go.

In the midst of your struggle, He's been right there, holding on to you.

The Bible teaches that God loves you. You are a child of God. He wants to protect you, and provide for you in every way. But, sometimes, we foolishly wade into dangerous situations, not knowing what lies ahead. The swimming hole of life is filled with peril ~ and we forget that the enemy is waiting to attack. That is when the tug-of-war begins. If you have the scars of His love on your arms, be very, very grateful. He will not ever let you go.

Pass this on to those you love. God has blessed you, so that you can be a blessing to others.

You just never know where a person is in his/her life, and what they are going through.

#4016

From: Steve Gabany <docgabany@...>
Date: Sat Aug 23, 2008 8:10 am
Subject: Quote of the Day - 8/23

docgabany

There are but three ways for a man to revenge himself of a censo�rious
world: to despise it, to return the like, or to endeavour to live so as
to avoid it. The first of these is usually pretended; the last is almost
impossible; the universal practice is for the second.  -- Swift

#4017

From: Steve Gabany <docgabany@...>
Date: Sun Aug 24, 2008 10:24 am
Subject: Quote of the Day - 8/24

docgabany

Nothing will ever be attempted, if all possible objections must be first
overcome. -- Dr. Johnson

#4018

From: Beautiful <beautiful_rainbow2001us@...>
Date: Wed Sep 3, 2008 4:42 am
Subject: Fw: Someone had a dream

"The car you drive was designed and built because someone
had a dream. The highway on which you travel is there because
someone had a dream. The telephone you talk on and the
worldwide network to which it is connected, was constructed
because someone had a dream. Achievement begins with a dream.
Yet there are many, many dreams which wither and die without
ever coming to pass. We will never know the benefits which they
could have brought. Great accomplishments come about not only
because someone dreamed of them, but also because someone
believed in the dream enough to walk the long, hard road of
making that dream a reality.
It takes a dream. And then it takes more than a dream. What is
yours? And what are you doing about it? Stop and think for a
moment about all the great things that have ever been achieved.
Someone had a dream. Someone just like you. The world is filled
with possibilities today. Take your pick, and then make it happen.

#4019

From: Steve Gabany <docgabany@...>
Date: Wed Aug 27, 2008 10:57 am
Subject: Quote of the Day - 8/27

docgabany

Somebody?'s boring me;? I think it?s me. -- Dylan Thomas

#4020

From: Steve Gabany <docgabany@...>
Date: Sun Aug 31, 2008 8:06 am
Subject: Quote of the Day - 8/31

docgabany

Fear cannot be without hope nor hope without fear.  -- Spinoza

#4021

From: Steve Gabany <docgabany@...>
Date: Mon Sep 1, 2008 12:27 pm
Subject: Quote of the Day - 9/1

docgabany

No kingdom has ever had as many civil wars as the kingdom of Christ. -- Montesquieu

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#4022

From: Beautiful <beautiful_rainbow2001us@...>
Date: Wed Sep 3, 2008 4:52 am
Subject: Fw: Why do we have tough times

"WHY DO WE HAVE TOUGH TIMES?

Have you ever wondered why we go through the things we do?

God said: If you never felt pain, then how would you know that I'm a Healer?

If you never went through difficulties, how would you know that I'm a Deliverer?

If you never had a trial, how could you call yourself an over comer?

If you never felt sadness, how would you know that I'm a Comforter?

If you never made a mistake, how would you know that I'm forgiving?

If you knew all, how would you know that I will answer your questions?

If you never were in trouble, how would you know that I will come to your rescue?

If you never were broken, then how would know that I can make you whole?

If you never had a problem, how would you know that I can solve them?

If you never had any suffering, then how would you know what Jesus went through?

If you never went through the fire, then how would you become pure?

If I gave you all things, how would you appreciate them?

If I never corrected you, how would you know that I love you?

If you had all power, then how would you learn to depend on me?

If your life was perfect, then what would you need Me for?

Thank you, God!

A.S.A.P.

Always Say A Prayer

#4023

From: "Alona Amalia" <alma_plg@...>
Date: Sat Sep 6, 2008 11:19 pm
Subject: Need ur advice...

alma_plg

Dear Friends..

Anyone of u know how to heal broken heart??
It's been too tough

Alma-Malaysia

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#4024

From: Steve Gabany <docgabany@...>
Date: Wed Sep 3, 2008 9:11 am
Subject: Quote of the Day - 9/3

docgabany

We often call a certainty a hope, to bring it luck.  -- Elizabeth Bibesco

#4025

From: Robert McLeod <artdesigntech@...>
Date: Wed Sep 3, 2008 10:30 pm
Subject: Touching story

artdesigntech

Beautiful touching story

--- On Wed, 9/3/08, Beautiful <beautiful_rainbow2001us@...> wrote:

From: Beautiful <beautiful_rainbow2001us@...>
Subject: [YOU ARE NOT ALONE GET ADVICE] Fw: Scars in life
To: youarenotalonegetadvice@yahoogroups.com, worldwideadventbelievers@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wednesday, September 3, 2008, 12:28 AM

"

Some years ago, on a hot summer day, a little boy decided to go for a swim in the old swimming hole that was behind his house. In a hurry to dive into the cool water, he ran out the back door, leaving behind shoes, socks, and shirt as he went.

He flew into the water, not realizing that as he swam toward the middle of the lake, an alligator was swimming toward the shore.

In the house, his mother was looking out the window. She saw the two as they got closer and closer together. In utter fear, she ran toward the water, yelling to her son as loudly as she could.

Hearing her voice, the little boy became alarmed, and made a U-turn to swim to his mother. It was too late. Just as he reached her, the alligator reached him.

From the dock, the mother grabbed her little boy by the arms, just as the alligator snatched his legs. That began a very incredible tug-of-war between the two.

The alligator was much stronger than the mother, but the mother was much too passionate to let go.

A farmer happened to drive by, heard her screams, raced from his truck, took aim, and shot the alligator.

Remarkably, after weeks and weeks in the hospital, the little boy survived. His legs were extremely scarred by the vicious attack of the animal. On his arms, there were deep scratches where his mother's fingernails dug into his flesh, in her effort to hang on to the son she loved.

The newspaper reporter, who interviewed the boy after the trauma, asked the boy if he would show him his scars.

The boy lifted his pant legs. Then, with obvious pride, he said to the reporter, "But look at my arms. I have great scars on my arms, too. I have them because my Mom wouldn't let go."

You and I can identify with that little boy. We have scars, too. No, not from an alligator, but the scars of a painful past. Some of those scars are unsightly, and have caused us deep regret.

But, some wounds, my friend, are because God has refused to let go.

In the midst of your struggle, He's been right there, holding on to you.

The Bible teaches that God loves you. You are a child of God. He wants to protect you, and provide for you in every way. But, sometimes, we foolishly wade into dangerous situations, not knowing what lies ahead. The swimming hole of life is filled with peril ~ and we forget that the enemy is waiting to attack. That is when the tug-of-war begins. If you have the scars of His love on your arms, be very, very grateful. He will not ever let you go.

Pass this on to those you love. God has blessed you, so that you can be a blessing to others.

You just never know where a person is in his/her life, and what they are going through.

#4026

From: Steve Gabany <docgabany@...>
Date: Thu Sep 4, 2008 11:17 am
Subject: Quote of the Day - 9/4

docgabany

When you see a woman who can go nowhere without a staff of admirers, it
is not so much because they think she is beautiful, it is because she
has told them they are handsome. -- Jean Giraudoux

#4027

From: Steve Gabany <docgabany@...>
Date: Fri Sep 5, 2008 9:33 am
Subject: Quote of the Day - 9/5

docgabany

Power worship blurs political judgment because it leads, almost
unavoidably, to the belief that present trends will continue. Who�ever
is winning at the moment will always seem to be invincible.  -- George
Orwell

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#4028

From: Beautiful <beautiful_rainbow2001us@...>
Date: Wed Sep 10, 2008 4:35 am
Subject: Fw: Why do we have tough times

"

WHY DO WE HAVE TOUGH TIMES?

Have you ever wondered why we go through the things we do?

God said: If you never felt pain, then how would you know that I'm a Healer?

If you never went through difficulties, how would you know that I'm a Deliverer?

If you never had a trial, how could you call yourself an over comer?

If you never felt sadness, how would you know that I'm a Comforter?

If you never made a mistake, how would you know that I'm forgiving?

If you knew all, how would you know that I will answer your questions?

If you never were in trouble, how would you know that I will come to your rescue?

If you never were broken, then how would know that I can make you whole?

If you never had a problem, how would you know that I can solve them?

If you never had any suffering, then how would you know what Jesus went through?

If you never went through the fire, then how would you become pure?

If I gave you all things, how would you appreciate them?

If I never corrected you, how would you know that I love you?

If you had all power, then how would you learn to depend on me?

If your life was perfect, then what would you need Me for?

Thank you, God!

A.S.A.P.

Always Say A Prayer