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Hi everyone,

I'm in a bit of a quandary. Late last week, there was
a flurry of activity on the social network site I set
up, Stop Cyberbullying
(http://stopcyberbullying.ning.com), which I created
to give teachers a place to share best practices on
bullying education. In a matter of hours we were
flooded with a number of new users who were
vandalizing the community in extremely obnoxious ways.


The reason for the vandalism? Well, it turns out the
latest issue of Wired Magazine decided to name the
Stop Cyberbullying community as "one of the six lamest
social networks" on the Internet.

http://www.wired.com/techbiz/people/magazine/15-09/st_socialnetworks

Here's what they had to say about us:

Stop Cyberbullying (stopcyberbullying.ning.com)
What it is: A safe place for frank discussions on the
topic of Internet bullying
Who you'll meet: Pussies
What's annoying: Dare to call them pussies, and
they'll gang up on you mercilessly.

Now I know this was intended as a joke, but the
consequences have been very serious. We had no choice
but to lock down the community, making it private and
invite-only, and work with the site host, ning.com, to
expel all the vandals. So needless to say, I'm pretty
annoyed, but I don't want to make the situation worse.
My gut is telling me to call them out and write an
open letter to Wired on my blog, telling them that
they're a part of the problem - eg, "Wired mocks
educators for combating cyberbullying" - but I fear
that doing so will lead to more vandals and bullies
attacking the site, and Wired basically saying "we
told you so."

Any thoughts on what should I do?

thanks,
andy


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Andy Carvin
andycarvin at yahoo com
www.andycarvin.com
www.pbs.org/learningnow
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Hi everyone, I'm in a bit of a quandary. Late last week, there was a flurry of activity on the social network site I set up, Stop Cyberbullying ...
Andy Carvin
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Aug 29, 2007
8:02 pm

Hmm. Heaven forbid you challenge the philosophy that people ought to have the right to post anything they want online ­ regardless of the harm caused to...
Nancy Willard
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Aug 29, 2007
10:11 pm

... The article is sad and irresponsible, but taking it to the street will just escalate the situation. We are dealing here with an inadvertent cyberbully. I...
Art Wolinsky
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Aug 29, 2007
10:57 pm

Hi: First off, definitely write a guilt-inducing letter to the editor. They're good about printing those. If you can strike the right tone (sarcastic, with a...
Bob Hirshon
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Aug 29, 2007
11:24 pm

Send them a cease and desist. ... -- Taran Rampersad Presently in: San Fernando, Trinidad and Tobago cnd@... http://www.knowprose.com 'Making Your...
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Aug 30, 2007
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Dear Andy, Who wrote the piece in Wired? How about starting a private conversation with that individual to understand the rationale for what was written? Patsy...
Patsy Wang-Iverson
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Aug 30, 2007
12:37 am

Andy, Educators are often accused of having no sense of humor. But you do -- you understood right away what Wired was up to. It was Wired's readership, ...
Carla Beard
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Aug 30, 2007
12:40 am

Hi Andy, I hope you and yours are well. I haven't chatted with you since the last NECC conference, but I value the work that you do and believe that it is ...
Gloria Bobbie
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Aug 30, 2007
12:44 am

How's this? Dear Wired: I'm one of the pussies you describe in your article on lame social networks. I try to stop cases of cyberbullying, such as (insert...
Bob Hirshon
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Aug 30, 2007
12:07 pm

I've read the responses, and I must reiterate what I have learned in a lifetime of bullies, from elementary school to dealing with drunk Marines. Never back...
Taran Rampersad
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Aug 30, 2007
12:08 pm

Andy, Gotta let it go. I'm more in line with Art than anybody else responding here so far. You're not going to change any minds by responding publicly in that ...
Mark Ahlness
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Aug 30, 2007
12:12 pm

Hi, Andy: You don't need to post this to the group if you don't want, but I disagree with Mark. I think this is a blessing in disguise. Most readers of Wired,...
Bob Hirshon
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Aug 30, 2007
12:33 pm

Kids (and magazines) do and say stupid and/or cruel things Sometime they are done maliciously and other times they are done simply because they are kids being...
Art Wolinsky
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Aug 30, 2007
2:58 pm

... detractors. In Washington at events, if you say you are a teacher, sometimes people turn their backs and walk away. It is that we are misrepresented....
BBracey@... Send Email Aug 30, 2007
7:42 pm

Andy, I would reiterate the advice to just keep the site closed for a week or so, and then open it up. The bad guys will have lost interest by then. My view is...
P G
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Aug 30, 2007
9:27 pm

I had been contacted by an independent writer who was planning to pitch a story to Wired and some other magazines about cyberbullying. I provided him with a...
Nancy Willard
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Aug 31, 2007
12:24 am

Hi everyone, Thanks again for all of the thoughtful suggestions you passed along regarding how I should handle the story from Wired. I've decided to take a...
Andy Carvin
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Sep 4, 2007
1:57 pm

Very diplomatically done, Andy. A post to be proud of. Carla Beard ________________________________ From: wwwedu@yahoogroups.com...
Carla Beard
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Sep 4, 2007
5:51 pm

... I've been following along on this, and wanted to add a note of congratulations and appreciation for your thoughtful approach to handling all of this, and...
uuterri Offline Send Email Sep 5, 2007
6:17 pm

A well thought out reply. If I may, I would like to use this situation as an example to my AP English class later this year. Clarance From:...
Clarence
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Sep 5, 2007
6:16 pm

One more thanks for walking the talk-instead of fighting this bully with more of the same. Unintended or not, his remarks were irresponsible and I am glad you...
Janet Salmons
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Sep 5, 2007
6:18 pm

Fantastic response Andy. There is a nice blog post from Wes Fryer on this at http://www.speedofcreativity.org/?p=2171 - worth a read. - Mark _____ From:...
Mark Ahlness
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Sep 5, 2007
6:18 pm

... People who don't teach don't understand our caution. In a meeting about the same thing yesterday a parent said to me so, the children should not cross the...
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2:05 pm

... There are times that the ACLU does good work. But I am very concerned about some of their work in the area of the Internet. The ACLU legislative directors...
Nancy Willard
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Sep 4, 2007
5:50 pm

Congratulations, Andy, for such a wonderful reply. (I envy your skill with the pen/computer) ********************************************* Jenka Guevara, Ph.D....
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Sep 4, 2007
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Andy: You definitely win this year's Gandhi Prize! Bob Hirshon AAAS ... Hi everyone, Thanks again for all of the thoughtful suggestions you passed along ...
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Sep 4, 2007
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