Bear share is an online website that has free downloadable things like music and videos, most of which are respectable. It also has a lot of porn. There is a...
The Love Won Out Conference in Ft. Lauderdale was a wonderful experience for my family on May 6th. It was a long drive (8 hours one way) but well worth the...
bears are a type of gay man. usually the more masculine ones. I would guess this is some type of website that guys that label themselves as such frequent. ... ...
Maybe God is using you to start a ministry for children who have to battle this. I think you should contact Mike Haley and work with P-FOX on starting a...
Thanks! I never thought of it that way, but it is definitely something to consider ...and to pray about. We really don't have any connections here in our...
I have been married for 35 years this July and have 3 grown children and grandchildren. I have just recently found out that my husband has struggled with...
Welcome Judi, After 35 years, it must be quite a shock for you. You are absolutely right about needing support as we often feel like there is no-one to talk to...
Thanks Fiona, I met with my counselor last night, she is the one counseling my husband. It was helpful I was able to process some of my anger and fear....
many men have been abused as kids or raped at some point in their lives.some sought and got treatment. while others attempt to handle the trama privately.its...
Hi everyone! I consider joining this group as God's blessing. For the past few days I feel lost emotionally. I am supposed to be married before the year ends...
Dear Sofia, Your confusion and shock is very much understood here. While you don't say how you found out or if he is or has been active in the homosexual ...
I would have to say I agree with a good chunk of what you said Brigitte. it is important when dealing with ANYONE with any kind of dysfunctional past to...
Sign Ex Gay Rights....."APA" Petition" http://www.petitiononline.com/exgays/petition.html Kathy To: American Psychological Association Please join us in our...
This group was designed for spouses struggling with SSA, not as a political or social site. I did approve the message regarding the petition because there may ...
Thanks B, I will make sure that this stays within that framework. God Bless Kathy r2sane <no_reply@yahoogroups.com> wrote: This group was designed for spouses...
Hi, I am new to this site and not really sure where to start. My h ad I have been married 23 years. Just about 2 years ago, his SSA led to him cheating on me...
Abt2lve1 - after reading your post, perhaps you should change your screen name to "decided2stay" ;-). Welcome to our group. We are not an overly active...
Thanks, to be honest that is the screen name I set up when I started prowling on my husbands activity in the very beginning. Yes, decided2stay, is more like...
Dear Editor, I called Don Prange, pastor of St. James United Church of Christ in Lovettsville, Virginia (Loudon County) which sponsored a "Faith and Life...
"My h says he does not desire sex with men, just healthy friendships that do not violate our marriage and that is what we are working on. This does include men...
Again, thank you for your advice. It really meant alot and brought me to tears 2x when I read to trust in God, not him. I really needed to hear that. I am not...
Hi - I've never joined a support group before. We've been married over 20 years and I've felt all these years that I just was not good enough for my husband....
Hi Love2beskinny YOU are right, it is not your fault. it is hard because we want to think it is our fault, because we want to fix it. We can't. All we can do...
HI Ann, I'm not really the person to say you will have a "normal" relationship. I was just so glad to read that someone else has a life like mine. Your husband...
Thank you so much for your input. We really need prayer. We have a wonderful life together -- we travel, cook, play various musical instruments, sing,...
Hi Fiona, Just a note to let you know that I understand where you are coming from. Your post meant alot. It is amazing how much we can identify with one...
Its been a long time since I made a post...Although most of them were positive,this one is bitter /sweet more bitter.. My husband filed for divorce in Aug.-its...