Dear Ones;<br>We've been a bit quite the last few weeks. Is everyone doing o.k.? <br><br>Keep looking up, my dear ones, Jesus is coming soon.<br><br>Kathy...
Hi! How is everyone? I'm just writing a quick post to update you on my situation.<br>My husband and I are getting a divorce. I feel like the Lord has released...
Hi everyone! I'm a gay guy with no interest in becoming an ex-gay, but I am interested in the phenomenon itself. I have no interest in bashing ex-gays or their...
Dear One;<br>I don't mind sharing. But I'm not sure if I am the one that can answer your question. You see, I didn't know that my husband was gay when we were...
Oh Dear One;<br>I know your decision was made with lots of prayer and tears and pain. May God wrap you up in His arms and carry you through to the happiness...
dear kathy,<br>your msg was powerful, may god continue to gve you and your husband the strength to overcome obstacles , that you may encounter.<br>regds...
Hello everyone! I haven't posted in awhile but it's simply that life has been busy! Life is good, and there is so much to be done! But, I really wanted to ...
yeah I guess I am weird or something but I knew. I actually knew before my husband even told me because we had a mutual acquaintance who blabbed about the...
I'd like to thank everyone who responded to my post. I was surprised at the amount of response, and its friendliness.<br><br>I certainly sympathize with those...
Hi,<br>My name is Iain, and I'm from the UK.<br>I'm 15 years of age and trying to get over my SSAS (Same Sex Attraction Syndrome)<br>I hope you don't mind me...
Iain,<br><br>Hi, I'm Dave, I'm a member of this forum because I'm the leader of the ExGay Men's Ministry forum here on Yahoo. It's URL is:<br><br><a...
Dear One;<br>My heart goes out to you because of your experience with the church. Much too often the organized church has buried its head in the sand over ...
My Dear Iain,<br>Please feel free to post and read here if you would like. Trying to get free of SSA is not easy. My husband began acting out when he was about...
Dear Ones;<br>Thought I would give you a praise report about our youngest grandson. Samuel, if you remember, was born about 2 1/2 months premature. He only has...
I think part of the problem too is that marriage is seen to be the goal of many ex-gay therapies. Personally, I think that's a bad idea, because a lot of these...
You go, girls! I see you both are quite the firebrand! As I pointed out, Protestantism has no meaningful concept of celibacy. It understands chastity...
While I can't agree with you ideologically, I can still give you some advice that I think will be useful to you.<br><br>First, don't try to deal with your ...
you know we are very fortunate at our church that people are very open about stuff. BUT this comes after years of desperately seeking help. we never...
LOL. Are you sure you're going to the right church? And, I hate to point this out, but aren't you doing the very thing that you are complaining about? That is,...
actually we go to a great church now...what I am talking about is admittedly generalizations of what I have seen both in churches I have attended, what I have...
I can only agree. It is a great weakness of the ex-gay movement that it sees coming out of homosexuality and reinforcing gender stereotypes as one and the same...
I think there is lip service given to real inner change and healing in a lot (not all, but a lot) of the ex gay ministries but the reality is that they rely on...
I also dont mean to imply in any way shape or form that Christians DONT need other people. we DO need other people but the purpose isnt to "fix" us. We cannot...
Why should there be a special social role for somebody who is "ex-gay"? Isn't an ex-gay by defintion heterosexual? Wouldn't a true ex-gay simply assume a ...
Actually, an ex-gay is not a heterosexual. Most ex-gay ministries make this point very clearly. An ex-gay is really a homosexual who has decided not to act in...
Then what is "ex-gay" about an ex-gay? If all "ex-gay" means is not having sex, then am I "ex-gay" in between love-making sessions with my lover? If a ...
actually I would say that all this "hetero"/"homo" talk is in response to the gay movement that defines itself by who it sleeps with. perhaps this is why most...
I dont know where you get that ex gay ministries make it clear and ex gay is not a heterosexual...I have yet to hear that one. unless you are taking some ...