i know that a lot of times we feel lonely and we can't pinpoint why. I have come to realize that my loneliness stems from my dead marriage. My husband does...
Sandra, I expected so much from you, what do you mean you don't know anything else useful to day.....I am only giving you a hard time, is that okay? Ira sandra...
... That's funny...well, not really...but when I'm feeling down about life I always look at the people around me and think the same thing. Why not me? What's...
oh yes, I have done everything I know to do. I've told him exactly what I need time and time again. It is difficult to sum it all up through email. He's not...
OK, Dee, that situation really sounds like it sucks. But now it begs the question, why are you still there? Why do you feel you are "stuck in the situation"?...
That reminds me of an experience early in my college days. I was a new Freshman in a girl's dorm. There were a lot of new people, so it was easy to become...
No problem, Ira. Sandra ... From: IK To: webofloneliness@yahoogroups.com Sent: Sunday, July 02, 2006 12:48 AM Subject: Re: Web of Loneliness Question,response...
Sandra, I tend to feel that way when I go to singles dances. I dance a lot with different women, I am social and make chit chat. I sometimes have danced with...
You guys have been asking and answering some interesting questions. See us guys have feelings too. I wanted to ask you Steve if your wife has good friends that...
I understand the situation you're describing, Ira. I think my problem back in dorm days might have been more that all we talked about was details of our lives....
Sandra, that is a valid question, and one that I have asked myself many times. I think part of it is fear. For many years I devoted myself to my husband and...
I am rather reluctant to start this thread because I don't want anyone to get the wrong idea. Please read this message under the umbrella of the assumption...
I am rather reluctant to start this thread because I don't want anyone to get the wrong idea. Please read this message under the umbrella of the assumption...
I've definatly had similar feelings at various times. Everytime I feel that things are getting better, I'm starting to feel very positive and my life is...
PRAYER FOR THOSE UNHEARD: Lord, bless me with a listening mind, Attune me to the smaller sounds, The whispered pleas of loneliness, The whimper of an unloved...
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Jul 5, 2006 5:51 am
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Well, Dee, The sad part here is that we build our own prisons, and I've been as guilty as anyone. I know the future looks scary, and I hate to be advocating...
Dee, As a former microbiologist and current computer programmer, I'm in no way qualified to make this diagnosis - but this sounds like depression to me. Does...
Dee, I too have had such feelings that it would be nice just to stop "being", just to stop the pain. One thing that I have found that helps me when I start ...
first of all thank you to everyone who reached out to me. Camscottage, I tried to send you an email but it bounced back to me. For those of you who asked,...
Hi Dee, I'm wondering why you are afraid to let your husband know you go to counseling, since you have told him to go--I mean you have put it out there. What...
Well Sandra, maybe you weren't a smart social outcast in college. I don't know quite how to say this, but maybe you wanted something then but wouldn't have...
I'm not sure I'm understanding you, Ira. Except that there was definately a lack of connection in that situation for me. I wanted to be interested, really....
you know, now that I think about it, what is the worse that could happen? I guess I'm just so used to doing things his way, and I'm still afraid to do this...
Dee, That's the healthiest sounding thing I've heard you say so far. And hopefully the more help you can get now the easier it will get to deal with the other...
Colin, some of what you wrote is exactly what I would write about myself. I am not quite sure of the dynamic that happens within me when I get into a positive...
Dee, is your husband willing to be open to counseling? My sister has gone thru something similar to you. Her husband put her down constantly, though he did so...
I guess what I was saying is what you wanted may have been out there for you, but at that age it may be hard to even define what we want, much less try and...
Ira, a few weeks ago I told my husband that if he didn't go for counseling I was going to leave him, his response was "I guess you're leaving" of course I was...
I said "your niece" now I see it is your sister.... ... has gone thru something similar to you. Her husband put her down constantly, though he did so in their...
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