Hi Mike, Thanks for your response. I agree with your thoughts about not forcing people to open up. Believe me that was not my intention. I was merely trying...
peopl e with an english name and a foreigh name I wonder is it there real name? The other person has an englist suname. ( I know I am a nosy peerson) How many...
Andrew, My name is not my identity. My identity consists of my feelings, thoughts and behavior. My name doesn't make me who I am (and just for the record I do...
Thank you Mike, Kachina michinobu_zoned <michinobu_zoned@...> wrote: hi guys, I may not know alot about this conversation, but I can't see what's wrong...
Sean and others, I am reaching out and I am not creating distance. If I was to create distance I wouldn't write anything about my true feelings. I would rather...
Mike, I love the analogy with flower, it's very apt. I think you got the essence of the matter this time. It also helps me to understand certain things about...
Not soaking. A person soaks in a bathtub not a swimming pool. I mostly goof around in the pool. I don't swim for exercise. It is a holiday on Monday so no...
Sean and Mike, I am enjoying reading your e-mails to each other, and for the group to read. Sean, I like reading what you write in here. I find it soothing for...
Andrew I have never known you to be judgemental in here except with Kachina, and it seems like it is based on her not telling her real name. I have always...
Thank you Ira, I appreciate your opinion. Kachina Ira K <uncleeye2002@...> wrote: Andrew I have never known you to be judgemental in here except with...
hi kachina, i believe that revealing your name shows sincererity, at least to me. it may not be important to you, but its a step. i don't need to know ...
Andrew, I didn't say it wasn't your business, I said it wasn't important because I was trying to show you that it doesn't really matter what my name is, what...
Hi Kachina, My name is Pat. It has been about a year since I was on this website. I thought, initially, that Andrew, although willing to question others, was...
No you may not butt in. This is a private conversation. Only 1 butt in is allowed and that was me. Ira Kachina Kachina <daggerpierced@...> wrote: Can I...
Urgh! The last thing I wanted to be perceived as was an expert or guru, who is all knowing (about loneliness anyways!). As always, it is just my opinion,...
Ira, First off, thanks for your kind words. One thought that popped into my mind sometime ago was what is the opposite of loneliness? For me, the opposite of...
as the moderator, I just wanted to say one last thing to the group. Please be considerate of others. We have all been hurt by others. I think it's okay to...
wonderful teeth so white and so straight Ira K <uncleeye2002@...> wrote:No you may not butt in. This is a private conversation. Only 1 butt in is allowed...
open up a little bit like a flower? I agree and I choose to be a sundew Sean <a_lonely0us@...> wrote:Ira, First off, thanks for your kind words. One...
Sean, Aren't you an expert in loneliness? :) What is your major? Aha! I knew you wanted to challenge me :) but it worked so I won't hold it against you :) Have...
Pat, Thank you for the e-mail and for your honesty. I'm sorry to hear that you've also been betrayed, I know perfectly the pain of betrayal and abandonment. If...
Hi Kachina. Yes, I am Hispanic. I've been betrayed by virtually everyone I have tried to be a friend to. Right now I'm late for work, but keep in touch, and ...
Pat, It's just like in my case, I've been betrayed even by my own relatives. Right now I just don't believe it'll ever change. Whenever I meet a new person...
Hey Ira, Nice to hear ya too. I can't think of much to say right now, but I'm interested to hear about your summer. Anything interesting? Let me know. ...
Hi Kachina, I can relate to alot of what's said here. Often times I have felt like was being treated like a welcome mat and had people betray me. However, I...
Mike, I agree with you that it's unhealthy and I'm trying to keep my eyes open for those opportunities so that I don't miss them but right now it's always the...
hi pat, i did tell you that i seldom send emails, (even to my close personal friends). but i would reply right. if you really need to chat you can always see...
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