I sure think so. Gosh Jami where is everybody? I wish I could stop thinking of you know who. I think sometimes I've gone over the edge. I love John but there...
Maybe it's not him you love but the idea of him. Obviously he's not the one for you...you are mourning the loss of the relationship. You're not a sicko!!! You...
Hi Jami, Yeah I do love him but know he would never be the one I could deeply fall in love with for a lifetime. You are also right for me to want the...
You do know that as you meet new people, make new friends, get out and do more that the feelings of lonliness will start to fade. I'm not saying you will ever...
Jami, You are another one who writes well. Sure do hope you are right that eventually John will end up in a dusty corner. I cried a couple times for him....
took me a long time to write this letter from my heart and without anger. The first few times I tried...well lets just say the language was unpublishable! So,...
Hi, I'm new to the group. Just thought I would introduce myself... After reading the last few messages on this group I realized that the people who wrote...
Jami, I thought it was well written and especially liked how you worded the the second last paragraph. Especially the pain and suffering hit a nerve on me....
Hi Jamie, I read your letter...take my words for the 2 cents they may be worth but, by sending this letter you will still be giving him the impression that he...
Dear Aminah, A sincere welcome to our group. Gosh what a terrible experience you have had through life. I am a gay man who is still trying to let my heart go...
Aminah, Your 2 cents is worth a million to me...thank you. Writing the letter did help and I realize that actually sending it would give him the satisfaction...
Mike, Thanks for your thoughts on my letter. I know that if I send this to him I would be feeding his ego by letting him know that I think about him....On the...
Jamie, What you said about searching for something you already had hit home...I can blame Roland for our problems and portray myself as the victim but in any...
D - do you know the difference between a man who's f***ing you and a man who makes love to you??? both say they love you...one is a liar. Jami, I you read the...
Seems he failed you completely Aminah. In your time of need he was unable to 'step up to the plate'...this is not your fault. During a time when you should...
I've got to agree with Aminah here. Writing the letter was a good idea. Sending the letter is not particularly useful. Jim sounds like too much of a...
Happy Anniversary Jami. Just remember - there's a reason you divorced the guy. ... From: J B Date: Friday, April 4, 2008 8:53 am Subject: Re: Web of Loneliness...
Sandra, I agree but then the vindictive side of me rears it's ugly head and screams....because - by sending it to him (via email) and a copy to his wife, it...
if she believes him then she is stupid if she doesn't believe him and stays with him she is stupid either way...the result is the same she abuses him in her...
You should have just stuffed the card, postmark and all, in an envelope and mailed it back to his wife. I suspect this letter would just result in her calling...
Aminah, Welcome to the group! I hope you find some comfort and meet some new friends who can share in your past pain and be able to help you deal with your...
Hi John, One of the most frustrating thing for me is KNOWING that there has to be someone out there that is as lonely as I am and would give anything to find...
Sandra, Yes I should have sent the card to her and I did save it for a bit with that thought in mind....I don't have it anymore (got rid of everything that was...
Jami, I wrote and sent several letters to Roland right after he left to move in with the first woman and later he said that I was a pitiful human being ......
Lamina, Yea, it really struck me one day when our priest said to "pray for those who have no one to pray them". There are just so many people out there who...
geez Jami isn't this the truth esp. the last line. I think she was just trying to rub your nose it the whole think like she's got him and you don't. People...
Jami, I tend to agree with Aminah - why bother and think you got a lot out of your system by just writing it. In the long run - the letter isn't going to...
I'm almost the same as Mike. Let lying dogs lay. have you ever heard that one. They will get their due. So examine the reasons that you are really sending...