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Any advice on how to actually become a stoic?   Message List  
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Re: Any advice on how to actually become a stoic?

Hello John and Tricia,

Welcome to you both.

There certainly has been plenty of good advice!

Here's my short list:

1) Know and accept where I am. Introspection and self honesty is required.
2) Know what I want. Spend time to be clear about my purpose.
3) Consider ALL options to get from 1) to 2). Do my research and carefully
and calmly deliberate; no rush to judgement.
4) Start. May require courage.
5) Check in with myself: have I done all that I can?
a) Yes. No reason to worry about whether I got the outcome I wanted or not.
Go to 1).
b) No. Go to 3).

All the above is best done relaxed and with patience. If the busy life
does not allow room for any patience something in the busy life has got to go.

Some of you may have seen a version of this before in the Commons.

Steve







Wed Oct 13, 1999 5:14 am

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Dear Stoics, I've been receiving the posts from this group and the stoic commons for several months but I have not yet introduced myself. The reason for this ...
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Oct 11, 1999
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... Read A New Guide to Rational Living or anything else by Albert Ellis. He presents a modern version of stoicism (mixed with some other ideas). Good luck. ...
Bertram Rothschild
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Oct 11, 1999
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John-- You seemed to have hit upon one of the central issues of the life well-lived. The words of one person can only carry another so far. Epictetus is, in...
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Oct 11, 1999
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In my case, I first approached stoicism to see what it had to say to the art of acting. It was after all the reading that I found it sneaking into my daily ...
Geoffrey Howard
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Oct 11, 1999
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John, I am glad you spoke up and introduced yourself. I too have been reading the posts and Marcus A, Plato and Epictetus and trying to reach the point of...
Tricia
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Oct 11, 1999
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... disasters ... life ... Hello, John. Perhaps it's the Taoist in me, but I have long felt that reading the greats, while helpful, can only take you so far....
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Oct 12, 1999
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... From: Bertram Rothschild ... presents a modern version of stoicism (mixed >with some other ideas). Good luck. I'll second this suggestion. I ended up...
Lynn Dewees
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Oct 12, 1999
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Mostly a lurker, off and on, these days aboard the Stoic List, I've been struck by those who desire a kind of "way" to help them to be a stoic. I think Erik...
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Oct 12, 1999
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Hello John and Tricia, Welcome to you both. There certainly has been plenty of good advice! Here's my short list: 1) Know and accept where I am. Introspection...
Steve Marquis
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Oct 13, 1999
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Wow Steve........ that progressive formula sounds perfect for the stoic actor approaching a role. Mind if I steal it? -- Geoffrey Howard MFA Directing/Acting ...
Geoffrey Howard
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Oct 13, 1999
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... Don't mind a bit. Steve...
Steve Marquis
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Oct 14, 1999
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Dear Fellow Stoics John Fleming wrote asking advice about how to put Stoicism into practice. These notions may help. First, consider trying meditation. You...
KRS
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Oct 18, 1999
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Beautiful, Kenneth...
joan elkins
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Oct 18, 1999
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Try to be more 'self-observant'. Maybe even keep a journal (I think Seneca recommends this, but I can't locate the reference). If we really do believe that the...
Keith Seddon
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