Please understand that this is the very reason all resources and
energy are spread so thin because of lack of participation vision and
focus making it all the more confusing.

It is very confusing when people try to participate and everyone is on
12 different subjects at once-- very separate and distinct matters
that are not even close to the whole reason why we are here?

I fully and personally understand the horrid conditions of which you
speak. I was a juvenile charged as an Adult and completed 8 years in
prison for very questionable circumstances... but I cannot let my
sympathy for others or feeling sorry for myself to the point where my
interpersonal relationships are conditional and contingent on my own
needs and wants. Such distractions can be an obstacle or blind me from
carrying out well-reasoned objectives that are appropriate towards
creating change.

How about a SOSEN Juvenile Criminal Justice Study Group!

There is a time and place for everything if such a group were created
I will join and respond accordingly under that topic.



- Erika


--- In sosensolutions@yahoogroups.com, "Beverly Lanfear"
<blanfear@...> wrote:
>
> Erika,
>
> With all due respect here. I am not trying to cause a distraction,
but what do you mean juvenile criminal justice matter's are off the
topic? Also so I do not make the mistake again what is the intended
purpose?
>
> Erika seriously I am not being sarcastic so please do not take it
that way. Correct me where I am wrong here ok....The people in here
are living under the most horrid circumstances, and I feel there is
absolutely nothing wrong with showing emotional support when need be.
I thought the word SOSEN stood for Sex Offender Support and Education
Network?
>
>
>
>
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: Erika The Mouse
> To: sosensolutions@yahoogroups.com
> Sent: Wednesday, September 06, 2006 8:22 AM
> Subject: [sosensolutions] Re: NEED HELP WITH A QUESTION...ASAP...I
HAVE A YOUNG MAN IN A PANIC STATE!
>
>
> I usually do not respond or answer this type of subject matter.
>
> This type of content (criminal law juvenile justice matter) is way off
> topic and distracts us from our intended purpose.
>
> - Erika
>
> --- In sosensolutions@yahoogroups.com, "Erika The Mouse"
> <the-mouse@> wrote:
> >
> > It is quite obvious from the get-go that jumping back into the fire
> > is a stupid move.
> >
> > He should never respond to such an email if she is under age 18,
> > however if she is over age 18 then he should be in the clear and
need
> > not worry since she took the initiative on her own free WILL to
> > contact him!
> >
> > - Erika
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> > --- In sosensolutions@yahoogroups.com, "Beverly Lanfear"
> > <blanfear@> wrote:
> > >
> > > I just received an e-mail from a young man who is an RSO. He was
> > made to register because of this: He was 17, next door at his
friends
> > house, she was 15. This girl and her 12 year old sister got into a
> > fight, little sis hit big sis on the breast, big sis started crying,
> > so this young man reached over, barely touching the breast area,
> > saying I know that hurt, it's going to be ok. Little sis was ticked
> > and told mom later. Mom filed charges and the rest is history. He is
> > off probation, I know while you are on probation you are not to have
> > contact with the victim. His so called victim found his account on
> > myspace.com This has been over 6 years ago that this incident
> > happened. She sent him an e-mail, as any normal concerned friend
> > would do, she e-mailed him asking him how he was doing. He e-mailed
> > her back, and the main thing he told her if finding his account
> > bothered her, he would delete it. So now he is horribly panicking
> > over contacting her back. If he is off probation, can he still
get in
> > trouble? I know I have talked to many RSO's with similar situations,
> > who are no longer on probation, have talked to their so called
victim,
> > mainly the victim willing to testify to help them out and get
them off
> > the registry. Any help here will be highly appreciated! Thanks to
> > all ahead of time.
> > > Bev
> > >
> >
>