Attached below is something meaningful forwarded by a friend to me, thus would like to share it with u.
Feel free to share it with your friends... so that u can make a difference in their life as well...
Cheerio, Michael Lim :)
The 90/10 Principle by Stephen Covey
Discover the 90/10 Principle. It will change your life.
What is the 90/10 Principle? 10% of life is made up of what happens to you. 90% of life is decided by how you react. What does this mean? We really have no control over 10% of what happens to us. We cannot stop the car from breaking down. The plane will be late arriving, which throws our whole schedule off.
A driver may cut us off in traffic. We have no control over this 10%. The other 90% is different. You determine the other 90%. How? By your reaction.
You cannot control a red light, but you can control your reaction.
Don't let people fool you; YOU can control how you react. Let's use an example.
You are eating breakfast with your family. Your daughter knocks over a cup of coffee onto your business shirt. You have no control over what just what happened. What happens when the next will be determined by how you react. You curse. You harshly scold your daughter for knocking the cup over.She breaks down in tears. After scolding her, you turn to your spouse and criticize her for placing the cup too close to the edge of the table.
A short verbal battle follows. You storm upstairs and change your shirt. Back downstairs, you find your daughter has been too busy crying to finish breakfast and get ready for school. She misses the bus. Your spouse must leave immediately for work. You rush to the car and drive your daughter to school.
Because you are late, you drive 40 miles an hour in a 30 mph speed limit. After a 15-minute
delay and throwing $60 traffic fine away, you arrive at school. Your daughter runs into the building without saying goodbye. After arriving at the office 20 minutes late, you find you forgot your briefcase. Your day has started terribly. As it continues, it seems to get worse and worse. You look forward to coming home, When you arrive home, you find a small wedge in your relationship with your spouse and daughter. Why? Because of how you reacted in the morning.
Why did you have a bad day? A) Did the coffee cause it? B) Did your daughter cause it? C) Did the policeman cause it? D) Did you cause it?
The answer is D.
You had no control over what happened with the coffee. How you reacted in those 5 seconds is what caused your bad day. Here is what could have and should have happened.
Coffee splashes over you. Your daughter is about to cry. You gently say, "It's ok honey, you just need, to be more
careful next time." Grabbing a towel you rush upstairs. After grabbing a new shirt and your briefcase, you come back down in time to look through the window and see your child getting on the bus. She turns and waves. You arrive 5 minutes early and cheerfully greet the staff. Your boss comments on how good the day you are having.
Notice the difference?
Two different scenarios. Both started the same. Both ended different. Why? Because of how you REACTED.
You really do not have any control over 10% of what happens. The other 90% was determined by your reaction.
Here are some ways to apply the 90/10 principle. If someone says something negative about you, don't be a sponge. Let the attack roll off like water on glass. You don't have to let the negative comment affect you! React properly and it will not ruin your day. A wrong reaction could result in losing a friend, being fired, getting stressed
out etc.
How do you react if someone cuts you off in traffic? Do you lose your temper? Pound on the steering wheel? A friend of mine had the steering wheel fall off! Do you curse? Does your blood pressure skyrocket? Do you try and bump them? WHO CARES if you arrive ten seconds later at work? Why let the cars ruin your drive? Remember the 90/10 principle, and do not worry about it. You are told you lost your job. Why lose sleep and get irritated? It will work out. Use your worrying energy and time into finding another job.
The plane is late; it is going to mangle your schedule for the day. Why take out your frustration on the flight attendant? She has no control over what is going on. Use your time to study, get to know the other passenger. Why get stressed out? It will just make things worse.
Now you know the 90-10 principle. Apply it and you will be amazed at the results. You will
lose nothing if you try it. The 90-10 principle is incredible. Very few know and apply this principle. The result? Millions of people are suffering from undeserved stress, trials,problems and heartache. There never seem to be a success in life. Bad days follow bad days. Terrible things seem to be constantly happening. There is constant stress, lack of joy, and broken relationships. Worry consumes time. Anger breaks friendships and life seems dreary and is not enjoyed to the fullest. Friends are lost.
Life is a bore and often seems cruel. Does this describe you? If so, do not be discouraged. You can be different! Understand and apply the 90/10 principle. It will change your life.
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Due to busy work schedule, I'm afraid I may not be able to organise gatherings for everyone for a while.
However, no worries... I will continue to sponsor Singles Delight portal( http://www.singlesdelight.com ) so that everyone can still continue to search for new friends online at NO COST.
For friends who just joined the group.... Singles Delight is a singles portal which I had created a couple of months back specially for singles who wish to make new friends online. This portal is open to all Singles in the World and not just to Singles Hub friends. As long as you are sincerely looking for friends, you are welcome to post your personal profile and initiate contact with other like-minded members.
Of
course, in the meantime, also feel free to invite your friends to join so that they too can benefit from it as well. So far, I'm very encouraged by the support shown to the portal. Many friends had invited their personal friends to join as well. Till date, Singles Delight has more than 130 members.
Last but not least, I would like to take this opportunity to wish everyone a HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!!
As responses to join Singles Delight ( http://www.singlesdelight.com ) has been pretty good, I'm please to inform you that I will be extending the free usage period further from 31 Dec 2004 to 15 Feb 2005.
Since my previous email some one and a half month ago announcing free usage (post personal profile and initiate contact for free till 31 Dec 04), responses had been most encouraging. Many had also referred their personal friends to join the new online Singles portal. Till date, the membership base in Singles Delight has just crossed the one hundred mark.
I hope this new extension will provide adequate time for most of you (if not all) to find your special someone by Valentine Day next February.
In the meantime, do continue with your efforts in spreading the words around so that more singles can enjoy this benefit to know more friends.
Note: If the response was again very good this round, I might consider extending the free usage period for Singles Delight to beyond 15 Feb 2005.
Would also like to take this opportunity to wish everyone a Happy & Wonderful New Year !!
Please be reminded that the deadline for registration of the "Hi Tea" gathering at Vietro is tomorrow 25 Nov (5pm). If you are interested to come, kindly inform me by then as I need to confirm with the restaurant the exact number of participants.
As at this afternoon, 61 people had already confirmed. The "Hi Tea" will be in buffet style... this is to provide more opportunity for participants to interact and changing seats if necessary to know more friends.
I will also be compiling a contact list for all the participants after the event. The contact list will then be email to the participants after they have confirmed their contact details. Participant who do not wish to be in the list can opt out.
Alternatively, please email me your name, gender & contact number. If you are bringing your friends, kindly indicate their names, gender & contact numbers as well.
Venue : Vietro Restaurant (A contemporary Vietnamese restaurant) Funan IT Mall (formerly known as Funan Centre), #05-44, 109 North Bridge road
Price : $17 per person (inclusive of food & drink)
Mode of payment : Pay by cash on the spot. Please bring exact change.
Feel free to bring your friends or even colleagues, but please register for them first.
Note : Kindly register latest by 25 November (5pm) as I need to confirm the exact number of participants with the restaurant by that date.
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- To register for the event, please click below :
Alternatively, you can also email me your name, contact number and number of friends you are bringing (if any). (Remember to include your friends' names and contact numbers if you are signing up for them).
As suggested by some friends in my last "Hi Tea" gathering, I will be compiling a contact list for all the participants (including participants from DBS SDU) who are coming for the Vietro "Hi Tea" gathering on 28 Nov.
To respect participants who wish to keep their contact information confidential, I will be individually sending another email to participants after the event.... Those who reply to my email will be automatically included into the list.... while an absence of a reply will indicate the participant wish to have confidentiality.
As I will be allocating some 50% of the seats to DBS SDU, there will be only 50% seats left for both Singles Hub and Singles Delight friends.... please register early to avoid disappointment.
Alternatively, please email me your name, gender & contact number. If you are bringing your friends, kindly indicate their names, gender & contact numbers as well.
Venue : Vietro Restaurant (A contemporary Vietnamese restaurant) Funan IT Mall (formerly known as Funan Centre), #05-44, 109 North Bridge road
Price : $17 per person (inclusive of food & drink)
Mode of payment : Pay by cash on the spot. Please bring exact change.
Feel free to bring your friends or even colleagues, but please register for them first.
Note : Kindly register latest by 25 November (5pm) as I need to confirm the exact number of participants with the restaurant by that date.
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- To register for the event, please click below :
Alternatively, you can also email me your name, contact number and number of friends you are bringing (if any). (Remember to include your friends' names and contact numbers if you are signing up for them).
I will be organising a "Hi Tea" gathering on 28 Nov 04 (Sun) at a contemporary Vietnamese restaurant. Please note that this is a joint event with DBS SDU. The objective is to enhance everyone's opportunity to meet more new friends. In addition, I will be extending this invitation to all Singles Delight ( http://www.singlesdelight.com ) members as well.
Details of the gathering are as follow :
Date : 28 Nov 2004 (Sunday)
Time : 2.30pm to 5.30pm
Venue : Vietro Restaurant (A contemporary Vietnamese restaurant) Funan IT Mall (formerly known as Funan Centre), #05-44, 109 North Bridge road
Price : $17 per person (inclusive of food & drink)
Mode of payment : Pay by cash on the spot. Please bring exact change.
Feel free to bring your friends or even colleagues, but please register for them first.
Note : Kindly register latest by 25 November (5pm) as I need to confirm the exact number of participants with the restaurant by that date.
---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- To register for the event, please click below :
As you all know, I have launched a portal (http://www.singlesdelight.com) recently to help singles search for more friends and love ones. I'm please to inform you that I will be making it FREE for all to use (ie. post personal profile and initiate contact with others). This goodwill offer will end on 31 Dec 2004.
If the responses are good, I may consider extending this "FREE for all to use" offer beyond 31 Dec 2004 and longer.
In the meantime, if you happen to know any sponsors or advertisers who wish to advertise online, kindly inform me at sunzzz11@.... This will help me to sustain the portal and FREE promotion to as long as I could.
Of course, feel free to pass this message to any of your friends (even foreign friends who are not residing in Singapore). By sharing this opportunity with them, I'm sure that you can make a difference in their lives as well by expanding their social circle.
I hope this online portal will be especially useful and beneficial to singles who are too busy with their work to attend any social activities or functions to know more friends.
I have also just added a new "Members sharing corner" in Singles Delight for everyone to share nice and meaningful articles. Feel free to take a look at http://www.singlesdelight.com/article.html. Of course, if you have any nice articles to share with everyone, please let me know.
Once again, thanks for your support and here's wishing you all the best in your search for friends and a love one.
I have just got the weather information for this coming Sunday(19 Sept).... There will be isolated showers throughout the day..... as such, I think it would be wise to cancel this Sunday's outdoor cycling gathering at Pulau Ubin. Please inform your friends of the cancellation if you happened to forward my earlier email to them. Thanks.
Instead of doing an outdoor event on that day, I will be heading down to Suntec Convention Centre to take a look at the International Food Festival 2004 (http://www.internationalfoodfestival.com.sg). The admission is Free.
If any of you are interested to join me, please reply to this email with your name and contact number so that I know who to expect. The details are as follow :
Date : 19 Sept 2004 (Sunday)
Meeting Time : 1.45pm (Please be punctual hor)
Meeting Place : CityLink at City Hall MRT station (outside BreadTalk)
Note : After the "walk walk" at the International Food Festival, we can go for a drink and do some chit chatting to spend the rest of our Sunday afternoon away.
Cheerio, Michael Lim
Michael <sunzzz11@...> wrote:
To: singleshub@yahoogroups.com From: Michael Date: Mon, 13 Sep 2004 09:32:45 -0700 (PDT) Subject: [singleshub] Re: Cycling Gathering at Pulau Ubin on 19 Sept 2004
Hi Friends,
Looking forward to do something different from the usual Sunday ? Check this out.
I am organising a cycling gathering at Palau Ubin this coming Sunday (19 Sept). Sorry for the late announcement as I am a bit tied down with organising a business networking gathering this coming Friday for Business Hub. Of course, if you are interested, you are also welcome to join us for this networking gathering. (CLICK this link for more info).
Oops... I got carried away...sorry for deviating from our topic... Cycling cum Gathering this Sunday.
Please find below the details for the Cycling cum gathering ::
Date : 19 September 2004 (Sunday)
Meeting Time : 8.30 am (if you are meeting me at Bedok MRT station control) 10.15am (if you are meeting me at the Changi Jetty)
Venue : Bedok MRT station control (8.30am) or Changi Jetty (10.15am)
Friends who are meeting me at Bedok MRT station control - We will take Bus No. 2 to Changi Jetty - Upon reaching, we will take a quick heavy breakfast or brunch at the nearby Hawker Centre - At 10.15am, we will proceed to meet those friends who are waiting at the Changi Jetty
Friends who are meeting me at the Changi Jetty - Please ensure that you have taken your own breakfast or brunch before you come as we will be having a late lunch
FEEL FREE TO BRING ANY FRIENDS ALONG.
Note: A contact list of the participants will be emailed to those who register and turn up for the event. If you want your contact number to be reflected in the contact list, please remember to key it in when you register.
Time Table : 8.30am - 9.30am Taking a bus from Bedok MRT to Changi Jetty 9.30am - 10.10am Quick breakfast or brunch 10.15am Meet up with friends waiting at the Jetty 10.20am Take Bum Boat to Palau Ubin 10.45am - 3pm Cycling and exploring Palau Ubin. Occasional breaks along the way to allow participants to
mingle. 3.45pm Back to Singapore mainland. Proceed to Hawker Centre or nearby coffee shop to take lunch.
How to recognise me ? (for new friends who have not seen me before) I will be wearing a white collarless T-shirt (with the letterings "Daniel Hechter"), blue shorts & jogging shoes. My height is 1.71m and do not wear any specs.
Looking forward to do something different from the usual Sunday ? Check this out.
I am organising a cycling gathering at Palau Ubin this coming Sunday (19 Sept). Sorry for the late announcement as I am a bit tied down with organising a business networking gathering this coming Friday for Business Hub. Of course, if you are interested, you are also welcome to join us for this networking gathering. (CLICK this link for more info).
Oops... I got carried away...sorry for deviating from our topic... Cycling cum Gathering this Sunday.
Please find below the details for the Cycling cum gathering ::
Date : 19 September 2004 (Sunday)
Meeting Time : 8.30 am (if you are meeting me at Bedok MRT station control) 10.15am (if you are meeting me at the Changi Jetty)
Venue : Bedok MRT station control (8.30am) or Changi Jetty (10.15am)
Friends who are meeting me at Bedok MRT station control - We will take Bus No. 2 to Changi Jetty - Upon reaching, we will take a quick heavy breakfast or brunch at the nearby Hawker Centre - At 10.15am, we will proceed to meet those friends who are waiting at the Changi Jetty
Friends who are meeting me at the Changi Jetty - Please ensure that you have taken your own breakfast or brunch before you come as we will be having a late lunch
FEEL FREE TO BRING ANY FRIENDS ALONG.
Note: A contact list of the participants will be emailed to those who register and turn up for the event. If you want your contact number to be reflected in the contact list, please remember to key it in when you register.
Time Table : 8.30am - 9.30am Taking a bus from Bedok MRT to Changi Jetty 9.30am - 10.10am Quick breakfast or brunch 10.15am Meet up with friends waiting at the Jetty 10.20am Take Bum Boat to Palau Ubin 10.45am - 3pm Cycling and exploring Palau Ubin. Occasional breaks along the way to allow participants to
mingle. 3.45pm Back to Singapore mainland. Proceed to Hawker Centre or nearby coffee shop to take lunch.
How to recognise me ? (for new friends who have not seen me before) I will be wearing a white collarless T-shirt (with the letterings "Daniel Hechter"), blue shorts & jogging shoes. My height is 1.71m and do not wear any specs.
One of the friends just asked me how come this activity also appear in the SDU magazine and their website. Is it the same activity ?
Yes, I'm glad to say that it is. This is a special joint event for Singles Hub and DBS SDU members. The main objective of doing this joint event is to widen the social circles for both groups and enhance the opportunity of members to get to know more new single friends.
As at today, we have 9 more vacancies left. Please email me at sunzzz11@... to register soonest if you are keen to join us. As usual, I will close the registration once there is no more vacancy (ie. even before the deadline - 30 July 2pm).
Note : Kindly register only when you can make it on that day. Thanks.
Good Day !!
Cheerio, Michael Lim
Michael <sunzzz11@...> wrote:
To: singleshub@yahoogroups.com From: Michael Date: Fri, 23 Jul 2004 21:04:40 -0700 (PDT) Subject: [singleshub] Re: "Hi Tea" gathering at Siam Kitchen Authentic Thai Restaurant on 1 August 2004 (Sun)
Dear Friends,
Thanks for the overwhelming support for the Chill Out at Le Chateau.
I pleased to inform you that next Sunday (1 August), I am organising a "Hi Tea" gathering for everyone again (especially for those who cannot register in time or make it for the Le Chateau event).
The details of the "Hi Tea" gathering are as follows : ********************************************************************************************************************************* Date : 1 August 2004 (Sunday) Time : 2.30pm to 6pm Venue : Siam Kitchen Authentic Thai Restaurant (Parco Bugis Junction, 200 Victoria Street, #02-46, Spore 188024)
Cost : $17 per person
Payment to be made in cash at reception counter next to entrance. Kindly bring
exact change as far as possible.
Dress Code : Smart casual
Feel free to bring along any of your singles friends.
Kindly only register when you can make it on that day as I need to confirm the exact headcounts with the restaurant. Thanks.
Please be reminded that the registration for the "Hi Tea" gathering end on 30 July (2pm). If you are keen to join us, kindly let me know by the deadline as I need to confirm the exact number of participants with the restaurant. Thanks.
Cheers, Michael :)
Michael <sunzzz11@...> wrote:
To: singleshub@yahoogroups.com From: Michael Date: Fri, 23 Jul 2004 21:04:40 -0700 (PDT) Subject: [singleshub] Re: "Hi Tea" gathering at Siam Kitchen Authentic Thai Restaurant on 1 August 2004 (Sun)
Dear Friends,
Thanks for the overwhelming support for the Chill Out at Le Chateau.
I pleased to inform you that next Sunday (1 August), I am organising a "Hi Tea" gathering for everyone again (especially for those who cannot register in time or make it for the Le Chateau event).
The details of the "Hi Tea" gathering are as follows : ********************************************************************************************************************************* Date : 1 August 2004 (Sunday) Time : 2.30pm to 6pm Venue : Siam Kitchen Authentic Thai Restaurant (Parco Bugis Junction, 200 Victoria Street, #02-46, Spore 188024)
Cost : $17 per person
Payment to be made in cash at reception counter next to entrance. Kindly bring
exact change as far as possible.
Dress Code : Smart casual
Feel free to bring along any of your singles friends.
Kindly only register when you can make it on that day as I need to confirm the exact headcounts with the restaurant. Thanks.
Thanks for the overwhelming support for the Chill Out at Le Chateau.
I pleased to inform you that next Sunday (1 August), I am organising a "Hi Tea" gathering for everyone again (especially for those who cannot register in time or make it for the Le Chateau event).
The details of the "Hi Tea" gathering are as follows : ********************************************************************************************************************************* Date : 1 August 2004 (Sunday) Time : 2.30pm to 6pm Venue : Siam Kitchen Authentic Thai Restaurant (Parco Bugis Junction, 200 Victoria Street, #02-46, Spore 188024)
Cost : $17 per person
Payment to be made in cash at reception counter next to entrance. Kindly bring
exact change as far as possible.
Dress Code : Smart casual
Feel free to bring along any of your singles friends.
Kindly only register when you can make it on that day as I need to confirm the exact headcounts with the restaurant. Thanks.
Due to overwhelming responses to tomorrow's Chill Out event, we regret that we have to close the registration with immediate effect (ie. 1 hour before the official deadline).
Note: Any registration received after this notice will be placed on the reserve list.
For friends who can't get a place for this event, please do not be disheartened as I will be organising a "Hi Tea" gathering next Sunday (1 August) at Siam Kitchen restaurant. This is an equally popular activity as some 70 friends turned up for the last one which I did there earlier. Once I confirm the details, I should be able to send out the information for the "Hi Tea" to the group as early as tomorrow.
Have a nice weekend !!
Cheerio, Michael
Michael <sunzzz11@...> wrote:
To: singleshub@yahoogroups.com From: Michael Date: Mon, 19 Jul 2004 23:08:19 -0700 (PDT) Subject: [singleshub] Update: Chill Out at Le Chateau Bar on 24 July (Sat)
Hi All,
Please be reminded that the registration to attend "Chill Out at Le Chateau Bar" this Saturday will close on 23 July (11.55pm).
If you and/or your friends are keen to join us, kindly email me soonest with the following :
(a). Your name (b). Your contact number (c). Number of friends you are bringing & their names
These few days, 51 people had already signed up. Figures are still coming in fast.
As the maximum capacity of Le Chateau Bar is about 100 people, I will close the registration once this figure is hit even before the deadline (23 July) for registration. Please register early to avoid disappointment.
Note : To prevent overcrowding, we will not allow Gate Crashers (ie. those who did not register) to come in unless there are some absentees from the registration list.
Look forward to seeing you this Saturday !!
Cheerio, Michael Lim
Michael <sunzzz11@...> wrote:
To: singleshub@yahoogroups.com From: Michael Date: Fri, 16 Jul 2004 11:22:32 -0700 (PDT) Subject: [singleshub] Re: Chill Out at Le Chateau Bar
Please be reminded that the registration to attend "Chill Out at Le Chateau Bar" this Saturday will close on 23 July (11.55pm).
If you and/or your friends are keen to join us, kindly email me soonest with the following :
(a). Your name (b). Your contact number (c). Number of friends you are bringing & their names
These few days, 51 people had already signed up. Figures are still coming in fast.
As the maximum capacity of Le Chateau Bar is about 100 people, I will close the registration once this figure is hit even before the deadline (23 July) for registration. Please register early to avoid disappointment.
Note : To prevent overcrowding, we will not allow Gate Crashers (ie. those who did not register) to come in unless there are some absentees from the registration list.
Look forward to seeing you this Saturday !!
Cheerio, Michael Lim
Michael <sunzzz11@...> wrote:
To: singleshub@yahoogroups.com From: Michael Date: Fri, 16 Jul 2004 11:22:32 -0700 (PDT) Subject: [singleshub] Re: Chill Out at Le Chateau Bar
I am organising a "Chill Out at Le Chateau Bar" next Saturday (24 July 2004). Come and meet new friends at a cosy bar exuding the irresistible charms of a French mansion with its unobtrusive elegance.
The details of the "Chill Out" are as follows : ========================================================================== Date : 24 July 2004 (Saturday) Time : 6.30pm to 9pm Venue : Le Chateau Bar (277 Orchard Road, #B1-02, Specialists' Shopping Centre, Spore 238858) Please enter by Europa Music Underground's (previously know as Induz 3) main entrance.
Cost : $11 per person (inclusive of one drink - housepour)
Payment to be made in cash at reception counter next to entrance. Kindly bring
exact change as far as possible.
Dress Code : Smart casual
Feel free to bring along any of your singles friends.
NB : The whole Bar is EXCLUSIVELY RESERVED for us to interact freely. Three piece acoustic band will commence at 9pm.
I am organising a "Chill Out at Le Chateau Bar" next Saturday (24 July 2004). Come and meet new friends at a cosy bar exuding the irresistible charms of a French mansion with its unobtrusive elegance.
The details of the "Chill Out" are as follows : ========================================================================== Date : 24 July 2004 (Saturday) Time : 6.30pm to 9pm Venue : Le Chateau Bar (277 Orchard Road, #B1-02, Specialists' Shopping Centre, Spore 238858) Please enter by Europa Music Underground's (previously know as Induz 3) main entrance.
Cost : $11 per person (inclusive of one drink - housepour)
Payment to be made in cash at reception counter next to entrance. Kindly bring
exact change as far as possible.
Dress Code : Smart casual
Feel free to bring along any of your singles friends.
NB : The whole Bar is EXCLUSIVELY RESERVED for us to interact freely. Three piece acoustic band will commence at 9pm.
Still thinking of how to spend your evening this coming Friday (25 June) ? Why not join us for a dinner get-together & get to know some new frens....
Details of the get-together are as follow :
Date : 25 June 2004 (Fri) Time : 7pm Venue : Rialto Italian Cuisine restaurant @ 117A Killiney Road, Singapore 239554 (Tel : 67384750)
Cost : Pay according to what you have order Remarks : Price start from as low as $8.90 for a plate of Pasta. The most expensive dish there is the Lamb Shank which cost $23.90 (if i did not remember wrongly). They also serve a four course set dinner at $18.90. The thin crust Pizzas there are also nice.
Feel free to bring along any of your friends !!
If you are keen to join us, please email me at sunzzz11@... with the following latest by 24 June :
(a). Name (b). Gender (Male / Female)
(c). Contact number (if any) (d). Number of friends you are bringing & their names
Note : Kindly let me know if you are coming so that I can reserve a seat for you. Will try to ask the restaurant to block out an area exclusively for us.
For those who are not sure of the place, you can meet me at the Somerset MRT control station at 6.40pm (Please be punctual hor).
Remember the Singles online search website ( www.singlesdelight.com ) which I specially developed for all my singles friends and Singles Hub friends ?
So far, responses have been very encouraging. To make it even better and bigger so that everybody will have an ever increasing chances to find their ideal girlfriend or boyfriend, I'm please to announce the following special initiative :
Free 1 month Singles Delight Premium Membership
Who are eligible ? Anybody who post their profile on www.singlesdelight.com as a Free member and refer another 3 friends to post their profiles on the website as well.
How to get the Free 1 month Premium membership ? (a). After you have posted your profile on www.singlesdelight.com, you need to inform me at michael@... on your referred friends' usernames who also posted theirs. In the email subject title, please write "Singles Delight friends referral initiative". This is for verification purpose.
(b). Your referred friends need to specify your username when prompt "How did you get to know about Singles Delight" while they are signing up as a Free members.
Once steps (a) and (b) are done, your Free membership will be automatically upgraded to Premium 1 (ie. 1 month Premium membership) for FREE.
What can a Premium Member enjoy ? (1). He/ She can post his/her profile and are able to contact all the other members in www.singlesdelight.com (2). All Premium Members are allow to type in their contact email address(es) in their "More About Myself" section without any removal. This can benefit the Premium member even more because the public can view the premium member's profile and are able to contact him/her even though they are not a member yet.
When will this special Free 1 month Premium Membership Initiative end ? This special initiative will end on 18 July 2004.
Feel free to forward this information to all your singles friends, colleagues or relatives so that they too can benefit from the initiative as well.
NOTE : Please note that the development of www.singlesdelight.com is not about making profit. It was mainly developed to help members to search for their ideal girlfriend(s) or boyfriend(s) fast in the comfort of their home or office at their own convenience and 24 hours daily.
The charging of a very minimal fee for Premium memberships is to help me recover the cost of developing the website, and the ongoing maintenance and hosting cost. To keep cost low, www.singlesdelight.com will remain as a very simple and "no frills" website... its main objective is to help singles friends to search for their ideal life partners fast.
After revising the subscription prices of the premium memberships...... If I'm not wrong, currently Singles Delight Premium Membership is one of the World cheapest and I strongly believe when more singles people find out about this, they will not hesitate to join the group...... everybody will then have an ever increasing chances to find their ideal girlfriends or boyfriends.
If you think that this simple vision of mine is workable and can help all the singles, please forward this email to as many of your singles friends or colleagues as possible. I certainly hope that Singles in every parts of the World will get to benefit from this simple initiative.
Please be reminded that the last date of registration for the Badminton Gathering is29 May 2004 .
NOTE : Those who came without registration will not be entertained.
If you are interested to join the gathering, please email me at michael@... or sunzzz11@... (by 29 May) with :
(1). Your name &/ friend(s) name(s) (2). Contact number(s) (3). Email address(es) (4). Gender (ie. Male/ Female)
Best Regards, Michael
Michael Lim <sunzzz11@...> wrote:
To: singleshub@yahoogroups.com From: Michael Lim Date: Mon, 24 May 2004 09:58:01 -0700 (PDT) Subject: [singleshub] Re: Details for the Badminton Gathering on 30 May 2004
Hi Frens,
Some frens have just feedback to me that they can't view the details for the Badminton gathering at the Singles Delight website (www.singlesdelight.com) because their Internet Explorer browser is of a much earlier version.
Please find attached below the details for the Badminton gathering for the benefits of frens who can't view the details on the Singles Delight website.
NB: Kindly note that recently my name and email address have been used by a computer virus to send spam emails of all sorts of funny subject title. Please do not open them...
I usually send email with a very proper subject title and would also normally include the wordings "gathering", "activity" or "event" in the title.
Badminton Gathering at Cairnhill Community Centre
30 May 2004 (Sunday) 9.45am (Meeting Time) 10am to 12pm (Badminton playing) Meeting @ Newton MRT control station Cairnhill Community Centre : 1 Anthony Road, Singapore 229944 ( less than 1 minute walk from Newton MRT ) Cost per person : $5 (for booking of all the courts & shuttlecocks)
Note : Please bring along your own racket. If you have a spare one... would appreciate that you can bring that along also... just in case some of the participants may not have one.
Feel free to bring your singles friends along. Please be punctual. Latecomers will have to proceed to the Community Centre themselves.
After the game, we can proceed to the nearby Newton Hawker Centre for lunch together.
If you are interested to join this gathering, please email Michael at michael@... (by 29 May) with :
(1). Your name &/ friend(s) name(s) (2). Contact number(s) (3). Email address(es) (4). Gender (ie. Male/ Female)
If you are keen to join us in the Badminton gathering, please email me soonest (ie. latest by 29 May).
Some frens have just feedback to me that they can't view the details for the Badminton gathering at the Singles Delight website because their Internet Explorer browser is of a much earlier version.
Please find attached below the details for the Badminton gathering for the benefits of frens who can't view the details on the Singles Delight website.
NB: Kindly note that recently my name and email address have been used by a computer virus to send spam emails of all sorts of funny subject title. Please do not open them...
I usually send email with a very proper subject title and would also normally include the wordings "gathering", "activity" or "event" in the title.
Badminton Gathering at Cairnhill Community Centre
30 May 2004 (Sunday) 9.45am (Meeting Time) 10am to 12pm (Badminton playing) Meeting @ Newton MRT control station Cairnhill Community Centre : 1 Anthony Road, Singapore 229944 ( less than 1 minute walk from Newton MRT ) Cost per person : $5 (for booking of all the courts & shuttlecocks)
Note : Please bring along your own racket. If you have a spare one... would appreciate that you can bring that along also... just in case some of the participants may not have one.
Feel free to bring your singles friends along. Please be punctual. Latecomers will have to proceed to the Community Centre themselves.
After the game, we can proceed to the nearby Newton Hawker Centre for lunch together.
If you are interested to join this gathering, please email Michael at michael@... (by 29 May) with :
(1). Your name &/ friend(s) name(s) (2). Contact number(s) (3). Email address(es) (4). Gender (ie. Male/ Female)
If you are keen to join us in the Badminton gathering, please email me soonest (ie. latest by 29 May).
Cheerio, Michael
Michael Lim <sunzzz11@...> wrote:
To: singleshub@yahoogroups.com From: Michael Lim Date: Wed, 19 May 2004 05:56:51 -0700 (PDT) Subject: [singleshub] Re: Badminton Gathering on 30 May 2004
Hi Frens,
I will be organising a Badminton gathering for members of Singles Delight on 30 May, and would like to extend the invitation to all Singles Hub friends as well.
I will be organising a Badminton gathering for members of Singles Delight on 30 May, and would like to extend the invitation to all Singles Hub friends as well.
Thank you very much for your strong past support for my groups, Singles Hub and F2.
As a token of appreciation, I am please to offer a special 50% discount to friends who sign up as a Premium Member on www.singlesdelight.comfrom 26 April to 10 May 2004.
I hope that this initiative will help all my singles friends to find their ideal mate fast, and certainly wish that everyone would have got attached or married even before their Premium Membership expire.
Benefits of joining as a Premium Member rather than a Free member :
(a). Can post personal profile
(b). Can initiate contact with all other members (both Free & Premium Members)
(c). Allow to place his/her contact email address in "More About Myself" section. As such, even non Singles Delight members (ie. Singles from the public) can reach him/her through email.
As far as I know, Online Dating is one of the most efficient way to search for other available singles. This is because :
(i). You can search for other singles 24 hours round the clock in the comfort of your home or office as long as their profiles are posted on the singles website.
(ii). It is quite focus because those who posted their profile will have stated their selection criteria. You don't have to go on a "Wild goose" chase as in the traditional method of going after a guy or lady and eventually found out that his/her selection criteria does not match yours. This will save you a lot of time, energy and money.
To enjoy the discount, simply key in "Friend of Singles Hub" or "Friend of F2" when answering to "How did you get to know about Singles Delight" on the "Sign Up" screen of www.singlesdelight.com.
Success Kinetic will immediately activate your premium membership once it received your discounted payment (ie. after 50% discount) in cheque.
Once again, thanks for your support.
Here's wishing you all the BEST in your search for an ideal life long partner.
I will be organising a cycling cum gathering for members of Singles Delight on 2 May, and would like to extend the invitation to all Singles Hub friends as well.
Thanks for your strong support of Singles Hub. I have a piece of good news to share with you and you are going to be the first one to know about it.
A moment ago, I have just launched "Live" an Online Match-Making website called Singles Delight. The website URL is : www.singlesdelight.com
Feel free to check it out and post your profile for FREE !! Those of you who wish to upload your photo, please email it to admin@.... Please send it in jpg format hor... thanks.
With the launch of the website, I have completed my objective and dreams of expanding our social circles to all the Singles in Singapore and even the World.
I hope that this initiative will help all the singles in Singapore and even those in the World to search for other available singles with a click of a few buttons in the comfort of their home or office, and 24 hours a day. This will greatly reduce the time, energy and money a single need to spent to look for a potential life long partner compared to the traditional method of physically searching for one.
Of course, if you find it good and helpful... feel free to refer this website (www.singlesdelight.com) to your singles friends so that they can benefit from it as well.
It's been a long time since I last organised a roller blading get-together session. I am please to inform u that I will be organising one this coming Sunday.
Details of the gathering are as follow :
Date : 4 Apr 2004
Time : 3.30pm to 5.45pm (NB: Please be punctual)
Meeting place : East Coast Park Mcdonald's (at the seatings directly outside
Mcdonald's & next to the car park).
Note: Those who do not have a pair of roller blades can rent it from the nearby inline skating kiosk.
Feel free to bring any of your friends along.
For new friends who just joined Singles Hub and have not seen me before, I will be wearing a white T shirt with the lettering "Daniel Hechter" in front and a blue jean.
After the blading (around 6pm), we can take our dinner at the nearby food court. Of course, for those who are still energetic after the dinner, we can proceed to Coffee Bean for a cuppa and light chat.
If you are interested to join us, please email me (sunzzz11@...) with the followings by 4 Apr (11am) so that I know who to expect :
(a). Your name &/ friend(s) name(s)
(b). Contact number(s)
(c). Gender
Look forward to spend a wonderful Sunday afternoon with all of you.
It's been a long time since I last organised a roller blading get-together session. I am please to inform u that I will be organising one this coming Sunday.
Details of the gathering are as follow :
Date : 4 Apr 2004
Time : 3.30pm to 5.45pm (NB: Please be punctual)
Meeting place : East Coast Park Mcdonald's (at the seatings directly outside
Mcdonald's & next to the car park).
Note: Those who do not have a pair of roller blades can rent it from the nearby inline skating kiosk.
Feel free to bring any of your friends along.
For new friends who just joined Singles Hub and have not seen me before, I will be wearing a white T shirt with the lettering "Daniel Hechter" in front and a blue jean.
After the blading (around 6pm), we can take our dinner at the nearby food court. Of course, for those who are still energetic after the dinner, we can proceed to Coffee Bean for a cuppa and light chat.
If you are interested to join us, please email me (sunzzz11@...) with the followings by 4 Apr (11am) so that I know who to expect :
(a). Your name &/ friend(s) name(s)
(b). Contact number(s)
(c). Gender
Look forward to spend a wonderful Sunday afternoon with all of you.
Thank u for your overwhelming support for the "Hi Tea" on 7 March.
Some 70 friends had joined us for the gathering. Would like to express special thanks to those who attended and a "Big welcome" to those who joined us for the first time.
Have a nice week ahead & do look out for my next event.
So far, 47 people had oledi signed up for the event.
Please be reminded the registration deadline for the "Hi Tea" cum gathering is on 5 March 2004 (9am). Registration received after this deadline will not be entertained as I would have confirmed the final headcount with the restaurant by then.
Look forward to seeing ya this Sunday !!
Cheerio Michael
Michael Lim <sunzzz11@...> wrote:
To: singleshub@yahoogroups.com From: Michael Lim Date: Thu, 26 Feb 2004 19:25:58 -0800 (PST) Subject: [singleshub] Update: "Hi Tea" cum gathering at Siam Kitchen Restaurant on 7 March 2004
Hi Friends,
I think by now most of you would have already received information on the "Hi Tea" cum gathering session this coming 7 March (Sun).
Due to requests from members, I have decided to do away with cheque payment.
Kindly make payment in cash on the day of the event. Participant just need to pay $15 instead of the $17 as mentioned earlier. Please bring exact change as far as possible.
If you are interested to attend, please email me latest by 5 March (9am) with your name, email address and contact number.
Below is the information on the "Hi Tea" cum gathering session for your reference. Feel free to forward this to any of your singles friends.
The "Hi Tea" is in Buffet style and the whole restaurant is EXCLUSIVELY reserved for us from 3pm to 6pm. Please refer below on the Buffet menu.
Feel free to bring along any of your friends.
Details of the event are as follow :
Date: 7 March 2004 (Sunday)
Time: 3pm to 6pm
Venue: Siam Kitchen Restaurant at Parco Bugis Junction, 200 Victoria Street, #02-46, Singapore 188024.
Cost: $15 per person (Payment by cash on the day of event. Please bring exact
change as far as possible)
If you are interested to attend, please email me the following information :
(1). Name
(2). Contact Number
(3). Friends names (if any) and their contact numbers/ emails (if any).
All registration should reach me latest by 5 March (9 am).
Note: Last minute GATECRASHERS on the day of event will not be entertained as it will cause serious logistic and catering problems.
I think by now most of you would have already received information on the "Hi Tea" cum gathering session this coming 7 March (Sun).
Due to requests from members, I have decided to do away with cheque payment.
Kindly make payment in cash on the day of the event. Participant just need to pay $15 instead of the $17 as mentioned earlier. Please bring exact change as far as possible.
If you are interested to attend, please email me latest by 5 March (9am) with your name, email address and contact number.
Below is the information on the "Hi Tea" cum gathering session for your reference. Feel free to forward this to any of your singles friends.
The "Hi Tea" is in Buffet style and the whole restaurant is EXCLUSIVELY reserved for us from 2.30pm to 6pm. Please refer below on the Buffet menu.
Feel free to bring along any of your friends.
Details of the event are as follow :
Date: 7 March 2004 (Sunday)
Time: 2.30pm to 6pm
Venue: Siam Kitchen Restaurant at Parco Bugis Junction, 200 Victoria Street, #02-46, Singapore 188024.
Cost: $15 per person (Payment by cash on the day of event. Please bring exact
change as far as possible)
If you are interested to attend, please email me the following information :
(1). Name
(2). Contact Number
(3). Friends names (if any) and their contact numbers/ emails (if any).
All registration should reach me latest by 5 March (9 am).
Note: Last minute GATECRASHERS on the day of event will not be entertained as it will cause serious logistic and catering problems.
BUFFET MENU
Spicy Green Mango Salad
Grilled Chicken Satay
Thai Style Fish Cakes
Vegetarian Spring Roll
Stir Fried Minced Chicken with Chilli and Basil
Deep Fried Sotong Ball in Spicy Sauce
Stir Fried Mixed Vegetables with Oyster Sauce
Pineapple Fried Rice with Seafood and Mushroom
Desserts
Mixed Tropical Fresh Fruit
Caramelized Tapioca with Coconut Milk
Coffee or Tea
Look forward to seeing you !!
Cheerio Michael Lim
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