Greetings,
there is a great paradox within the fathers rights groups.
Everyone knows that feminism is the enemy. Everyone knows that the
problem is when the judge gave custody of their kids to the mother
in the divorce. They know that if the judge would have given them
custody in the 1st place they would be holding all the cards and
there wouldn't be a problem now. Because they would have been able
to go to the table with their ex wife and laid out the ground rules
that they want.
The problem is, most men don't realize until it's too
late that when a judge gives custody to the mother he automatic
creates a hundred problems, problems for the kids, problems for the
mother, problems for him and problems for us, society!
But by the time they figure this out, the last thing
they want to do is eat crow and go back to court and apologize for
doing the stupiest thing they ever did in their life, abandon their
kids to a single mother home. Because they never wanted custody of
their kids in the first place. And if they go back and get custody
they would actually have to be a single parent.
So they pretend that they really care about their kids
and join fathers rights groups and advocate for joint custody and
lower child support payments so they can feel better about
themselves. But deep inside they know that they ain't no different
than their enemies. They want mom to have the responsibilities of
raising their kids. It doesn't really bother them because it takes
the responsibilities of being a man off their shoulders and gives
them more time to play games and dabble in politics.

Pete


--- In sharedparenting@yahoogroups.com, "aXYs Forum"
<axysforum@y...> wrote:
> Frequently I observe the inherent tendency for Mens Groups to self-
> destruct and collapse into a squabbling, bickering wasteland of
nothing.
> Almost every Group is swamped by Alpha males competing with each
other
> for 'primacy' and superiority within the Group. All focus is lost
and
> energies wasted on infighting and squabbling. The feminists note
this
> male competitive instinct and rely on it to advance their warped
aims.
>
> Gentlemen, do NOT give the feminists a 'gift'. Remember we are all
on
> the same team, subdue your alpha-malism and become a team player.
>
> Stay On-focus and do not repeat the errors of previous Mens Groups.
>
> Feminism Is Your Enemy..NOT your brothers.