Hi all- Boy! am I glad to have found this group..a virtual life saver. I found out with complete clarity a few days ago that the man with which I was...
Just wanted to add that when this happened to me i contacted agematch and told them that this man was again on the site looking for someone to come to paris,...
Lori, no need to feel guilty or ashamed, we have all been where you have been. All of us here are kind and good people. You reached out for love, its what...
lori..so glad you found this site. It took me awhile to find but I can say with education (I go someplace new here every day)and the caring and help through...
Update on my date: I had a very nice meal and coffee at starbucks. It was an interesting evening to say the least. I learned I am not quite ready for one on...
Carol, does this mean that if I want to say that the #### hit the fan I should really say "the effluent sewage hit the means of pneumatic conveyance?" or if...
How do you stop thinking about your scammer's id character after you have completely severed contact with him? I keep getting pictures in my head of him...
Lori, I am sooo sorry this has happened to you, but I'm very very glad you found your way to us. First of all, I want you to know that we ALL know exactly what...
goldenightrose, It will take some time, but it will happen. Print out those pictures of what the scammers really look like, and every time your brain kicks in...
I actually had the "pleasure" of meeting my scammer in person, and so I know the photos are accurate. He emailed, IMd, texted me 30 times daily after our...
Hi Cath, we don't do Americans here but there is a site that does. I am not positive about the name but it is something like, don'tdatethatman. You could try...
Hi Cath! I had something similar happen to me, only the daughter wasn't dieing yet but had a heart disease. I'm curious to know, was the daughters name Nicole?...
It is called dontdatehimgirl.com. hugs= Jody Peer Counselor/Moderator ... I am not positive about the name but it is something like, don'tdatethatman. You ...
Lori, Â I know exactly how you are feeling I fell for the same thing and ended up losing more than 14,000.00Â I am also a single parent of 1 son...believe me...
... agematch and told them that this man was again on the site looking for someone to come to paris, and he had 3 profiles active, the immediately suspended...
Thanks Patrish-hope I wrote in the right place this time. Something good happenned on a dating web site-just thought i would pass it on- i was brought up in a...
Lori, welcome to our group. You don't have to feel embarrassed, we all been there. We all understand how you feel. I just want to point out to you, that in the...
Great train of thought Karen. Love yourself, have fun with life and if their is a "He" out there...."He" will probably sneak up behind you when you least...
Goldennightrose, It will get better and eventually you will just get mad. Don't much like being cynical but a certain amount of cynicism is healthy in the...
Lori, please don't blame yourself for this. I know exactly what you mean about questioning yourself and your decisions. One thing I have always prided myself...
I'm not sure where to turn I met someone online and we started to hit things off now the part that makes me feel "dumb" she lives in Negeria she either emails...
There is one (probalby others as well) warning men about women as well - http://www.neverdateher.com/ Stories with very adult language that tells it like it...
Just remember that no matter how good it feels to hear from her, she is not real. The pictures are not her. No matter how much you send to her, you will never...
My scammer got through on my blackeberry... he says he has been trying to call and wants me to explain so he can understand what is going on he says he is...
im sorry love hurts. I think your being a little harsh with your words about video booths etc. Yes there are cases that need but we all want to believe. ...
You are misunderstanding my words. I was only saying that tossing coins in a slot will get you as much as sending money to the scammer will get you - nothing....
First all let me tell you that you ARE MOST definately dealing with a scammer. This in no way makes you stupid. Second of all, she is not a woman. Reality...
Yes, there is a certain order in which you must remove the scammer. It is in the files...I believe it is to first block from mail, then delete from address...