This is a place for guys in Northern Virginia who experience some degree of attraction to other guys (even if they might be married to a woman), and have limits on what they think is acceptable between buddies. They understand and accept the philosophy found at www.g0ys.org (spelled with a zero) which is, in a nutshell, that M2M relationships must be respectful, and respectful affection between buddies never includes one of them putting his unit in the others guys back side (you know what I'm talking about).

One can begin to feel isolated by choosing to not embrace the gAy lifestyle while also not being able to dismiss one's same-gender-affections. The purpose of this group is to find like-minded men--other g0ys--and to promote among its members friendships that are based on mutual respect.

If you live in Northern Virginia then join to find other local guys who share both your same-gender-affection and your limits on what is acceptable behavior. Introduce yourself to other members (having a picture or two and telling us what area of NOVA you live in will help a lot). Then get together to shoot hoops, play tennis, ride bikes, go swimming...or just play chess. The activity doesn't matter as much as the fraternal spirit in which it is engaged. Who knows, maybe it can become the kind of friendship where you can let off a little steam together. But even if it doesn't, you will know you are not alone and there are others nearby to support and encourage you.

We look forward to meeting you.

http://www.g0ys.org/OnYourOwn.htm - for many other groups

http://www.g0ys.org/g0ydar.htm - for promotion and connection tips

Other local g0y groups: