Mid-lifers who have Adopted from China - This list is intended primarily for adoptive parents of children born in China who are in their prime of life, or at least attempting to convince themselves of this. Parents (married, single or other) who have been home from their China adoption trip at least a year and who are, let's say, older than you may wish to admit are welcome to join. All topics are encouraged and all topics will be continued to their natural end. We hope the focus remains on adoption-related issues, but off-topic threads are welcome and will be given full attention. If "flowery and expressive" language help you to make your point, so be it. Strong opinions and passionate points of view are encouraged. Moderation will be minimal at best in the hopes that we can explore all aspects of all issues. We hope you join in the fun and share your thoughts and approaches to life with the group. But be forewarned - if you want PC or are easily offended, this list may not be for you. Hang on tight!