The MAILL list is for married and previously married lesbians and married women questioning their sexuality who are interested in discussion/support. Its purpose is to provide a forum for discussing all aspects of our experience, including sharing advice, exchanging information, networking, seeking and giving support and sharing personal trials and stories. Discussion need not focus exclusively on lesbian and/or married issues, but should remain generally focused on that foundation. The group includes women who are married and choosing to stay, choosing to leave and at every stage in between. No men may join.