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DISCLAIMER
If you are offended by rude/dirty/vulgar/racist/sexist/revolting issues,
please delete this message IMMEDIATELY. This write up is not about the vows we
made, and not keeping them. It's about how we take people for granted at
times, or most of the time. Especially when they loves us very much or very
very nice to us.
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I guess by now everyone must have been a to whole load of weddings right.
There you have the bride and the groom, at the altar with the minister. We all
had heard the vows, if we have heard them once then we have heard them all.

"We are gathered here to join this man and woman in this holy matrimony

Do you take this woman whom you now hold by the hand to be your lawful wedded
wife?

Do you promise to love and cherish her, in sickness and in health, for richer
for poorer, for better for worse, and forsaking all others, keep yourself only
unto her, for so long as you both shall live?"

For me, the best part of the vows is the sickness part. If I have to get
married, you know all those vows, "For richer or for poorer, for better or for
worse...".

All you need is the sickness part. That is the most important one. "... in
sickness and in health?"

The best time to have a relationship is when you're sick. And the best time to
be sick is in a relationship. The rest of the times go out, have a ball and
party, do whatever you want - but if I get the sniffles, you'd better be there
for me. Who don't want to be pampered, I know I do.

Lying there on your bed, call for your spouse in the kitchen: -

"Hey, honey can you switch the channel for me, they are putting some sloppy
shows today."
"Why can't you do it yourself dear?"
"I'm sick, too weak to reach out for the remote." (But strong enough to make a
fuss and be a nag)
"I'm making us dinner dear - soup for you."
"I want to see something else ... please"
"Well alright ... I'll be right there"

See isn't that nice - sure you big baby, of course we like it when others does
things for us. Like take the garbage out when it's your turn or iron your
shirts. Some of us seem to enjoy this life like you are a king of the castle
and order people to do work for us. The actual true fact is we are lazy bones.
Take note that we do carry this to our workplace as well. So now you know why
people call you with that awful remarks. We might have to revisit our
character at times and change for a better you. Its there and always have been
there, only it might just take a little while longer to realize it.

Regards
Lord

I've learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we
are, but we are responsible for who we become. - Lord


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