Hi, and thank you so much for your thoughts and sharing. It helps. I feel sad tonight, and this was nice to read - many thanks! VZ ... From: outlandish41...
Just remember, you won't solve it all in a day, a week and perhaps a year. And if you have a Christian faith, just turn it over daily to God. I always prayed...
My Manager gave this to me today, sent by her Dad, entitled: EVERYTHING I NEED TO KNOW ABOUT LIFE, I LEARNED FROM NOAH'S ARK. One: Don't miss the boat. ...
Linda, I am OK. My H and I have decided to divorce, so we are going through that. It is sad to realize the "dream" of happily ever after will not come true,...
Hi Cathy, My husband and I are currently trying to rebuild our marriage. He and I are each in therapy, and I go to COSA every week. I feel like he is...
I once read a book (of course can't think of the author right now but wil look it up) ALL about people who can't choose the right person (friends, partners,...
I really enjoyed reading your very thoughtful post this morning. Thanks so much for sharing. I've been thinking about what you wrote about your own issues,...
Hi - well first of all I should say I am not an expert in rebuilding trust, because we have not done that successfully. I have read books and listened at...
Linda, thank you - I feel better reading your post. I was feeling very sad this morning. I would love to see a discussion of what feels safe to us. Also this...
Kelly, thank you for your encouragement and for reminding me that there is light at the end of the tunnel. I would love to know the book you are referring to!...
Hello - here'a another thing I want to add about rebuilding trust. I could not come to terms with the SA addiction as it relates to honesty and intimacy. My...
Those who know me, know that I adore and admire Joyce Meyers. On her show last night she made a great analogy about God's Mercy and eagerness to help when one...
This isn't in any particular order of importance. And alot of it I've experienced post-divorce, which is when I realized just how critical it is to me in order...
Linda: Thanks for the note and the thought... Just came back from a night away with my boys only to have my wife tell me that its over... got to love it...
More. 18. Lot's of "cuddling" - before, during and after sex. Especially in the middle of the night when we both know we're both sort of awake. 19. Being in...
Wow, fantastic. I am printing this to keep in my journal! Thanks much. ... From: mbjl2000 [mailto:no_reply@yahoogroups.com] Sent: Sunday, August 04, 2002 9:47...
Linda, I have an idea for us. Your list is critical for us to observe and notice about the other person - if he is a "safe" person. We could make another list...
Linda, here are some more that came to me: 26. Asks me frequently how I am, what I feel and what my goals and dreams are. Does this in a way that is sincere...
I like it! Alot! And I'm here to tell you that to this very day, I constantly ask myself "does this make me feel ok?" I like Kelly's term for it: developing...
Most of this comes from my experience with Bubba, but also includes what I've learned in the dating world, too. Again in no particular order. 1. Superficial...
This is so good where we are going with what makes a safe or unsafe person!! But remember for those living with a 'unsafe' personn that this is just to help...
... EEEEEWWWW EEEEEWWWW EEEEEWWWW! Gross! __________________________________________________ Do You Yahoo!? Yahoo! Health - Feel better, live better ...
Ouch, and YES this should be on the unsafe list.... Another possible one: Realizing that he gets out of bed after (he thinks) you are asleep and is gone for a...
You're right gal, it IS gross! But to show you how CLUELESS I was, I had no idea what the tissues were really all about until later, because Bubba had severe...
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