Sounds like you handled this PERFECTLY! Speaking for myself, whenever I have an employee tell me something "off the record" like you did, I'm ON IT! You can...
BTW---I don't care what bosses tell you, it's IMPOSSIBLE to monitor everybody ALL the time. Companies generally spot check---otherwise, they'd have to pay...
Please remember this: most employers are ALWAYS looking for employees who prove they are LOYAL, HONEST and don't have an ax to grind or stir the *hit or play...
I am not sure if this post is really directly adding to yours Laalaa...or L.'s.... but just something I was thinking off, basically because work/SA became so...
L. and Inge, Thanks for your response. L. I haven't documented the situation (except for here!) and guess I need to do that. One thought I've had about the...
L, The test for SA is the "Sexual Addiction Screening Test"--There are actually 4 versions, one for gay men, one for women, one for straight men and one for...
Hello Everyone, I haven't been participating in conversations because my situation is pretty stagnant right now. I'm just in Limbo while I search for ...
Hello, I just want to "second" the statement made as far as this group providing so much support, honesty, experience. I am still here reading!!!!! Thank you...
Sorry guys, I just can't pull it off. I also apologize for disappearing for a while-----I've had a family emergency which has required my 24/7 focus. I may...
Hello, I have been reading the archives and just recently joined the group. I was curious if addiction to cyber relationships is considered a sexual...
Ooooohhh booooohhhhhhhoooooo BUt: I understand! I for sure, will toast you and think of you as we will all do! Maybe next time, girlfriend....;) Inge ... be...
Hello. I am new to the group, just joined today after searching for bad marriage advice groups. I think it's terribly sad that a group like this even has to...
I know I just posted, but now I have read all your stories and feel compelled to post again. It amazes me that all the feelings I have had and all the things...
No, you aren't crazy. Yes, this situation is pushing you to the outer limits of sanity. What you're describing is called "gaslighting"----a term we've coined...
I'd really like that, gal. I'm a lot more flexible during the rest of the year-----the nature of retail, you know. :) I hope you guys have a wonderful time...
Donna, According to Carnes and others, yes. It is a form of internet addiction/sexual addiction. Out of the Shadow of the Net by Patrick Carnes is an...
Dear another new girl, Please see previous response to Donna. Carnes can describe this issue better than I ever could. I am so sorry that you are dealing with...
Idpelly, I know I just answered, but...lol. They don't know how to love. That is the long and the short answer. That is why treatment is the only way out. ...
Hi, gals! My goodness time is fun when you are having flies. Let's see...when we last left our heroine, she was desparately fighting the marauding hoardes of...
Just remember this spiritual truth, Kim: when we choose to change our world, there's always going to be a shake up and wake up that comes right along with it....
Wow- So quiet here for a week or so, then all $#!! breaks loose!! First things first- The pulitzer prize to that entertaining novella from our dear Kim- How...
Hi Patti, if you are out there please send an email to couture911us at yahoo dot com. Inge and I are thinking of having dinner on Sunday the 21st in San Diego....
I'm ready to give my husband an ultimatum to seek professional help to stop the cybering with other women or we end this marriage. I want to be clear what is...
Donna: YES! Ultimatum but a firm one and one you are able to follow through and actually 'do'. And don't make it a long term one. A week is long enough to seek...
Amy, as I sit in silence this evening after a twilight zone week with my Aunt, your words "crazymaking" hit me like a ton of bricks. I stopped to reflect...
Welcome, Lisa- when we start to believe what he makes us feel about ourselves, it's hard to have any self-esteem.Find the other sources of positive reflection...
If they have stayed away from cybering for a couple of months, is it possible they are cured. I don't want to get my hopes up for nothing, but he is really...
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