Thanks L! Very true; I am going back and forth...sometimes even my 'reason' taking over and telling me that 'it wasn't so bad'.... compared to the financial...
YES!!! This is the danger we must constantly guard against. In part because they totally wear us OUT, and because we're grieving, too. Remember---and this...
Hi, gals, I haven't been posting much, but I just came to the site and was reviewing posts. In the process, I just realized that several of the posts that I...
I'm not having a problem, Kim, but I do know that yahoo has been down more than usual in the last few weeks. How's it going with YOU??!! My thoughts and...
Dearest Inge- You are doing great!! Your friends won't let you starve or sleep in the street and credit is easy to come by for the financial short term- When...
Sexual anorexia is the term that my therapist diagnosed my s/o with. Has anyone heard about it? How does it come about? How do I deal with it? Thanks for any...
Welcome to SexHelp.com! Dr. Carnes' Resources for Sex Addiction & Recovery... Special Book Offers Order Sexual Anorexia They suffer silently, consumed by a...
OH MY GOD! Thank you SO much for posting this. I felt like I was reading about MY husband. It has clarified SO MUCH for me. This is LIFE-ALTERING. I...
Dear Bear! Hang in there! It will all be better. The moment you are in your car and you hear that one song and when your routine wants you to cry, suddenly you...
Hi, gals, It has definitely been awhile since I sat down and wrote anything. (Here or anywhere else for that matter!!!) The growling you hear from the Pacific...
Healing Bear: I can't see your original post, I just happened to read the last couple to see yours included. You need to remember that you will emerge from...
Hi, I'm sorry to hear about your situation. Sorry that you find yourself looking for answers, glad that you found us because we have been through the same (or...
Brrrrrr Got what a load of b/s.... Going to Court on Friday for a restraining order and WHO gets up when my name is called? Some guy saying HE is the lawyer to...
Hey gal, somehow I missed this post. I'm so glad Inge responded. I feel your pain my friend. I caught something significant in what you wrote, though, that...
Kim- THANK YOU!! For sharing, For surviving, For giving.... Charlotte ... of ... emotionally. ... met, ... the ... My ... after ... would ... the ... bruised ...
... Thank you healingbear for your help. It is very hurtful to go thru this. He was Soooo into bdsm, gang-rape porn, etc. but denies going to any of "those...
Congratulations on getting married!!!!!! WOW! I'm so thrilled for you both! Unless I'm mistaken, I believe you're the first of the old timers to take the...
If he is into bdsm and gang-rape porn, it does not sound like sexual anorexia would be the correct diagnosis for him. Does the person who made this diagnosis...
Thank you for your response. I'm sorry that I wasn't clear. My s/o has confessed to being a sex addict, quit porn "cold turkey" and is currently going to saa...
Hey there. Okay, here goes. This won't be easy reading, but I write it because I care. First. Recovery means being sober. Visiting porn sites is akin to an...
Whoops! I didn't catch that you're not married until now. YOU DESERVE BETTER, AND YOU CAN CHOOSE IT WITHOUT HAVING TO UPROOT CHILDREN AND OTHER CONSIDERATIONS...
This ole gal (me) is afraid of being alone. ... What's ... write ... a ... NOW. ... things ... have ... to ... next "or ... along ... and ... get ... word, ......
Dear bear, couture, linda.... Wow...what do I say to you? I want you to know that there were at least five empty seats at the wedding tonight. And I know...
Petzl, first. I am very impressed that you have been so honest. For many of us, this very circumspect truth takes years to admit, if ever. Yet, it's a vital...
I filed for Divorce,and David moved out...and then a strange thing happened~ We talked,and we listened to each other...and we MISSED each other* He moved back...
Thanks for your kind and honest words. Last night I read all of the inforamtion that I found about sexual anorexia...guess what...he denied it was like him...
That's awesome, Bear! Isn't it amazing what can happen when we draw that line in the sand? Big smile! No doubt sleeping on those strange couches did have an...
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