L, I send you warm thoughts and extra energy. Yep, I was exactly getting at the idea that some of these men/women are addicted to violence/control. I truly...
Geeze guys, I must have missed this discussion! My life is so harem scarem these days that I don't know which end is up! (However------ my new project is...
Copied from another list: Hi everyone, On Sunday, the 14th of Dec at 8 pm Eastern time CNN will broadcast an hour long documentary on infidelity. Do watch it...
GEORGE CARLIN POST 9-11 ((His wife recently died, too...) Isn't it amazing that George Carlin - the gross and mouthy comedian of the 70's and 80's - could...
Hey hey -- I know - I've been so busy lately. But I noticed from the low number of December posts, that everyone else must be too! :) Have a great Christmas...
Hey Kel and guys! MERRY CHRISTMAS! I know it's politically incorrect to say these days- ... serious note, it's part of what saved my life, I suspect. Take...
Well, if it wasn't for Christ coming to earth, there would be no Holiday this time of the year. So Merry MERRY Christmas to all as well. I even sent my big...
First. Hope everyone was able to find some blessings during a season that is always highly emotionally charged even in the best of times! :) Quick update: So...
Hello. My name is Joanna. I have been married nine and a half years. I have two children, a girl who's four and a boy who's two. I live in Upstate New York....
Dear Johanna, You are angry and hurt. What more do you need to know that what is happening is not okay. His response to your feelings is a huge red flag. I ...
Joanna, I second everything Kim said. She is usually right on target with her advice. It may confuse you when she suggests going to a DV shelter, but here's...
I recently joined your group and my heart goes out to all the woman who have problems. I found out months ago June to be exact that my husband has been making...
Dear Tracy, May I suggest you consider subscribing to the str8 spouse network. Your husband is gay. There is nothing wrong with that. Orientation isn't a...
Our problems began almost three years ago when my husband started "hanging out" with my two nieces (then 13 and 14). I cannot totally blame him as I had had an...
Joanna, I know things seem dark right now, but I see a lot in your message that reassures me that you are on the right track and will come out of this ok. Your...
I understand that lack of sex drive is very common with men who have online affairs. What can I as a spouse do to put the spark back in our love life? I am...
Hi and welcome. As I see it, it is not your job to put the "Spark" back into your marriage. You could probably have a supermodel body and model the entire...
Get him to go into treatment. Get yourself into a support group. Do it now. Where you are at right now becomes the albatross of shame later when you finally...
Patti, GREAT post. Yours too, Couture and Kim. You guys are the shining light for this group. Keeping in mind that I'm at a place where time has finally...
Hello everyone.. I met my husband online 5 years ago. We were married a year later. we were both divorced at the time. Although, many people I know frowned on...
The Kel and I have come up with an idea for another group------a quick analogy that comes to mind is "the morning after" - that period of time when all of us...
Cindi, I checked my old email and lo and behold----there was one from you from mid December!!!!! I am SO GLAD to hear from you!!! God bless you gal, and I...
He still has a sex drive -- he is just directing towards others and not you. He tells you he doesn't have a sex drive so he doesn't feel guilty or face the...
There is evolution in all things. Probably your idea is a good one because the focus does change with the changing situation, and being in this group is a...
I have one basic question, why would a man not have sex with his wife (less than once a month), but spend so much time and money day after day just to find...
Some men prefer a nasty hard-core street slut that will do anything and everything sexually, treat THEM nice, and spend OUR money taking these maneating...
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