Hi Jeanne, Thanks for your response. There are some things you have said that I don't feel I can relate to, but I still respect your opinion. Your situation...
I really appreciated your thoughts on this Deborah. It actually makes a lot of sense to me, as my efforts to forgive just take me round in circles. Thanks for...
I am so angry right now and I just need to vent and I need some advice. We live in a small rural town in the midwest and attend a small ward mostly populated...
I realize that most people cannot relate to the place I have arrived. I do believe that perhaps since I did have a good relationship with my father for m ost...
Carolyn and everyone: It is interesting that this topic came up in RS yesterday. Many women feel so much anguish and guilt about this subject. This in...
you seriously need to go to another branch or ward. your families' welfare is much more important than following arbitrary ward boundaries. i grew up in a...
Yes just ask the stake president if you can attend another ward/branch in your stake. Or move. When I was nearly 13 we moved from a large city to the middle of...
Honey, Get out and get out now. I am a convert to the church- and if I ran into a ward like this I would leave. This is WHY I left the protestant church...
sounds like my ward. its divided btw the people in leadership and the rest of us. the sit together and ignore the rest of the unwashed masses. linda all birth...
Just want to say to Crystal: your comment suggests to me that you are a very positive person. I believe you are a good model to many... at least to me. Mark ...
If talking to your bishop won't help, go to the stake president. If he doesn't help either, go to the next higher up. You can go all the way to the first...
I have calmed down now although I did tell my husband I was done going to church. I'm not, although I am tired to the "games" that go on at church. I know...
HI: Boy, it can be tough sometimes, in the church that is the Lords, but the people as just as human as anyone else. I once lived in a small Utah community...
Go to another ward or branch. You and your family shouldn't have to suffer and not receive blessings that you could be having if you were in a better ward. If...
I live in a small branch so many people have several callings. I enjoy my callings but have been confused about one. I am compassionate services (the only...
I have to agree with you. This isn't a brand new mom if there is a 3 year old and a teenager in the house to help. I also don't the attitude that if the...
Hi goincraz1, if the situation is exactly what you described, I believe I'll have to agree with Jeanne. The husband is home, and I assume he is off of work...
Sounds a bit over the top to ask for a baby sitter for the week also. Have you talked to the RS pres about this? We had situation in our ward recently with a...
Hi: It seems to me that you are in a difficult situation, and that it might be a great suggestion for the RS president to visit with this sister and possibly ...
then you can be in my ward, that compasiionate service is earned usually by status in the ward. linda all birth is normal unless proven otherwise To:...
I agreed last year to babysit for a friend in the ward who had to go back to work. She has three children, 12, 10, 5. Our 5 year old daughters are friends...
I wouldn't be babysitting for them any more. Jeanne From: feministmormonhousewives@yahoogroups.com [mailto:feministmormonhousewives@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf...
As we serve others, we occasionally run the risk of being taken advantage of by those we are trying to help- particularly when there is a long- term...
Cindy, I am so sorry to hear this is happening to your family. I was in a similar situation. I babysat for a friend and my daughter who was 5 at the time,...
HI Cindy: Sounds to me that you are being taken advantage of by this mom and her family. When we feel resentful toward someone else, it is often a signal that...
I feel your stress and know that sometimes to do good we must appear to perhaps do evil. The pain your child feels will last for a while as it is the pain of...
So I told her today that she needed to have other arrangements by a certain date, that it just wasn't working for our family. She is not happy about it, but...
I have been lurking on the blog for awhile and when I had this situation come up today, I figured I could get some good advice here. We moved to our current...
No one can take advantage of you without your permission, and you've given this woman a blank check. honestly, I'd have been DONE with them a long time ago,...