I agree with Norm.

As someone who runs a website for ex-ex-gays (www.beyondexgay.com) I
would say that we don't bash or hate ex-gays either. We even
encourage people to think about the good that came out of their ex-
gay experiences....because for many people, we did gain something
good from our times as ex-gays.

I also second Norm in checking out Gaychristian.net - they have been
a really helpful resource to lots of people and have great, active
message boards.

We also have a very fledgling online forum community for ex-ex-gays.
Email us at bxg@... with a bit of your story for more
information (this applies to anyone on this listserv as well).
Christians and nonChristians welcome.

Thanks,

Christine


On Feb 15, 2010, at 9:21 AM, nojam75 wrote:

> Hi Shaggy,
>
> Unfortunately, online forums often bring out the worst in people.
> However, I can't say that ex-exgays that I know wish harm on exgays
> -- especially considering 'we' (ex-exgays) were 'them' (ex-gays)
> just a short time ago. Admittedly, we can be snarky and critical of
> ex-gay promoters and the confusing/harmful ex-gay message.
>
> Have you tried GayChristian.net? I haven't been on GCN recently,
> but the last time I was there, they seemed to have good
> conversations and were not sex-orientated.
>
> Of course, you're welcome to share here too. Reconciling faith and
> sexuality is a struggle, but know that you're not alone.
>
> Norm!
>
> --- In exexgayministry@yahoogroups.com, shaggyhimbo <no_reply@...>
> wrote:
> >
> > Hey,
> >
> > I don't no where to write this, but I need to.
> >
> > So I type in "gay" and search groups, and I get four kinds.
> >
> > Gay. It's all about sex.
> >
> > Ex gay. All about not masterbating an being clever with lots and
> lots and lots of words... im not a big reader brainiac type dude.
> besides, i did read the bible and jesus isnt as wordy as all these
> christians anyway, they talk to much.
> >
> > Ex ex gay. It's all about sharing how pissed off you are that you
> were ex gay and bashing ex gays... im not big on hate either, these
> guys just wanna hurt people cuz they got hurt, anger is their badge
> of honor.
> >
> > Goy. Some of it seems good, some of it seems super freaky way out.
> >
> > Dude. I just wanna make a few friends who understand how rough it
> can be, and we all love one another. Where's that group at?
> >
> > Peace out,
> > Shaggy
> >
>
>



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Hi Everyone,

Over at BeyondExGay.com we received a request from a journalist who
wants to interview an ex-gay survivor in Georgia. If you're
interested (you can speak to him anonymously if you want), please
send me an email and let me know and I'll connect you.

Thanks,

Christine

I have been rethinking the
"gay/Christian" conflict. I have spent the previous 20 years doing everything I
could find to do in order to "deal with my homosexuality" within a Christian
context: 4 yrs residential Love In Action program in San Rafael, Ca.; 3 yrs
Orthodox community in Ben Lomond, Ca, with church attendence 2 times per day, 6
years living in Eastern Orthodox monastic communities pursuing monastic life,
frustration with Orthodox theology, 1 year back in Love in Action on staff here
in Memphis Tn. Throughout these 20 years, I never expected to become
heterosexual. However, I see that I was trying to become a-sexual for the sake
of the Kingdom. I am extremely disappointed to find that at best I have been
repressing, denying, running from, and ignoring my very strong homosexual
responses and desires. I guess the "cork came off the bottle" last winter. I
have been celibate these past 20 yrs and I intend to remain so. But I honestly
do not know what is God's absolute and perfect will for 1) me, a Christian man
who is homosexual and 2) all Christians who are homosexual. I had been thinking
that as a homosexually driven person it was up to me to deny myself - my
homosexuality- and take up my cross daily to follow Jesus. I consider(ed)
homosexuality a result of the fall of man and therefore a brokenness which
resulted in sin (homosexual behaviour) and therefore something which needs to be
"healed" or to be repented of. Now I honestly do not know. As I wrote above, I
have no intention of giving up hard fought for celibacy, (although I recently
have begun again to indulge my solo-sexual practice after 15 yrs of total
abstinence therefrom.) I am making honest inquiries into all sorts of
"accepting" or "affirming" Christians as well as the oputright "pro-gay" faction
although I really am far too conservative to ever become "pro-gay." So here I
am at 60 yrs old with a ton of questions!




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Thank you for your introduction, and for re-kindling this discussion forum.

I, too, undertook a range of courses of action to 'deal' with my
homosexuality- Exodus, Living Waters, marriage, much prayer and abstinence
etc.

I agonized, considered suicide, was psychiatrically hospitalized.

I read all the ex-gay literature and all the pro- and ex-ex-gay literature.

Eventually, it dawned on me that there were many, many different takes on
God's will about this.

And I truly believed that if the scriptures promised 'if you will seek me,
then you will find me, if you search for me with all you heart'.

'Call unto me and I will answer you and show you great and mighty things'
etc. then I was going to have to trust God and walk this journey myself,
regardless of who had told me what.

I also was aware that I had given this journey 20 years of my life,
abstained faithfully, paid a lot of money for courses etc.

So I trusted God to show me the right path for ME. And prayed honestly for
the humility to hear what I needed to hear.

What transpired next was that my husband of 15 years suddenly and
unexpectedly left me.

I came out.

I have attended churches where I can worship with integrity.

I have realized that, for me, God is far bigger than any of us or our
denominations can make a box for.

My family, including 2 children, 3 stepchildren and foster child all love
and accept me.

It hasn't been easy, but I 'took the road less traveled' and it HAS made all
the difference.

Wishing you love, peace and a prayerful pathway

Chris





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[mailto:exexgayministry@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Tim
Sent: Sunday, June 27, 2010 2:38 PM
To: exexgayministry@yahoogroups.com
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I have been rethinking the
"gay/Christian" conflict. I have spent the previous 20 years doing
everything I
could find to do in order to "deal with my homosexuality" within a Christian
context: 4 yrs residential Love In Action program in San Rafael, Ca.; 3 yrs
Orthodox community in Ben Lomond, Ca, with church attendence 2 times per
day, 6
years living in Eastern Orthodox monastic communities pursuing monastic
life,
frustration with Orthodox theology, 1 year back in Love in Action on staff
here
in Memphis Tn. Throughout these 20 years, I never expected to become
heterosexual. However, I see that I was trying to become a-sexual for the
sake
of the Kingdom. I am extremely disappointed to find that at best I have been
repressing, denying, running from, and ignoring my very strong homosexual
responses and desires. I guess the "cork came off the bottle" last winter. I
have been celibate these past 20 yrs and I intend to remain so. But I
honestly
do not know what is God's absolute and perfect will for 1) me, a Christian
man
who is homosexual and 2) all Christians who are homosexual. I had been
thinking
that as a homosexually driven person it was up to me to deny myself - my
homosexuality- and take up my cross daily to follow Jesus. I consider(ed)
homosexuality a result of the fall of man and therefore a brokenness which
resulted in sin (homosexual behaviour) and therefore something which needs
to be
"healed" or to be repented of. Now I honestly do not know. As I wrote above,
I
have no intention of giving up hard fought for celibacy, (although I
recently
have begun again to indulge my solo-sexual practice after 15 yrs of total
abstinence therefrom.) I am making honest inquiries into all sorts of
"accepting" or "affirming" Christians as well as the oputright "pro-gay"
faction
although I really am far too conservative to ever become "pro-gay." So here
I
am at 60 yrs old with a ton of questions!

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I have been rethinking the
"gay/Christian" conflict. I have spent the previous 20 years doing
everything I
could find to do in order to "deal with my homosexuality" within a Christian
context: 4 yrs residential Love In Action program in San Rafael, Ca.; 3 yrs
Orthodox community in Ben Lomond, Ca, with church attendence 2 times per
day, 6
years living in Eastern Orthodox monastic communities pursuing monastic
life,
frustration with Orthodox theology, 1 year back in Love in Action on staff
here
in Memphis Tn. Throughout these 20 years, I never expected to become
heterosexual. However, I see that I was trying to become a-sexual for the
sake
of the Kingdom. I am extremely disappointed to find that at best I have been
repressing, denying, running from, and ignoring my very strong homosexual
responses and desires. I guess the "cork came off the bottle" last winter. I
have been celibate these past 20 yrs and I intend to remain so. But I
honestly
do not know what is God's absolute and perfect will for 1) me, a Christian
man
who is homosexual and 2) all Christians who are homosexual. I had been
thinking
that as a homosexually driven person it was up to me to deny myself - my
homosexuality- and take up my cross daily to follow Jesus. I consider(ed)
homosexuality a result of the fall of man and therefore a brokenness which
resulted in sin (homosexual behaviour) and therefore something which needs
to be
"healed" or to be repented of. Now I honestly do not know. As I wrote above,
I
have no intention of giving up hard fought for celibacy, (although I
recently
have begun again to indulge my solo-sexual practice after 15 yrs of total
abstinence therefrom.) I am making honest inquiries into all sorts of
"accepting" or "affirming" Christians as well as the oputright "pro-gay"
faction
although I really am far too conservative to ever become "pro-gay." So here
I
am at 60 yrs old with a ton of questions!

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Great sites- thanks Anthony.

I see you are in Australia. Most of my journey was undertaken in New
Zealand, and I will pass these to a family member who is in Brisbane, and
working through gender identity and sexuality questions, as well as the very
painful reality of a family who find anything other than
heterosexual-marriage-not=consummated-until-the-wedding-night unspeakably
abhorrent. They also don't believe in mental health issues, of which she has
had many.

I now live in the United States, and wanted to add a story here.

I have lived here for four and a half years. I moved over to be with my
partner, and really had no idea how difficult it would be to get a visa.
Same-sex relationships here are totally invisible to the Federal Government,
even if gay marriage is legal in the state you live in (as it is in my own).
Basically we were told that if we got married, that that would be held
AGAINST my petition for a visa.

When I was psychiatrically hospitalized I was a manager in a community
mental health service. I lost my job, and reincarnated myself as an advocate
for those who use mental health services, and a human rights activist for
marginalized people. You can imagine, then, that I am NOT the sort of person
who the United States government normally falls over themselves to grant
visas to.

However, with the help of Immigration Equality (immigrationequality.org )
who specialize in immigration issues for LGBTI persons, I found a GREAT
lawyer (who's name I will happily pass on to anyone interested).

We filed an O1 petition, and I'm darned sure I'm one of the only people who
has ever been granted a United States visa on the basis of having used
mental health services (and advocating for human rights).

Just wanted to flag to folks that here in the US

1.       Immigration issues are still exceptionally discriminatory towards
the LGBTI community- it's wise to look at all options if embarking upon an
trans-national relationship

2.       Even with those odds stacked against you, it's possible to work
through this stuff, and there's a bunch of good resources and folks out
there to enable it. (Although the process I found not for the
faint-hearted!)

Cheers

Chris





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Hey Tim..its been quite a journey..but you are not alone. I've worked with a
number of guys who have come out at the age of 60 and beyond..amazing. Some
had not even acted on the sexual orientation up until that point.

You might find lots of help at freedom 2 b[e] http://www.freedom2b.org/
......that can be a support network for you.

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will respond. That way you'll not only get my perspectives on things but
others as well. It is a very safe, respectful and supportive space.

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I have been rethinking the
"gay/Christian" conflict. I have spent the previous 20 years doing
everything I
could find to do in order to "deal with my homosexuality" within a Christian
context: 4 yrs residential Love In Action program in San Rafael, Ca.; 3 yrs
Orthodox community in Ben Lomond, Ca, with church attendence 2 times per
day, 6
years living in Eastern Orthodox monastic communities pursuing monastic
life,
frustration with Orthodox theology, 1 year back in Love in Action on staff
here
in Memphis Tn. Throughout these 20 years, I never expected to become
heterosexual. However, I see that I was trying to become a-sexual for the
sake
of the Kingdom. I am extremely disappointed to find that at best I have been
repressing, denying, running from, and ignoring my very strong homosexual
responses and desires. I guess the "cork came off the bottle" last winter. I
have been celibate these past 20 yrs and I intend to remain so. But I
honestly
do not know what is God's absolute and perfect will for 1) me, a Christian
man
who is homosexual and 2) all Christians who are homosexual. I had been
thinking
that as a homosexually driven person it was up to me to deny myself - my
homosexuality- and take up my cross daily to follow Jesus. I consider(ed)
homosexuality a result of the fall of man and therefore a brokenness which
resulted in sin (homosexual behaviour) and therefore something which needs
to be
"healed" or to be repented of. Now I honestly do not know. As I wrote above,
I
have no intention of giving up hard fought for celibacy, (although I
recently
have begun again to indulge my solo-sexual practice after 15 yrs of total
abstinence therefrom.) I am making honest inquiries into all sorts of
"accepting" or "affirming" Christians as well as the oputright "pro-gay"
faction
although I really am far too conservative to ever become "pro-gay." So here
I
am at 60 yrs old with a ton of questions!

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I'm 68.. was in my 50s before I found my peace and  acceptance.
You must know that God does not want you to live a  conflicted
life.....right?  God bless on your journey to find your  peace.
I've always wondered.. if God does not see us as male nor  female..

28There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for you
are all one in  Christ Jesus.    Galatians 3:28 (New International  Version)


  ...why would gender even be an issue where there is  love???
Chuk


In a message dated 6/27/2010 8:50:37 P.M. Central Daylight Time,
timalexwar7@... writes:




I have been rethinking the
"gay/Christian" conflict. I have spent the  previous 20 years doing
everything I
could find to do in order to "deal  with my homosexuality" within a
Christian
context: 4 yrs residential Love  In Action program in San Rafael, Ca.; 3 yrs
Orthodox community in Ben  Lomond, Ca, with church attendence 2 times per
day, 6
years living in  Eastern Orthodox monastic communities pursuing monastic
life,
frustration  with Orthodox theology, 1 year back in Love in Action on staff
here
in  Memphis Tn. Throughout these 20 years, I never expected to  become
heterosexual. However, I see that I was trying to become a-sexual  for the
sake
of the Kingdom. I am extremely disappointed to find that at  best I have
been
repressing, denying, running from, and ignoring my very  strong homosexual
responses and desires. I guess the "cork came off the  bottle" last winter.
I
have been celibate these past 20 yrs and I intend to  remain so. But I
honestly
do not know what is God's absolute and perfect  will for 1) me, a Christian
man
who is homosexual and 2) all Christians who  are homosexual. I had been
thinking
that as a homosexually driven person it  was up to me to deny myself - my
homosexuality- and take up my cross daily  to follow Jesus. I consider(ed)
homosexuality a result of the fall of man  and therefore a brokenness which
resulted in sin (homosexual behaviour) and  therefore something which needs
to be
"healed" or to be repented of. Now I  honestly do not know. As I wrote
above, I
have no intention of giving up  hard fought for celibacy, (although I
recently
have begun again to indulge  my solo-sexual practice after 15 yrs of total
abstinence therefrom.) I am  making honest inquiries into all sorts of
"accepting" or "affirming"  Christians as well as the oputright "pro-gay"
faction
although I really am  far too conservative to ever become "pro-gay." So
here I
am at 60 yrs old  with a ton of questions!

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Thx for your encouragement. You pose an EXCELLENT question, by the way. Tim

On Sun Jun 27th, 2010 11:49 PM EDT MrChuk@... wrote:

>I'm 68.. was in my 50s before I found my peace and  acceptance.
>You must know that God does not want you to live a  conflicted
>life.....right?  God bless on your journey to find your  peace.
>I've always wondered.. if God does not see us as male nor  female..
>
>28There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for you
>are all one in  Christ Jesus.    Galatians 3:28 (New International  Version)
>
>
> ...why would gender even be an issue where there is  love???
>Chuk
>
>
>In a message dated 6/27/2010 8:50:37 P.M. Central Daylight Time,
>timalexwar7@... writes:
>
>
>
>
>I have been rethinking the
>"gay/Christian" conflict. I have spent the  previous 20 years doing
>everything I
>could find to do in order to "deal  with my homosexuality" within a
>Christian
>context: 4 yrs residential Love  In Action program in San Rafael, Ca.; 3 yrs
>Orthodox community in Ben  Lomond, Ca, with church attendence 2 times per
>day, 6
>years living in  Eastern Orthodox monastic communities pursuing monastic
>life,
>frustration  with Orthodox theology, 1 year back in Love in Action on staff
>here
>in  Memphis Tn. Throughout these 20 years, I never expected to  become
>heterosexual. However, I see that I was trying to become a-sexual  for the
>sake
>of the Kingdom. I am extremely disappointed to find that at  best I have
>been
>repressing, denying, running from, and ignoring my very  strong homosexual
>responses and desires. I guess the "cork came off the  bottle" last winter.
>I
>have been celibate these past 20 yrs and I intend to  remain so. But I
>honestly
>do not know what is God's absolute and perfect  will for 1) me, a Christian
>man
>who is homosexual and 2) all Christians who  are homosexual. I had been
>thinking
>that as a homosexually driven person it  was up to me to deny myself - my
>homosexuality- and take up my cross daily  to follow Jesus. I consider(ed)
>homosexuality a result of the fall of man  and therefore a brokenness which
>resulted in sin (homosexual behaviour) and  therefore something which needs
>to be
>"healed" or to be repented of. Now I  honestly do not know. As I wrote
>above, I
>have no intention of giving up  hard fought for celibacy, (although I
>recently
>have begun again to indulge  my solo-sexual practice after 15 yrs of total
>abstinence therefrom.) I am  making honest inquiries into all sorts of
>"accepting" or "affirming"  Christians as well as the oputright "pro-gay"
>faction
>although I really am  far too conservative to ever become "pro-gay." So
>here I
>am at 60 yrs old  with a ton of questions!
>
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there doesn't seem to be much of a conversation going on here. IS that normal?
are there other ex-ex-gay groups that are more active regarding topic
discussions? Let me know if there are others....thnx!

You can try to connect with the Beyond Ex-Gay community site. Go to
www.beyondexgay.com for more info.

Peterson  Toscano
Theatrical Performance Activist
www.petersontoscano.com

On Jul 21, 2010, at 12:36 PM, "Tim" <timalexwar7@...> wrote:

> there doesn't seem to be much of a conversation going on here. IS that normal?
are there other ex-ex-gay groups that are more active regarding topic
discussions? Let me know if there are others....thnx!
>
>


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I think that groups like this go through cycles.  New people seeking
answers/peers will come in & there will be some discussion.  Then after some
time, the discussions die down again.

Largely the groups tend to be quiet unless there is something scandalous
that happens, or when one of the ex-gay programs hits the news.

There's a few groups around.  Beyond ex-gay which Peter has already sent
around & there is also Freedom 2 be. http://www.freedom2b.org/ it's not
necessarily ex-ex-gay, but it has a number of resources online, and many of
the contributors to that site have been through ex-gay programs.

Regards,

Pete Zayonce

On 22 July 2010 02:36, Tim <timalexwar7@...> wrote:

>
>
> there doesn't seem to be much of a conversation going on here. IS that
> normal? are there other ex-ex-gay groups that are more active regarding
> topic discussions? Let me know if there are others....thnx!
>
>
>



--
Pete Zayonce
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"I always wondered why somebody doesn't do something about that. Then I
realized I was somebody."
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Good morning, everyone.  I've been part of this Yahoo group for several years,
sometimes more active, but always monitoring.
 
I have written a new novel (my second), and this one deals extensively with the
ex-gay issue, and shows an extreme attempt at reparative treatment.  Since
you've all experienced the attempt to be "cured," I'd welcome your thoughts and
insights.  (Sorry for the commercial, but I regularly get people writing to me
who don't believe the ex-gay groups are that bad or dangerous.)
 
I just started a new discussion on my Facebook where I will be dealing with some
of techniques/methods used my book (which I admit, for the sake of fiction, was
a bit extreme). I've already gotten two private messages from those who think
I'm slamming these groups and being too harsh.  "Surely they do some good," one
guy told me.  "I have a friend who used to be gay, but who's now happily
married."  <SIGH>
 
Hope you'll check it out.  And if you get the book, please let me know your
thoughts.
 
Thanks!
 
Bill Prickett

The Mind Set on the Flesh
A story of deception in the name of religion.
But what happens when the truth comes to light?

www.BillPrickett.com
Let's connect on Facebook


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How much is your book?   I briefly looked at your site and starting reading the
intro, but that's as far as I got.   My experience was good with ex-gay
ministries.   I don't subscribe to everything they teach, but the particular
group I was in was loving, non-judgmental, so it might not be the experience
than so many seem to have had.   If your book is exploring the issues in a
fresh, but truthful, way - I might be interested.


Rex





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Good morning, everyone.  I've been part of this Yahoo group for several years,
sometimes more active, but always monitoring.

I have written a new novel (my second), and this one deals extensively with the
ex-gay issue, and shows an extreme attempt at reparative treatment.  Since
you've all experienced the attempt to be "cured," I'd welcome your thoughts and
insights.  (Sorry for the commercial, but I regularly get people writing to me
who don't believe the ex-gay groups are that bad or dangerous.)


I just started a new discussion on my Facebook where I will be dealing with some
of techniques/methods used my book (which I admit, for the sake of fiction, was
a bit extreme). I've already gotten two private messages from those who think
I'm slamming these groups and being too harsh.  "Surely they do some good," one
guy told me.  "I have a friend who used to be gay, but who's now happily
married."  <SIGH>

Hope you'll check it out.  And if you get the book, please let me know your
thoughts.

Thanks!

Bill Prickett

The Mind Set on the Flesh
A story of deception in the name of religion.
But what happens when the truth comes to light?

www.BillPrickett.com
Let's connect on Facebook

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Joiner, I do think my book approaches the ex-gay issue from a different
perspective.  It is intentionally a kind of "worse case scenario."  (It's
fiction, so it's merited)
 
As I outline on my site, it involves a young gay man who's is brutally beaten
(by a mentally unstable religious fanatic handing out tracts in the gay section
of Dallas) and is left with almost no memory of his past.  His parent, who are
famous TV evangelists, turn him over to a doctor who uses extreme methods to
change their son from gay to straight.
 
I'm glad you had a good experience with your ex-gay group, but I hope you
understand that many don't. I lost one of my best friends to suicide when he
could get straight. For years I've worked with those who have been damaged by
the dangerous teachings of these groups. The very premise of their
operation---the we can be changed and need to be changed---causes so much
damage.
 
My book is available at all the online booksellers.  You can click on the
Purchast tab of my website for specifics or you can also go to my Facebook page
and click on the Where to Buy tab.
 
Thanks for your comments.
 
Bill
 


--- On Sat, 1/29/11, exexgayministry@yahoogroups.com
<exexgayministry@yahoogroups.com> wrote:


From: exexgayministry@yahoogroups.com <exexgayministry@yahoogroups.com>
Subject: [ExExGayMinistry] Digest Number 694
To: exexgayministry@yahoogroups.com
Date: Saturday, January 29, 2011, 4:00 AM








ExExGayMinistry: Surviving the "Cure"

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I welcome your thoughts and Insights From: Bill Prickett
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I welcome your thoughts and Insights
Posted by: "Bill Prickett" bill_times2@...   bill_times2
Fri Jan 28, 2011 8:30 am (PST)




Good morning, everyone.  I've been part of this Yahoo group for several years,
sometimes more active, but always monitoring.
 
I have written a new novel (my second), and this one deals extensively with the
ex-gay issue, and shows an extreme attempt at reparative treatment.  Since
you've all experienced the attempt to be "cured," I'd welcome your thoughts and
insights.  (Sorry for the commercial, but I regularly get people writing to me
who don't believe the ex-gay groups are that bad or dangerous.)
 
I just started a new discussion on my Facebook where I will be dealing with some
of techniques/methods used my book (which I admit, for the sake of fiction, was
a bit extreme). I've already gotten two private messages from those who think
I'm slamming these groups and being too harsh.  "Surely they do some good," one
guy told me.  "I have a friend who used to be gay, but who's now happily
married."  <SIGH>
 
Hope you'll check it out.  And if you get the book, please let me know your
thoughts.
 
Thanks!
 
Bill Prickett

The Mind Set on the Flesh
A story of deception in the name of religion.
But what happens when the truth comes to light?

www.BillPrickett. com
Let's connect on Facebook

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Re: I welcome your thoughts and Insights
Posted by: "Joiner Rex" rexjoiner@...   rexjoiner
Fri Jan 28, 2011 9:57 pm (PST)


How much is your book? I briefly looked at your site and starting reading the
intro, but that's as far as I got. My experience was good with ex-gay
ministries. I don't subscribe to everything they teach, but the particular
group I was in was loving, non-judgmental, so it might not be the experience
than so many seem to have had. If your book is exploring the issues in a
fresh, but truthful, way - I might be interested.

Rex

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From: Bill Prickett <bill_times2@ yahoo.com>
To: exexgayministry@ yahoogroups. com
Sent: Fri, January 28, 2011 11:30:27 AM
Subject: [ExExGayMinistry] I welcome your thoughts and Insights

Good morning, everyone. I've been part of this Yahoo group for several years,
sometimes more active, but always monitoring.

I have written a new novel (my second), and this one deals extensively with the
ex-gay issue, and shows an extreme attempt at reparative treatment. Since
you've all experienced the attempt to be "cured," I'd welcome your thoughts and
insights. (Sorry for the commercial, but I regularly get people writing to me
who don't believe the ex-gay groups are that bad or dangerous.)

I just started a new discussion on my Facebook where I will be dealing with some
of techniques/methods used my book (which I admit, for the sake of fiction, was
a bit extreme). I've already gotten two private messages from those who think
I'm slamming these groups and being too harsh. "Surely they do some good," one
guy told me. "I have a friend who used to be gay, but who's now happily
married." <SIGH>

Hope you'll check it out. And if you get the book, please let me know your
thoughts.

Thanks!

Bill Prickett

The Mind Set on the Flesh
A story of deception in the name of religion.
But what happens when the truth comes to light?

www.BillPrickett. com
Let's connect on Facebook

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Hello!

My name is Jan Gelech and I am a Canadian Ph.D. candidate exploring male ex-gay
ministry experiences as part of my doctoral dissertation.  I am interesting in
hearing the personal stories of those who have been involved with ex-gay
ministries.   In reviewing the literature, I noticed that both leaders and
participants in this area are often SPOKEN OF and seldom LISTENED TO.  I am
hoping that by speaking with people in depth, I can come to a deeper
understanding of ex-gay ministry experiences and share this with others in both
the academic community and general public.

If you or anyone you know would be interested in sharing your experiences with
ex-gay ministries with me (be they negative, positive, or anywhere in between),
please email me.  Wishing you all the best!

Thanks in advance for your consideration,
Jan Gelech, Ph.D. Candidate, University of Saskatchewan

Hello!
 
To provide you with more information about myself (yahoo only allows you 200
characters to ‘explain yourself’) . . .

 
My name is Jan Gelech and I am a Ph.D. at the University of Saskatchewan in the
program of Culture and Human Development. 

http://artsandscience.usask.ca/psychology/programs/chdevelopment/index.php 
I am exploring male ex-gay ministry experiences as part of my doctoral
dissertation.  I am interesting in hearing the personal stories of those who
have been involved with ex-gay ministries.   In reviewing the literature, I
noticed that both leaders and participants in this area are often SPOKEN OF and
seldom LISTENED TO.  I am hoping that by speaking with people in depth, I can
come to a deeper understanding of ex-gay ministry experiences and share this
with others in both the academic community and general public. 

 
The study is experience based in nature.  That is, rather than focusing on
politics and the ethics / effectiveness  of the ex-gay movement, I am
interested
in understanding why particular individuals choose to engage with such programs
and the spiritual, relational, and existential changes they consider themselves
to have experienced as a result.  I am not interested in promoting any sort of
political agenda. As an anthropologically inspired researcher, I seek only to
understand the moral decisions individuals make for themselves within the
context of a particular life and the shape they wish their lives to take. 

 
I am hoping that you will consider adding me to the group so that I will be able
to post a short invitation to your members to share their stories with me.  I
wish only to provide them with a brief introduction to my project and a chance
to contact me if they wish. 

 
The study has been approved by my academic committee, made up of four professors
from the University of Saskatchewan, and my research supervisor.  It has also
been reviewed by the university of Saskatchewan behavioural ethics review
committee and I have completed all required study modifications.   I am
intrigued by the diversity of human life and deeply respectful of the human
desire to attain ‘the good life’ according to their own moral compass.  I
can
assure you that I am a deeply respectful researcher who desires nothing more
than to understand the life experiences of others.
If you would like to confirm my identity, affiliation, or intentions, please
feel free to email my graduate supervisor, Dr. Michel Desjardins.  His email is
as follows:   

Michel.desjardins@...
 
I hope this email answers your questions and that you will consider contributing
to what I feel is an important and relevant piece of work.  I would be happy to
answer any other questions you might have.  Let me know what you think of this
proposition. 

Wishing you all the best
Jan Gelech




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Hello Again,



My name is Jan Gelech and I am exploring ex-gay ministry experiences as
part of my Ph.D. dissertation.  As a member of the Ex-Ex-Gay group, I
would like to respectfully invite you to participate in this project by
sharing your story and thoughts with me. The ex-ex-gay perspective is of
crucial importance in this line of study and I would hate to have it
unrepresented in the project.



This project is person-centered and seeks to create a rich and nuanced
account of how individuals understand their experiences with ex-gay
ministries.  I am not promoting any political agenda – I seek only
to better understand the lives people attempt to create for themselves
according to their own moral compasses.



Study participation involves a confidential phone interview session
lasting about 1.5 hours.   All information is kept confidential, with
identifying names, places, occupations, organizations, and other details
removed or altered in the interview transcript.



This study has been approved by the University of Saskatchewan Research
Ethics Board (10-342) and adheres to all ethical principles.  If you
have any questions or concerns, this board can be reached at
1-306-966-2084.  If you would be willing to participate in this research
study, or would like more information, please contact me.



Thank-you for your time and consideration.  I hope this request finds
you happy and healthy!



Jan Gelech





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I have a section on my website about the ex-gay movement, which includes Ten
Myths of Ex-Gay Programs and my own ex-gay story. (For a while, I was Executive
Director of a local ministry)
 
My new novel, The Mind Set on the Flesh, also deals with the subject...in a
somewhat EX-treme manner.

Bill Prickett
www.BillPrickett.com
Let's connect on Facebook



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To All Members, GLBT Worldwide needs your help

Right now, almost 80 countries around the world make it a crime to be gay,
lesbian or transgender.  In 10 of those nations, you can be sentenced to death
or life behind bars.  The majority of these nations share a connection - they
are members of the Commonwealth - an organization bringing together 54 nations
to collaborate on legal, cultural and economic development.

The Commonwealth leaders are gathering this week in Perth, Australia where
Kamalesh Sharma, Secretary General of the Commonwealth, just gave a courageous
speech calling on each of the Commonwealth nations to finally end discrimination
and criminalization of LGBT people. It's historic, but hardly a done deal:
Forces within the Commonwealth are working double-time to silence Sharma and
others, giving nations that send gays and lesbians to jail a free pass for yet
another year.

We need to support Secretary General Sharma and show the other heads of state
that a massive global outcry is bubbling up in their own countries and demanding
fairness.  The meeting kicks off this Friday - we need thousands to join
Commonwealth citizens around the world and sign on to our statement of support
for Secretary General Sharma in the next 48 hours, making his call impossible to
ignore.

Will you take a minute to add your name and share this letter far and wide:

http://www.allout.org/wearenotillegal

Good morning, everyone.
 
I know this group has been around for a while, but I did want everyone to know
that if you are still looking for a resource, and some interesting conversation
and useful information, there's a wonderful Ex-Ex-Gay Facebook group you might
want to consider. http://www.facebook.com/#!/groups/166704399994/
 
The group was started and is administered by Michael Bussee.  In case you don't
know, Michael was one of the original founders of Exodus, the country largest
ex-gay organization. He has since left the ex-gay movement and is active in
getting out the message of the damage and danger of these groups.  Here's a
video where Michael talks about his story:  http://youtu.be/v2PLPyKmtas
 
I am certainly not trying to take anything away from this group, but thought
some might be interested in another avenue. 
 
Thanks!
 
Bill Prickett

The Mind Set on the Flesh
A story of deception in the name of religion.
But what happens when the truth comes to light?

www.BillPrickett.com
Let's connect on Facebook


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Hey Bill.......my exex-gay group is about the same size as
yours.......and eventually came to no activity.....probably for several
reasons.......one being I was giving my energies in other places like
the freedom 2 b[e] forum and facebook.....but I think the new forms of
communication also played a big role

I suggested my group also move over to Michaels page........he is very
diligent and puts are great stuff on a daily basis. Always interesting
and relevant

I left my group page up so if people are searching they can find it and
it lets them know to move to facebook
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Exex-gay/?yguid=409854159

love your work


Anthony Venn-Brown

An Ambassador for the LGBT Community

Author of 'A Life of Unlearning - A Journey to Find the Truth'
<http://gayambassador1.blogspot.com/>

Co-founder of Freedom 2 b[e] <http://www.freedom2b.org/>

Honoured to be voted one of the 25 Most Influential Gay & Lesbian
Australians <http://www.samesame.com.au/25/2007/AnthonyVennBrown>  (2007
& 2009) and ACON Community Hero finalist 2011.

http://lgbttraining.blogspot.com/ <http://lgbttraining.blogspot.com/>

Twitter: @gayambassador



--- In exexgayministry@yahoogroups.com, Bill Prickett <bill_times2@...>
wrote:
>
> Good morning, everyone.
>
> I know this group has been around for a while, but I did want everyone
to know that if you are still looking for a resource, and some
interesting conversation and useful information, there's a wonderful
Ex-Ex-Gay Facebook group you might want to consider.
http://www.facebook.com/#!/groups/166704399994/
>
> The group was started and is administered by Michael Bussee.  In case
you don't know, Michael was one of the original founders of Exodus, the
country largest ex-gay organization. He has since left the ex-gay
movement and is active in getting out the message of the damage and
danger of these groups.  Here's a video where Michael talks about his
story:  http://youtu.be/v2PLPyKmtas
>
> I am certainly not trying to take anything away from this group, but
thought some might be interested in another avenue.
>
> Thanks!
>
> Bill Prickett
>
> The Mind Set on the Flesh
> A story of deception in the name of religion.
> But what happens when the truth comes to light?
>
> www.BillPrickett.com
> Let's connect on Facebook
>
>
> [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]
>



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One year ago, I released a book (print version) in Brazil. Now, I've made it
available in English and FREE of charge.

You just need to access this link to have access to the book
content: http://www.slideshare.net/SergioViula/sergio-viulatranslation 

That's the easiest way I've come across to share my book with everybody
interested in LGBT rights, unmasking of ex-gay therapies and the legitimacy of
homoerotic love. Please, have a look and share it with your friends. Nothing
would make me happier than seeing the number of readers grow day by day. 

The book is a mixture of biography and militancy.

Thank you all, guys. And for those who might be interested in keeping in touch
through facebook. My e-mail there is sviula@....

Hugs,

Sergio Viula
Rio, Brazil

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http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/08/19/gay-cure-bill-california_n_1798284.html

'Gay Cure' Ban Heads For Vote In California

When James Guay was 12, he went into a Christian bookstore to look for
information on what was wrong with him. He found just one book on homosexuality
-- "on how to change it," he recalled. When he brought it to the counter, the
clerk asked if it was for him. "She said she would pray for me," he said.

A few years later Guay had a nervous breakdown and told his parents what was
distressing him. His father, a pastor, helped him find a licensed "ex-gay"
psychologist. The psychologist said he had been gay, but now was married to a
woman. He told Guay that change was possible. "It was this newfound hope," Guay
said. Within six months to a year, the therapist promised him, Guay could
overcome his attraction to men and learn to be attracted to women.

Two months ago, Guay testified at a hearing on a new bill in the California
State Legislature that would ban the "gay cure," as this type of therapy is
known. The bill is the first of its kind in the U.S., and observers expect it to
pass by the end of August. If Gov. Jerry Brown (D) signs it, licensed therapists
who try to change the sexual orientation of minors will run the risk of losing
their licenses.

"I wanted parents to understand that this therapy is crazy," said Sen. Ted Lieu,
the California Democrat who authored the bill.

The passage of SB 1172 would be the latest in a series of recent actions
signaling a widespread condemnation of the practice. Almost all mainstream
mental health organizations, from the American Psychiatric Association to the
American Psychological Association, have renounced it. The World Health
Organization has released a statement saying that such methods "lack medical
justification and represent a serious threat to the health and well-being" of
patients. Robert L. Spitzer, a psychiatrist who published a widely cited study
supporting the "gay cure" practice in 2003, recently apologized for his work in
the journal where the original paper appeared.

"I believe I owe the gay community an apology," he wrote.

For more than three decades, one of the leading forces behind the practice of
attempting to change sexual orientation was Exodus International, a nonprofit
group. In June, the head of Exodus International declared at its annual meeting
that there was no cure for homosexuality and that the promise of one offered
false hope to gays. Just a few years before, he and his wife had starred in
advertisements saying, "Change is possible."

Still, there aren't any scientific studies showing that the practice actually
causes harm. Anecdotal reports of depression, even suicide, abound, and a task
force convened by the American Psychological Association found the practice to
be both harmful and ineffective. But when the government regulates a behavior,
like driving without a seatbelt or smoking, they can usually draw on volumes of
data demonstrating that the behavior hurts people. That isn't the case here, and
the few remaining supporters of the practice stress this fact.

David Pruden, the vice president of the National Association for Research &
Therapy of Homosexuality, a group whose website proclaims that it "offers hope
to those who struggle with unwanted homosexuality," sees the bill as a "solution
in search of a problem."

He maintains that there are people who can, "with the help of a well trained
therapist, move through a process where they grow away from homosexual
attraction and move towards heterosexual attraction." He gave the example of a
child who is molested by an adult of the same sex. "One suggestion would be
you're confused, you're not gay. Now this bill is saying that for a therapist to
suggest to someone that they're not gay is somehow illegal or would be wrong."

Mainstream psychological organizations in California were initially opposed to
the law for similar reasons, but they withdrew their opposition after working
with Sen. Lieu on the language of the bill. "Quite naturally there are many
times when an adolescent is exploring their sexual identity and they may want to
talk to a therapist about that," said Jo Linder-Crow, the executive director of
the California Psychological Association. "We wanted to make sure that
legitimate therapy would not be caught up in the definition used in the bill."

The idea of a gay cure goes back to a time when homosexuality was considered a
mental illness and "sodomy" a crime. In the years after World War II, as therapy
became a widespread practice in the U.S., the idea of psychiatric treatment for
homosexuality was seen as a humane alternative to institutionalization or jail.
In the '70s, the American Psychiatric Institution removed homosexuality from its
list of mental illnesses, and most psychiatrists and psychologists abandoned the
practice. Around the same time, though, Exodus International was formed.
Christian groups picked up where mainstream therapists had left off.

It's hard to say why the "gay cure" practice has received so much attention in
just the last few months. "People have had these concerns about it for a long
time," said Clinton Anderson, the director of the American Psychological
Association's office for LGBT issues. "What may be different is a sense that
there's a political will, at least in certain places, to do something more
signifiant about it."

Anderson says there's no way of knowing how widespread the practice is, or how
many psychiatrists perform it. The National Association for Research & Therapy
of Homosexuality, for its part, does not divulge its membership numbers, thought
it does say that its members operate in all 50 states and in a number of other
countries.

Guay, who now runs his own therapeutic practice for people who have been scarred
by experiences like his, spent a year with the ex-gay therapist and then got
involved with Exodus International, attending several of their conferences. He
started dating a woman, but it didn't work out. "I ended that relationship and
began a relationship with a man," he said.

It was only at that point that he had what a therapist might call a
breakthrough."'Oh wait,'" he said, recalling his thinking at the time. "'This
feels authentic and right.'"

In case you do not know me, I am Larry Rogers and I found Reconciling In Christ
about 14 years ago.  It took two years to get all the Ex-Gay brainwashing out of
my head but I am now in a Reconciling in Christ Church (Zion Lutheran in Iowa
City, Iowa) and active in ChristianGays.com where I lead HOT TOPICS and
moderate.  I am also the coordinator of the GLBT Movie Series at the IOWA CITY
SENIOR CITIZENS CENTER known as "The Center" because it is for anyone over 50
and that is not exactly what I mean by Senior Citizens.  My movies are open to
anyone over 18 years of age due to some of them having frontal nudity.

Write me at lgr943@... and mention that you are Ex-Ex-Gay.  If you ever
get to Iowa City, look me up.

Ex-Gay Fallacies - by Sergio Viula 
Para acessar o vídeo in português, clique AQUI.

Ex-gay fallacies, reparative therapy, gay cure or however you name it, Sergio
Viula shares his views on the issue and his experience in (and out of) a
Brazilian ex-gay group. 

Have a look and if you like it, please spread the word. :)

Posted 3 days ago by Sergio Viula

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Sergio, were you wanting us to look at something in particular? Maybe your
YouTube video? Or something else?  Thank you.

http://youtu.be/l3StUbtlY1E

Sent from my iPhone


On Sep 29, 2012, at 8:15 PM, Sergio Viula <sviula@...> wrote:

> Ex-Gay Fallacies - by Sergio Viula
> Para acessar o vídeo in português, clique AQUI.
>
> Ex-gay fallacies, reparative therapy, gay cure or however you name it, Sergio
Viula shares his views on the issue and his experience in (and out of) a
Brazilian ex-gay group.
>
> Have a look and if you like it, please spread the word. :)
>
> Posted 3 days ago by Sergio Viula
>
> [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]
>
>


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Thank you, Jackie. That is really the video I had in mind. I don't know why the
moderation erased the link.

Thanks for sending the link again.

Hugs,
Sergio Viula



________________________________
  De: Jackie Yetso <lyricaloasis@...>
Para: "exexgayministry@yahoogroups.com" <exexgayministry@yahoogroups.com>
Enviadas: Sábado, 13 de Outubro de 2012 14:28
Assunto: Re: [ExExGayMinistry] ex-gay fallacies


 
Sergio, were you wanting us to look at something in particular? Maybe your
YouTube video? Or something else?  Thank you.

http://youtu.be/l3StUbtlY1E

Sent from my iPhone

On Sep 29, 2012, at 8:15 PM, Sergio Viula <sviula@...> wrote:

> Ex-Gay Fallacies - by Sergio Viula
> Para acessar o vídeo in português, clique AQUI.
>
> Ex-gay fallacies, reparative therapy, gay cure or however you name it, Sergio
Viula shares his views on the issue and his experience in (and out of) a
Brazilian ex-gay group.
>
> Have a look and if you like it, please spread the word. :)
>
> Posted 3 days ago by Sergio Viula
>
> [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]
>
>

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You are very welcome Sergio. Hugs to you.

Sent from my iPhone


On Oct 13, 2012, at 8:03 PM, Sergio Viula <sviula@...> wrote:

> Thank you, Jackie. That is really the video I had in mind. I don't know why
the moderation erased the link.
>
> Thanks for sending the link again.
>
> Hugs,
> Sergio Viula
>
> ________________________________
> De: Jackie Yetso <lyricaloasis@...>
> Para: "exexgayministry@yahoogroups.com" <exexgayministry@yahoogroups.com>
> Enviadas: Sábado, 13 de Outubro de 2012 14:28
> Assunto: Re: [ExExGayMinistry] ex-gay fallacies
>
>
>
> Sergio, were you wanting us to look at something in particular? Maybe your
YouTube video? Or something else? Thank you.
>
> http://youtu.be/l3StUbtlY1E
>
> Sent from my iPhone
>
> On Sep 29, 2012, at 8:15 PM, Sergio Viula <sviula@...> wrote:
>
> > Ex-Gay Fallacies - by Sergio Viula
> > Para acessar o vídeo in português, clique AQUI.
> >
> > Ex-gay fallacies, reparative therapy, gay cure or however you name it,
Sergio Viula shares his views on the issue and his experience in (and out of) a
Brazilian ex-gay group.
> >
> > Have a look and if you like it, please spread the word. :)
> >
> > Posted 3 days ago by Sergio Viula
> >
> > [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]
> >
> >
>
> [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]
>
> [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]
>
>


[Non-text portions of this message have been removed]

Cutie.   :)

Sergio Viula



________________________________
  De: Jackie Yetso <lyricaloasis@...>
Para: "exexgayministry@yahoogroups.com" <exexgayministry@yahoogroups.com>
Cc: "exexgayministry@yahoogroups.com" <exexgayministry@yahoogroups.com>
Enviadas: Sábado, 27 de Outubro de 2012 19:12
Assunto: Re: [ExExGayMinistry] ex-gay fallacies


 
You are very welcome Sergio. Hugs to you.

Sent from my iPhone

On Oct 13, 2012, at 8:03 PM, Sergio Viula <sviula@...> wrote:

> Thank you, Jackie. That is really the video I had in mind. I don't know why
the moderation erased the link.
>
> Thanks for sending the link again.
>
> Hugs,
> Sergio Viula
>
> ________________________________
> De: Jackie Yetso <lyricaloasis@...>
> Para: "exexgayministry@yahoogroups.com" <exexgayministry@yahoogroups.com>
> Enviadas: Sábado, 13 de Outubro de 2012 14:28
> Assunto: Re: [ExExGayMinistry] ex-gay fallacies
>
>
>
> Sergio, were you wanting us to look at something in particular? Maybe your
YouTube video? Or something else? Thank you.
>
> http://youtu.be/l3StUbtlY1E
>
> Sent from my iPhone
>
> On Sep 29, 2012, at 8:15 PM, Sergio Viula <sviula@...> wrote:
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> > Ex-Gay Fallacies - by Sergio Viula
> > Para acessar o vídeo in português, clique AQUI.
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> > Ex-gay fallacies, reparative therapy, gay cure or however you name it,
Sergio Viula shares his views on the issue and his experience in (and out of) a
Brazilian ex-gay group.
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> > Have a look and if you like it, please spread the word. :)
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Awe shucks Sergio. ;)

Sent from my iPhone


On Oct 27, 2012, at 7:57 PM, Sergio Viula <sviula@...> wrote:

> Sergio Viula