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I just happened to catch this post tonight. What "causes" homosexuality? We're really still in the stone-age when it comes to answering this question....
Has anyone else seen the recent DVD release "Fixing Frank." I saw it on sale at Netflix for $5 or so and it sounded somewhat interesting. It stars Dan...
Hi Pete and everyone This past weekend I participated in a very valuable and enriching Man-to-Man: Sexual Health Seminar put on by the University of Minnesota...
Hi Larry: I'd be curious to know on what basis you believe you were "created by God to be gay." Is this simply your own personal opinion (which would be...
Hi Pete, Those are great questions! Here's my two cents on them. 1. What (if anything) do you believe caused you currently be gay or have previous gay...
Hey everyone! I just found this website, and I'm very glad I did. I'm wondering if there's anyone else here who went to Love in Action and managed to come out...
Hi Peter, So glad to hear that you survived LIA!!! Did you know that John Evans, the co-founder of LIA, recently abandoned his organization and wrote an open...
Peter: I am a survivor of Love in Action, San Rafael, CA 1988. I went through the program with John Paulk and when Anne was there in the women's program....
I did my `LIA' time a number of years ago now, in New Zealand, although I now live in New Hampshire. I `lived out that time' in ambivalence, guilt and suicidal...
Hi Korry, Thanks so much for this message. I appreciated reading it. Do you happen to have the link to the original article by Kyle? I'd like to read that if...
Hi everyone, Has anyone here had experience as a co-parent with a lesbian couple? I have been lucky enough to be approached, and I'm wondering if anyone has ...
I had a really bad experience with a Christian therapist. I went to her for treatment problems from numerous (and I mean numerous) traumas from medical...
Hi Morgan, Your experience sounds awful. It sounds like your "Christian" "therapist" did not act in a Christian or a therapeutic manner. Was she licensed?...
Sometimes I feel sure God PUKES at "christians". They try so hard to define God.. tell everyone else WHO S/He is and His/Her attributes are. God is just too...
... Yes, that, and it is also a classic example of countertransference, when a therapist ignores the principle of letting the client guide the theraputic ...
LOL! Thanks, Korry. I hadn't really thought about that. I'll give my former Christian therapist the benefit of the doubt though. About a year after that...
My Gawd... why does everyone feel they must find a reason for a gay orientation. I don't get it! Chuk In a message dated 12/19/2006 5:41:05 P.M. Central...
Hey there Morgan. I haven't had an experience quite like you have had, but I do have a comment about it. I am a Christian but I don't like to call myself a...
Hey there Morgan. I haven't had an experience quite like you have had, but I do have a comment about it. I am a Christian but I don't like to call myself a...
I don't, either. It's not a sickness; it's just another way of loving. When I say that my daddy had dark hair and raced cars, and then express my love for a...
During the holiday I was thinking a lot about the verbally abusive Christian counselor I went to who spazzed out when I told her "I have issues with my gender...
Hi Morgan, I'm sorry your holiday was haunted by your therapist's betrayal and incompetence. I sympathize with your struggle in differentiating your...
I feel for your, Morgan, but please speak for yourself. I am gay and a survivor of sexual and psychological abuse perpetuated by a self-hating closet case of a...
<<<<a sex abuse memory came up, and I realized that (because of what she did) I felt, in some deep part of me, that Jesus had participated in abusing me.>>>> ...
... ex-gay experience. It was thrilling to hear ex-gay leaders, church leaders, and Christian counselors confirm that God was working in my life to "heal" my...
... Hi Steph, Initially, I thought the ex-gay experience was great in that I was finally able to openly talking about my feelings, attractions, and ...
Hey Norm Did they use the whole "not having enough faith" thing? I remember my dad said once that if he was gay he'd choose not to be gay. And when he found...
