As the holiday season starts to fill the air, there are always moments in literature, captured instants of the poignancy of being alive together in the world, that I find myself revisiting. The holidays have always been about stories for me, and you have touched me in many ways across the years, Don. There is the moving father and daughter reality of your time with Lauren and the Christmas tree you couldn’t afford, and there is also the moment that you made real with your characters, Bob Rainier and Ruth Hamilton. When I first read (almost three decades ago, now) the epilogue of “Detectives Inc., A Remembrance of Threatening Green”, I remember how touched I was by this depiction of friendship. There was no clichéd semi-romantic ending to this story…instead there was this one page, of two people who had come close to each other through traumatic events and become friends, talking at Christmastime. It is so rare in stories of our time to see friendship between men and women; to see the ways that we can be there for each other, not as a couple, but as caring individuals, who somehow in the wrack and ruin of troubles and loss come together to help one another across a hard time. Even if the nuances of that helping are so subtle that they can't even clearly be grasped.
All these years later that page with Bob and Ruth is a gift in my life, ending a powerful story, but standing in its own right as a testament to the power of men and women to be friends…to touch some subtle place inside that helps us bridge a frightening gap in our lives, knowing that someone else has been there too.
Merry Christmas Don, and thank you.
best always,
Malcolm