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Well there only child died of cancer, and they asked me to do this. It isn't a
hard task, but I will enjoy this because they are very close to me. Yeah I
gave up on my mother because you can't tell her what to do, but many friends and
relatives are extremely hurt especially me and my wife. We still love her no
matter what she does,yes she deserves to be happy, but to forget your only
child, and other close people in your life!!!

John











- In boomersinternational@yahoogroups.com, Kathleen Kane <cherrygarcia53@...>
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> As hard as it is for you....I don't think there is much you can tell a 79 year
old woman what to do....especially your mom.If there are any valid concerns,you
have to trust that she will find this out in her own time.At her age she
probably feels it is her tun and time....and maybe she is just lonely.Even
though it is difficult for you....try to be supportive and happy for her .Maybe
then she will see and understand the concerns you have.What you are doing for
your uncle and aunt is kind and generous.Don't let yourself get sucked in to
other relatives dramas.
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> Subject: Re: [Boomers International] Welcome new members, hey do any of you
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a quick run down of my stress. Well, My mother is 79, and recently became
engaged. Wow, I want her to be happy. Her boy friend graduated with her. But
she really didn't know him in school. But she really didn't graduate because
she had me in January of 49, but never graduated.
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security checks while working for the post office. It was in the 60's. Well,
she had completely has forgotten that she has an only child me. When there is a
family crisis she ditches it for someone else to do. Like my cousins wife
thinks her husband is stealing money from my 91 year old uncle. She wants me to
tell him to check to see if someone is taking money from his bank account. I've
told her she should because it was her sisters husband, and he would listen to
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and right now my Uncle is probably dying we are sure how long he has. My POA
only checks in when my Aunt can't do it. She is depends on me for support and
comfort. My Mother hasn't call anyone of her friends only to tell them about
her lover. She has dated him for about 3 months. He has a retarded girl, and
she has started to get on moms nerves. When they eat out he has to bring her,
and my mom cooks for them every nite, and has never been to her house. When she
talks to me its about bob bob bob, not how you are. My loving wife says I
should just let her go. she has promised me to go to a lawyer to have her
matters taken care of so I would get what is rightfully mine. They won't get
married if any of there retirement income is affected.
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> > -Ron I looked at it this way the way my last 3 months are going who gives a
crap how old we are, its what counts what we have learned from the old timers
who were our grandparents, and our parents. There were some wise ones back then.
Don't you think. I really did appreciate them, but wish I have ask alot more
questions. I have had such a stressful 3 months all I wish I could do is cry, or
invade a chocolate factory and eat.
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