Hey guys, I really dont know what to say. I'm 19 years old and never been 'officially' diagnosed either with a love addiction or sexual addiction, but all the...
Hi Elf. I'm glad you're here. You seem to have some slight reservation believing that you have a love and/or sexual addiction. Perhaps it would be a good...
Welcome Elf.... I noticed that you wrote your post in the middle of the night. The middle of the night seems to be a common time amongst newly discovered...
Angel... Welcome back. I am sorry it took me so long to get to your post. I had found something in a book I wanted to put into my reply...and couldn't find...
This is one of my biggest challenges in my recovery from sexual addiction/anorexia. My wife and I have decided it's best for us to abstain from sex until I...
Hi- I wrote a long post last night and somehow I did something wrong and it got deleted. I guess it happens sometimes. I can honestly say that I know inside...
hi elf im lalique, newly recovring sex addict. its been a month since my realization, and let me say you're in good hands. you should read a book on the ...
My name is Joe and I'ma addicted to Internet Porn. I have been clean for 53 days which is a miracle for me after almost 7 years of acting out dailey. ...
I went with the .45 semi-auto Joe. It's right on the shelf in my house where it's been for 6 months now. I think about using it daily on myself especially when...
Joe, Welcome -- I think you'll find here a lot of people you may be able to relate to. I am a married porn addict as well, and I have been a sober member of...
Brent, I kinda chuckled when I saw your email. It is humorous, but at the same time holds alot of truth. If I stuck my hand on the stove, and it hurt, I would...
26 years.... my GOD.... this really makes me think that my marriage will end.... Now I know my SA/H has had this problem at least well before I met him so at...
Ron- I so much appreciate your support and understanding and I feel very much for your pain and hurt and frustration. Dealing with this addiction is different...
Karl-- I'd like to ask you, also, to put your gun away- get rid of it-- give it to someone to hold,donate to your local police department--whatever-- just get...
Hi Elf-- welcome! My name is Sophia, I'm a sex addict. I, too, have dealt with cutting ,(not cigs, but drugs), anorexia, bulimia, and sex addiction-- I got...
Its after 3:30 in the morning-and I cannot sleep. Since I have begun to work on my sex addiction, I experience severe anxiety around attending church, and...
Sophia- Know that when you were sleeping some poor soul who knows nothing about how to pray, prayed for you : God bring that precious child comfort and peace...
Joanna.... I have to get to church this morning... and I have ten minutes to get in the car and GO! So I am going to bottom line this and give you a list......
Awww Sophie....so sorry for the spiritual abuse you have suffered. I've had friends who were "demonized" and suffered this way and recovery from the foul,...
Amazing how much recovery hurts. Gone is the medicine, the action, the excitement, the intrigue, the hunt, the total escape fantasy. Gone is the interactive...
" I cannot stop the fear around this issue. It is very much blocking my ability to move forward in this program, I can see that clearly. As well as,...
My Friend Sophia, I appriciate the welcome that you extend. I dont have alot of time to write before I go to church this morning, but I'll write something. ...
I really feel for you. What helps some is to list every power figure in their life. Then list what you learned from that person. Then list the opposite quality...
I always thought my strong sense of sexuality and sensuality was something to be very thankful for.. and it probably is. As a child I didnt know what MB was...
Hey Glenn, I hear you, your story sounds similar to mine with a few exceptions. I married my first real girlfriend, and she was the sex maniac. She ended up...
Tell you what, Glenn... I ain't no female, but I know exactly where you're comin' from. My wife just told me today (believe it, or not) that she wants to...
This is the 2nd post I've read that sounds exactly like my present situation. My wife lashes out at me almost daily and we rehash what my problems are... what...
Sophie, Whether or not God has called you to ministry, I cannot tell you. If he has, than he will open the way for you. I strongly believe the statement "All...