It seems to me that you must be the high and mighty. You post your
group on another forum and expect others to shut up about it. If
you didn't read the IAC agreement before signing that is your
fault! I don't recall the IAC having any control over who a
birthparent chooses. Maybe it is you and not them, ever think about
that? Who is defrauding who here? Nobody said adoption wasn't
painful?


--- In iacopen@yahoogroups.com, "bjornfree2day" <bjornfree2day@y...>
wrote:
> Why does the "get a life" person wish to stiffle those of us who
are
> still reeling from being defrauded? In order to move forward, we
need
> to try and make some meaning of what is an amazingly painful
> experience. We'll move forward when we're ready. Might I suggest,
> "get a life," that you move along now? One wonders, since you
reside
> on a higher plain than the rest of us, why you continue to bother
with
> those of us who are less enlightened. Furthermore, the poor
spelling
> and grammar you employ in your messages suggest a carelessness to
> detail and an inability to communicate clearly: qualities that
> characterize IAC and its founder.