Hi Harman, ... #Do you intend to say you've seen a actualist with another non-actualist or are you referring to the more common situation of one dedicated...
Hi John, ... #Thats interesting. If your free to elaborate, what was the nature of these primal feelings(sexual, security, belonging?). In my present...
... approaching it differently: ultimately, one aims for an actual intimacy with all and one. why not aim for that with one's partner... be it anybody? ... On...
... regarding number 2 I agree with Richard and others and I know that being with a felicitous person does have great benefits. However, most relationships in...
... sounds like a great idea to me!! Personally, I will not look for any relationship but if someone crosses my path, I may not resist either. I am likely to...
And to add a few more thoughts, Aaron 'Love, Love, Love' is at times also the control button that women tend to use. They want to be loved ( read controlled),...
... JJ: Yes, I placed my cards on the table in my last relationship and that was ok until I didn't do what she wanted me to do.:) That was ok though because I...
... #Sensible points indeed my dear sweet fragrance. :)I take it you have intimate knowledge of being with another in actual intimacy? ... #I respectfully...
... #I've never been one to "look for" a relationship . . ..somehow the ladies find me anyways. LOL. Also, in general I've always been a big "laying the cards...
... #Holy cow batman! Thats so obvious, but I must say I forget that fact sometimes. Nice reminder. :) ... They want to be loved ( read controlled), and...
Aaron, It took me 33 years to come to senses and such realization. and i am not rejecting anything, just recognized and realized and understand without doubt...
... while jive talking does not hold good for long, Freedom is all we need! try playing George Michael and see what is the reaction to: all we have to say now,...
Surbi, ... #Yes, I agree....actualism is *not* about rejection per say in any *active* sense of the word(I was not carefull enough with my wording). Clear...
Hi Aaron, ... Aaron: Thats interesting. If your free to elaborate, what was the nature of these primal feelings(sexual, security, belonging?). In my present...
... Hi John, ... #I recognize this from experience. ... #I did not notice this to much in my last relationship, but perhaps that was because I always knew...
G'day, ... # At the time it seemed like I was experiencing my friends repressed emotions in full force. He was going through an extended and emotionally very...
I don't know but yesterday and NOW I got this the-best-one experience in terms of how 'I'-am-not-there, I mean this is the step beyond what I called...
... On the other hand it was only like further 'calibration', cause after some time I seem to manage to fit this above aspect into pure sensuous domain (which...
... How are you so sure? ... So then how do you describe it? ... Can you rephrase the question? Do you mean to ask "what kind of activity is it?" instead of...
hi bart, your accounts are unique in a sense that they describe some extra-ordinary experiences kindled by investigation/exploration. i would like to know if...
... # Sure of what? I am sure because of this experience is wonderful I cannot deny it, it's not cold assessment, I speak out of intensity of it ... and yet I...
... Hi Srini, Outside work, family and one friend that is very open minded and is interested in AF but not only, I have little contact with other people. But...
OK, I will make some further description without judgments of what -it- is. So this experience is deep whatever that means, strong sense of not being anywhere...
... And then it wears off and purely sensual exp. (everything twinkling) ensues, it doesn't have the (fake?) depth as the former. No 'I' is also different, I...
I'm Starting With The Man In The Mirror I'm Asking Him To Change His Ways And No Message Could Have Been Any Clearer If You Wanna Make The World A Better Place...
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