05.05.08
Stepfamily
Teens Don’t Do As Well in School, Says Study
A
new study by
Teens
in the most complicated family arrangement of all — those with both half-
and step siblings — like the 1968 movie “Yours, Mine and Ours”
remade in 2005 — fared better than those who live with only step-siblings
or only half-siblings. Tillman theorized that the parents’ decision in
these more complicated families to have a biological child together may reflect
a stable relationship.
The
study, published in the journal Social Science Research, found boys living with
half- or step-siblings appear to have the hardest time coping, with average
GPAs one-quarter of a letter grade lower than boys who live with only full
siblings.
Girls
with half- or step-siblings also had lower GPAs than those living with only
full siblings, but the difference was much smaller. Boys and girls in these
types of families also had more school behavioral problems, such as trouble
paying attention, getting homework done and getting along with teachers and
other students.
In an FSU news release, Tillman commented and theorized
that:
”We
cannot assume that over time, children will naturally ‘adjust’ to
the new roles and relationships that arise when families are blended,”
she said. “This research indicates that the effects of new stepsiblings
or half siblings may actually become more negative over time or, at the least,
remain consistently negative.”
“Lower
social and financial investments may signal to children a lack of parental
interest and lower expectations for academic achievement and college
attendance,” she said. “In turn, youth in stepfamilies may be less
likely to get academic assistance when needed, less likely to work for higher
grades and more likely to act out at school.”
The study also drew attention from the
Super Nanny website. What is truly scary is that in the study -
relationships among stepsiblings tended not to improve with time - it should be
noted that only 1% of the youth in the study fell into the category of having
both step-siblings and half-siblings.
I’m curious
to see how long she looked at those relationships - since many of us stepmoms
hang our hopes on “things getting better” with time. My experience
has been that our lives and my personal relationships with my stepchildren have
improved with time, but I also did not bring biological children into my
marriage, which eliminated the competition factor.
I
would also be curious about how the length of custody arrangements impacted the
results - are we talking step-kids rotating households on the
weekends, on 60/40, 50/50 or living 100% of the time alongside step-siblings?
And how involved is the other parent in the child’s life?
Stepfamilies
- I think these results are a call to us to talk about how we can provide more
support for children living in stepfamilies and epecially more
support for their education and well-being.
Stepmoms
out there - what do you think about this study? I welcome your comments to
this blog!
The Orlando Sentinel is also
inviting comments about the study on its blog.
Comment and see this post online http://thestepfamilylife.com/blog3/2008/05/05/stepfamily-teens-dont-do-as-well-in-school-says-study/
Dawn Miller
Writer, www.TheStepfamilyLife.com
Advice & Help for the Blended Family Journey