This group if for guys who -for many good reasons -don't relate to the "gay" community. Whether you dig females too or just guys; -you're part of the whopping +63% of men who experience some degree of same gender attraction!
A large percentage of this silent majority are guys who have internal guideposts regarding what is appropriate male-bonding behavior. Contrary to "gay" media, -such guys are heavily influenced by guys exhibiting RESPECT, PRINCIPLE, & SELF-SACRIFICING COMPASSION; -while simultaneously repulsled by guys who are selfish, petty, & effeminate (especially detested are guys who play the 'female-role' or expect other's to). See the Related Link Below.
So now you have a roommate & he's hott. The goal is to build a genuine friendship that deepens to confort w. physical contact ASAP. From there, you'll discover if he's part of the "+63% minority" ;-) too!
This entire approach is based on principles that are ancient & yet, often forgotten/ignored in virtually all modern publications (especially gAy)! My roommate in college was a stud. By the end of the 1st semester, we were best friends. By the middle of the 2nd, we regularly slept together, showered together & shared everything -while keeping the most intimate details on the DL. Everyone presumed that we were simply str8 best friends & besides, -he still dated females.
How did it work? Because we were all about genuine respect, discretion, dignity & deep friendship. We watched each others back & we never treated each other as anything less than 100% male. Half way thru the 1st semester is when I gave him a massage after we got back to the dorm from working out. It was casual, but he was hooked fast. It became a regular thing & I was soon rubbing on him all night. Sleeping together after massage became the precursor to gentle wrestling & cockfights to deflate the tension of morning wood. Eventually, 'wood' was generally tendered long before morning (usually before sleeping). Not "gAy"; -"G0Y"! Visit us!