It's tough enough trying to find your own path. It becomes more difficult when you're a guy who happens to luv other guys, -especially when you don't relate to the mainstream "gay-male community"! Then there's all the pressure the church applies! The combination of pressures has caused more than one guy to give up! It turns out that about +63% of the population has these same feelings (& you thought you were the only one, right?)! However, there's a new men's movement for all of the guys who luv guys but can't stand what "gay" is sold as being! It's called "G0Y" (spelled w. a ZER0). The G0YS' movement is all about: Masculine-Respect, Discretion & Trust. It has also completely proven the church wrong on the issue of same gender attractions! It turns out that the Scriptures never forbade same-gender intimacy (what they prohibit is AnalSex)! And now we know that AnalSex spreads diseases explosively (+5000% more often that 0ral alone)! It's also disgusting, degrading, physically harmful, & treats a guy like a poor version of a woman! Most guys feel these things instinctively & most guys (even those who luv guys), would NEVER do that to a buddy or submit to it themselves! The gAy-male community is immoral by their accepting AnalSex; & that stigma is why most men are offended by "gay". G0YS, however, don't act in ways that would degrade or disrespect their buddies' masculinity. G0YS don't b1tch men! G0YS are about building best friendships that can get as close as friends want -without either being afraid that the other is going to disrespect his manhood. G0YS are about building friendships so close that buddies feel comfortable sharing together what they'd normally do alone (Understand?)! G0YS is a new way of thinking about close friendships that doesn't model M/M bonding -after M/F. G0YS are guys who luv guys AS guys; -& since g0ys know that most guys are potentially g0ys (+63%) anyhow, there is no need to "come out". Instead, g0ys value discretion! See Related Link!