Remember that everyone has beauty within, confidence is everything. Big women and really, all women have been forced into a corner in terms of their bodies, please accept yourselves as you are. Fat can be fit. Live for today. For the guys, if you truly desire a big woman as your lover, please use the forum to express this. There is so much negativity towards big women and men, be yourself, be happy and healthy and everything else will fall into place. I would also like to host singles parties in Perth, and will be selling size positive publications and selling cool positive tees. This forum will no longer be utilised, please visit www.curvesarecool.com.au (to be launched end of June 08) for more information.