Welcome to the NorCal CDSO Yahoo group! This is a private support group for wives and significant others of MtFs. We are affiliated with the River City Gems, but are open to ALL genetic women in Northern California who are in a transgender relationship.

This forum is a safe, loving place where you can express your feelings without the fear of being criticized. Here you can talk to others who will listen and understand. We are not professional counselors, but we are here to help.

We are a diverse group of women. Some of us may have just discovered this new facet to our lives, and others have lived with it for many years. Some accept it and enjoy it, while others do not accept any part of it. Most are somewhere in between, with good days and bad days. All levels of acceptance will be honored here. We can all learn from each other and we ALL need support sometimes.

Please remember that this is a private forum for SOs only. In order to join, you must have your own email address and you must agree not to share access to this forum with any non-member, including your partner. This is to protect the privacy of our members. While you may not discuss other members' personal information with anyone, we DO encourage you to share your own thoughts and feelings with your partner.

PLEASE make sure that the email you supply when you submit your membership request is a valid email account that you check regularly! We will need to contact you when we receive your request, and we cannot do this if your email address does not work. Thank you!