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... Greetings, I've never created an "individual" photo album at Yahoo!, but the enclosed advice makes sense to me because we are well past September 20 and...
There hasn't been much activity here lately, yet I see every week or so we get a few new members. Hello, there! Are you all lurking? I've been visiting other...
... DarkVictoryOnline I went back to natural 8, almost 9, years ago and it was the best decision I ever made for me and my hair. I too was sad to hear all the...
Namaste, I have encountered this response numerous times. I usually respond by complimenting their hair, answer questions, give recipes, offer free samples of...
DarkVictoryOnline, I've heard many. I think the most common is I don't think I would look right - my head is too big, too little, too _________. Someone said...
DarkVictoryOnline, I just tell them that they really can and when they get ready to change they will. It really is a state of accepting yourself for who you...
DarkVictoryOnline, I would say that maybe its not meant for you if there is a but there because if you are not comfortable with something and you always...
... DarkVictoryOnline, I guess I really didn'tanswer the question. I tell people you can do it. I always tell them it was the best decision I could have made...
Hi, I actually have been really disappointed myself about how my hair is now that I am transitioning. I was convinced to get a relaxer in 10th grade and it...
Hi, I have read your message posts after stumbling across your link. Originally I saw no reason to join as I belong to enough hair groups that provide...
DarkVictoryOnline & sankeks, It takes a lot of self love & courage to just be who the Lord made you, it takes a lot. It's something that can't be taught, it's...
Hi, This is a really interesting post. A few weeks ago, I wondered why so many people with natural hair will say awful things about a person that chooses to...
Hey, I believe that a woman's crown is her hair. She should be free to wear it as she pleases. It takes a certain level of confidence to wear your hair truly ...
Sharlene: Why? Internalized racism. We've been told for hundreds of years that we are not beautiful because of the color of our skin and the texture of our...
Sharlene, i'm really feeling what you wrote. it's just real talk. Black women need to start giving little girls the power to know that they are just fine with...
Jaclyn, Very interesting questions and these are the questions that kinky/nappy/coily haired people need to start asking. We need to know the what/where/why/...
t. jackson: How can black women "give little girls the power to know they are just fine with their natural hair" when they themselves are not powerful to stop...
NATURAL GROOMING, I have a dream that one day there will be a program in elementary schools for little Black and biracial girls that show them the beauty of...
NATURAL GROOMING, Well, I have to throw myself into those hyprocritical groups! lol At least I admit it--no shame in my game. I love to color my hair. I am all...
... t. jackson, And to that question, there are millions of black woman who have no response let alone an answer. I suffered for years as a child wanting an...
Sharlene, There is so much honesty (beauty) in your post. We've lost truly who we are and worst yet some of us KNOW that we have lost our ability to define...
Beautiful vision Tish, It's sad that peoople with sub-Saharan African ethnicity or racial features aren't taught anything; whether via home, school or media...
Thanks for your comments Sharlene, I just had a daughter and to tell the truth my goal is to show how beauty is REALLY suppose to be I will tell her that God...
... look right - my head is too big, too little, too _________. Hello, clstin31. I've heard that "head too big" one a lot, too, along with "my face is too...
... that--that person over there is human. So instead of taking them to task, maybe just try asking them about their experiences on that topic, trying to see...
sankeks, Wow, that was beautiful. If I had had someone from an early age to advocate for my own natural beauty it would have sounded like how you described...