Studies since 1948 have repeatedly shown that a whopping +63% of the population experiences some degree of Same Gender Attraction (SGA)! The Greeks knew this 3000 years ago! So why is it that the modern world seems bent on a Gay/Straight dichotomy with Ambi(Bi)Sexuality seen as a "minority" -when the fact is that Ambisexual people outnumber the "completely gay/straight" populations combined! And why is it that men -by far - virtually all claim to be "straight" (-10%) when we know that two-thirds of them experience SGA?
It is now obvious that anyone who can play it "100% straight" usually does. Those predominantly same-gender attracted are who "stick out" (but only the periphery). This is where the estimate of "10%-gay" comes from. But why do men shun the gay label so "religiously".
It has to do with the OVERALL perceptions of what men with SGA "do"; -& that is framed by the "gay media" & those who parrot it.
The overwhelming fact is that most men find the stigmas & stereotypes connected to the term "GAY" to be repugnant to their sense of ethics! Many men are disgusted by the concepts of AnalSex & GenderPhuck. Those traits have been so closely promoted as integral to the "gay lifestyle" that many men who happen to experience SGA, utterly reject the "GAY label" because fear of "gay-stigma" overrides their own SGA!
The core issue is NOT M2M intimacy. It's being associated w. "GAY STIGMAS" that the majority finds extremely unethical (for good reasons)!
1000 BC Greece welcomed M2M intimacy. However, AnalSex was generally ILLEGAL! Men who acted soft (like women) were ostracised: As Eunuchs.
In Greece, culture esteemed "Masculine Respect" & shunned acts that debased it. They considered virtually every man "BI"! However, men were NEVER to be used as a female proxy. Such disrespect was criminal! When "Alex & Tim" made luv, neither got b1tched!
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