Asalmu Aleikum dear Sisters and Brothers,

When a woman discovers she is pregnant, her and her husband’s joyful time begins. From praying that he child will be healthy to arguing about the right name, from days filled off nausea to days filled with love for the unborn. From dreaming about the future with the child to impatiently waiting for the baby’s arrival etc.

But sometimes, our Creator Allah (t) has different plans and the pregnancy suddenly ends. From one hour being happy and pregnant, to the next hour when you know your child went to the best destination, Allah (t). Dreams and hopes are shattered and life surrounding you goes on as if nothing has happened.

This group is for Muslimas & Muslims who lost one or more children to miscarriage, stillbirth, or SIDS. This group is here to give mutual spiritual support to the members and start the healing process after trauma.

We have lost our precious little Sarah at 22 weeks of gestation. She was born alive but lived only for a few minutes. Her little body was perfect but she was too small to survive. Sarah is our first child and if we will have any other children inshallah, we will tell them about their big sister and wonder together what she might be like.

Sarah, we will always honor you, love and miss you. Until we see you again inshallah, you are in our hearts.

The Prophet said, upon him peace, "The miscarried child will pester its glorious and mighty Lord for His entering its two parents into the Fire until it is told, 'O miscarried child that pesters its Lord! Enter your father and mother into Paradise.' Then it will drag them with its umbilical cord until it makes them enter Paradise." Ibn Majah and Abu Ya`la from `Ali.