I have a copy of 99 Ways To Drive Your Child Sane by Brita St. Clair. It's just what it says: 99 different ideas, some of them a bit crazy, to deal with the...
My little RAD(ishes) would love for me to sell my copy! They think it is the worst book ever written! I Love it! --Bev ... Clair. It's ... deal ... It may ...
Oh goodness..you have no idea how wonderful that news is. Oh wait..you probably do! LOL!!  OK Deb Krug 6892 Wellington Drive Derby, New York 14047 and...
We got cus of him 3 years ago and its been a rollercoster since ,he was also molested by his mothers dad, so we are dealing with that as well , we have had...
Slow down  Breathe   Go to www.nancythomasparenting.com and see if there is a local therapist in your area who does attachment therapy. Also, you can go...
Hello, A friend of mine told me about this group, as we have a 2 yr old girl adopted from Guatemala with whom we are having significant attachment issues. We...
Welcome Jen! You will find a lot of support in here. Her are some sites that are helpful to our famil. check them out. www.nancythomasparenting.com ...
PS Jen.... It does get better. After 4 years our son has stopped raging and actually follows directions pretty well. He regresses sometimes but we are 5 steps...
well i really was trying but my husband left w/ryan he says he cant deal anymore and of course the stress has caused us to drift apart, im in shock didnt think...
Hi All, It has been awhile since I posted here. We have a RAD daughter age 9 who we had to place in a residential setting in October. We are hoping to have...
Jen,  Welcome to the group!! This group has helped me tremendously. Although sometimes it seems we are quiet, posts are always answered.  My husband...
Oh sweetie, I am so sorry. It's not your fault. Your son is challenged and your husband is uninformed. I hope you have someone close to you to help you fight...
Thanks Deb , I am happy to report that we meet and had had a breakdown crying he says he loves me and asked to come home he just doesnt know what to do with...
Hi there, I just joined the group, but it looks like it might now be anymore? Anyway, if anyone is out there I am Jennifer. I have two children, 6 and 4 years....
I am so happy to hear that you are going to fight together and not each other!! Such a wonderful plan you have! There are many things you can and should do...
Hi Jen, Â Â Â Well doesn't that bite! Not only were you sick with cancer now the result is a kid with RAD. Well, thankfully you know what you are dealing with...
Laurie, I'm glad you two have decided to work together and take time for yourselves. RAD kids are masters at pitting everyone in the family against each...
Pat, I read your comment about love below and wanted to ask what are the ways that you think these children feel or understand love? I've noticed that my...
Laurie, Do you have a close friend or family member that you can "train" to care for your RAD child? If you have confidence in a care giver, it will really...
Dear DiAnn, Â Â Â Â Â Kudos to you grandma! I can't tell you what I'd have given these past difficult years for just one grandparent natural or otherwise to...
Ditto on that although I do have to say grandma here has done some modifications just don't think she sees anything as not normal....RAD kids are darn good at...
I'm actually not that inspiring. I just have the world's greatest daughter who is an awesome mom. My daughter has been given, in my opinion, more than her...
Hi, I'm a newbie here, too! My husband and I are currently adopting two little girls who have been diagnosed with RAD. They are 7 and 8, in 1st and 2nd grade....
Hey there, Sadly, that's the misunderstanding our society has with RAD. My husband and I are in the process of adopting two boys, the oldest has RAD and...
I just want to say my hat is off to you both because walking into a RAD situation knowingly takes a lot of guts! I have a 3 1/2 year old daughter with RAD...