So, you're pretty much a regular guy, but you've noticed something happening lately between you & a bud. The relationship is getting closer & you find yourself getting wood around him & your feelings are getting pretty intense too. It's like the friendship has been wound up to "11" on a scale of 1 to 7! Getting warm?
While neither of you really identify with "gay"; -The fact remains that it's the most intense friendship you've ever had with anyone & you have certain "feelings" that society asserts should only be had for females. Well, before you decide to march in any parades (or worse); -Let me cue you into some interesting facts.
1) +63% of the population experiences some degree of Same Gender Affections! The MAJORITY!
2) The "thing" that calls itself "gay" represents less than 10% of the population! This leaves +53% somewhere in the "middle". Over half!
3) +3000 years ago, everyone in Greece knew this & it WASN'T taboo. Dudes were hooking up with dudes (& chicks). What was TABOO was any guy playing the female role. Yeah, -guys who gave/took "it" up the arse were considered criminals & UNmen. Greece wasn't alone in that view. What they openly knew about guys into guys is still universal (has to be -as human nature doesn't change). The UNmen are still around too. They constitute modern "gays" & they're why most men who love their buddies are scared sh1tless to admit it: Because they find the gay male community repulsive & don't want to be ASSociated...
So, if you're a guy falling for a bud, -you both seriously need to check out the g0ys (spelled w. a zer0) at the Related Link nearby. What you'll discover is a rapidly growing group of guys who love guys & don't give up their respect or masculine image for even a second! G0YS are about trust, respect, discretion, gentleness & real masculine affection -without ever bending gender roles! See, it's not about WHO you love, but HOW! Luv'n a Bud can be awesome without needing to become "gay"! Confused? Visit the g0ys!