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hi i have had enough all my mum has done to me this week is pick on me saying what a bad daughter i am how i only think of myself how my problems have been...
laura
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Nov 2, 2008
7:38 pm
1783
Would it be worse if you did? Hannah ... [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]...
Hannah
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Nov 2, 2008
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1784
I really dont know i will look in to it though if she wants me out that badly ... From: Hannah <oopsiedoop@...> Subject: Re: [ControllingParents] need...
laura downie
lausmokey
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Nov 2, 2008
8:43 pm
1785
Don't you want out of that?...
Hannah
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Nov 2, 2008
10:42 pm
1786
You might want a trial separation for a while so you get the opportunity to see your siutation outside the perspective of your parents and then see if living...
disc8186
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Nov 3, 2008
11:37 am
1787
Hi Tracy, hope all is going well with you!!! First of all, thanks for the good words. I've been doing a lot of research and reading on this plus my...
disc8186
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Nov 3, 2008
11:53 am
1788
yes very badly but when i went down to the organisation that got me a flat before they cant help me this time that is probably cos they were able to get me a...
laura downie
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Nov 3, 2008
4:07 pm
1789
This isn't a "big" thing, in fact something that enraged me happened over the weekend, but I've been fairly successful lately at keeping a distance from my...
whoopsiedoop
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Nov 4, 2008
9:03 pm
1790
Wonderful!? Sounds like you are doing great and taking care of YOU first, which is just how it should be! hugs tracy ... From: disc8186 <disc8186@...> ...
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Nov 5, 2008
6:50 pm
1792
Thanks Tracy for the good words. I hope all is well with you & your loved ones. I'm taking it day by day. The latest update was that this past Wednesday, my...
disc8186
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Nov 10, 2008
5:23 am
1793
It sounds as if you are taking control of your life not a moment too soon.? I am sure your parents (and the conflict with them) are a big part of the problemw...
Tracy
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Nov 10, 2008
3:26 pm
1794
tonight has been the final straw for me last night my mum asked my brother and i if we would wash up now normally my brother is a lazy useless B*****d and wont...
laura
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Nov 10, 2008
11:20 pm
1795
er..I think it's a better idea to take control of your life back from her than give in completely and kill yourself. That's basically what I decided. Hannah ...
Hannah
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Nov 10, 2008
11:32 pm
1796
well luckly i came to my senses and didnt kill myself but i have had some bad news today i got told by work that the person i was ment to go to this afternoon...
laura
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Nov 11, 2008
12:29 pm
1797
Are you able to support yourself? ... [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]...
Hannah
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Nov 11, 2008
2:17 pm
1798
im on job seekers allowance and do  three hours a week ... From: Hannah <oopsiedoop@...> Subject: Re: [ControllingParents] came to my senses To:...
laura downie
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Nov 11, 2008
2:25 pm
1799
Is the allowance enough to support you?...
Hannah
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Nov 11, 2008
2:35 pm
1800
no and neither is three hours aweek but they are trying to put my hours up ... From: Hannah <oopsiedoop@...> Subject: Re: [ControllingParents] came to my...
laura downie
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Nov 11, 2008
2:39 pm
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Are there any other avenues you can use to look for work? Could you go on full unemployment? Could you get into an assisted living situation?...
Hannah
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Nov 11, 2008
2:51 pm
1802
assissted living i was in assissted living i had a flat and a support worker cos of my mental health problems i was told i could have forty hours work i wasnt...
laura downie
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Nov 11, 2008
3:03 pm
1803
So once you're in assisted living there's no possibility of working? Which would you rather do?...
Hannah
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Nov 11, 2008
3:16 pm
1804
i couldnt work cos i was getting  houseing benefit and i could only earn a small amount of money which wouldnt be enough to support me ... From: Hannah...
laura downie
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Nov 11, 2008
3:21 pm
1805
Right, that's what I mean, once you get into assisted living you can't work? What if you want to and had no other place to go? ... [Non-text portions of this...
Hannah
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Nov 11, 2008
3:29 pm
1806
well i know i made a mistake but i do need money to support myself even if i was in assissted living i need money for water bill electric bill and food for...
laura downie
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Nov 11, 2008
3:36 pm
1807
but once you're in assisted living you can't work for those? ... [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]...
Hannah
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Nov 11, 2008
3:41 pm
1808
yeah but its not just bills is  it its also things like food how would i afford that ... From: Hannah <oopsiedoop@...> Subject: Re: [ControllingParents]...
laura downie
lausmokey
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Nov 11, 2008
3:44 pm
1809
Well, getting a job that supports you is not easy, I agree with that. I wonder what other people think about that. Hannah ... [Non-text portions of this...
Hannah
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Nov 11, 2008
3:50 pm
1810
i dont know but i should be getting more hours soon. mum doesnt believe im getting any though ... From: Hannah <oopsiedoop@...> Subject: Re:...
laura downie
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Nov 11, 2008
3:53 pm
1811
Well that's not the issue. The issue is how you really can support yourself. ... [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]...
Hannah
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Nov 11, 2008
4:09 pm
1812
well if i get more hours i can support myself ... From: Hannah <oopsiedoop@...> Subject: Re: [ControllingParents] came to my senses To:...
laura downie
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Nov 11, 2008
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