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  • Members: 234
  • Category: Parenting
  • Founded: Dec 1, 2005
  • Language: English
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Parents agree to care for support and raise children until they can do so themselves. At that time, the parent moves to Hawaii, Costa Rica or some such tropical place where gambling is legal and property is cheap. The kids take over working and paying all the taxes.

Some parents however, fail to see the appeal in this and choose instead, to dedicate their beach time making sure their children live correctly. Or, at least what the parent sees as living correctly.

The members of this list are children of these parents. In this list we choose to share what we will, or not. There is no charge for lurking. All of us are somewhere along a path, and we all have to find our own unique way down it.

Some call it abusive, co-dependent, controlling, emotional abuse*, covert insects*, over entanglement. It has no solid name and a very murky definition. Most social service agencies have not pinned down that definition and so have no real way of fighting it the way they can with physical abuse. This list then is mainly concerned with non physical forms of abuse as, malicious gossiping, legal and system abuse, crazymaking, emotional abuse, verbal battering and mental abuse, deliberately creating divisiveness among siblings and other relatives, isolation, and stalking and harassment. The words of the members of this list will hopefully someday soon create that definition and provide a catalyst for change among agencies currently dealing with eliminating domestic abuse in all its forms.

Please note that our archives are not hidden and can be found using search engines. This can result in your not being anonymous if you provide or post specific information about yourself. Keep in mind Controlling parents have been known to join. It is not inconceivable that you have been followed. While using your real name is not forbidden, please use caution regarding any personal information you choose to post. Thanks for participating in the group.

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Re: Contrlling Parent , and I am 47 years old .
Well Rhoda , if you feel that you should get an Attorney to see if they can assist you in this , because I tell you I am not putting up with no more of what
Posted - Thu Dec 17, 2009 9:24 pm
Michele Cooper
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Re: Contrlling Parent , and I am 47 years old .
I wanted to respond back not only to hannah , but to those of you who are on this site . I am a middle age adult . I have 2 more years before I am officially
Posted - Thu Dec 17, 2009 7:32 pm
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Re: Contrlling Parent , and I am 47 years old .
There's no "just" about it. It is violence and potentially quite dangerous. I was paddled right through my teens and it still occurs sometimes now. ...
Posted - Wed Dec 16, 2009 10:25 pm
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Re: Contrlling Parent , and I am 47 years old .
I guess I shouldn't use the word hit but it is being hit, even if it's "just" being slapped around. A child gets spanked, on the fanny, in a controlled manner
Posted - Wed Dec 16, 2009 9:13 pm
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Re: Contrlling Parent , and I am 47 years old .
It's a relief of sorts to know I'm not unique.Hitting sounds very dangerous. I am just spanked in the classical fashion which is demeaning and painful but not
Posted - Wed Dec 16, 2009 5:40 pm
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