Aggression, erections, muscles, sports, sweat, strength, sexdrive & testosterone: MALE. It's what I AM & it's what I LUV. What's nuts is that we live in a culture where people automatically think about "butt-fukk'n" when someone says "gAy" - so we're staying away from the 'gAy' label!
A whopping +63% of ALL guys experience some degree of extreme attraction for some of their peers & the pressure to "get the feelings straight" is overwhelming, & very often, -the battle is completely private (unshared & unspoken). Why? Bluntly: Nobody wants to be associated with being a "FA6".
The public perception (promoted heavily by 'gay-male media') generally is that men who love other guys are "girly", cowardly & worst of all -into AnalSex. My idea of getting to know a buddy is N0T by climbing up his arse! Most guys find those attributes extremely UNmasculine & UNethical! It isn't really an issue about who you love -as much as being associated with guys who aren't really "men" in their heart. What guy wants to be part of any group perceived like that! Why not just cut your nads off, instead?
This applies to lots of really solid religious guys, too. They think the "Scritpures" forbid SameSex intimacy, -but what those writing actually forbid (specifically) is a 'guy playing the female role' (specifically - AnalSex)! Has your church/synagogue lied to you? Probably! The evidence is IN those very Scriptures themselves when carefully studied in context & in the original texts. We've got proof!
So, lots of guys keep their warm buddy-feelings private & carefully, discretely hook-up with like-minded buds (guys who are all about masculine-respect, discretion & trust). Keeping it on the DL preserves guys' integrity as well. The fact of the matter is: Men have tremendous latitude in the nature of their friendships as long as respect, trust & discretion are held in high-esteem. Loving a guy AS A GUY can be an awesome experience (called 'G0Y')!
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