This is the AUTHENTIC Brotherhood Of Men (BOM) hub-group. It has survived attacks from the left & right. You see, the BOM (an offshoot of http://g0ys.org), is a group for normal guys who just happen to also be warm on other guys (Same Gender Attractions). However, unlike the low-brow groups that label themselves "BOM", -THIS GROUP fully RESPECTS men & does not cross lines that confound gender, nor treat men as proxies for women. We don't entertain nor tolerate disease-spreading fetishes such as analSex! If you're into krap like that, then you're not one of us. BOM doesn't ButtSlut!
This group is in this category because we wanted to make men aware of the fact that there is an alternative to the "gay-male paradigm" - embracing a love for masculinity - while completely rejecting the icons, stigmas & fetishes that society (& the gay-male-community itself) has attached to the term "gay". We are a group for men who feel uncomfortable with that term -because we feel uncomfortable with the imagery "gay" generates in the mind's-eye of the public psyche. At this point, we feel that the word "gay" has suffered irreparable damage & the term carries with it -much more "baggage" than who you simply bond with. As a result, the alternative term "g0y" has been created - spelled with a ZER0. With the definition of this new term firmly set at the g0ys.org website, this movement stands on it's own merits & is a call back to the moral fortitude, honor & spiritual dignity that is at the heart of masculinity. Real men are men of character, virtue & a sense of integrity that do not compromise just-behavior for brief interludes of decadence nor trade the soundness of character for the wages of cowardice. A man of integrity won't prostitute his ideals. From that foundation springs the mind & body of a heroic man. We are the men who understand that love may give a cuddle-buddy a "helping-hand"; -but will never seek to proxy a bro's arse in leu of female anatomy! G0Y: Quite UNgay! BOM!